My girlfriend cheated with my best friend (showing real text messages)

SalporinRP · 2020-03-12T04:30:21+00:00

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VasiliyZaitzev · 2020-03-12T06:40:45+00:00

I can't watch all of this through, but I skimmed it and the last point at which he should have just broken all contact and moved on was once he had confirmation of her flight. The.LAST.point. There were red flags before that. But he should have hard nexted both of them at that point and moved on.

If you are in a live-in situation - don't be - but if you are, and she moves out? It's basically over, except for the denouement.

The "friend" is NOT a friend. "It's nothing sexual." Bullshit. His penis is "friends" with her vagina.

This guy is WAAAAAAY too invested in keeping her, and SIMPing her onto a pedestal. Are they Mormons? I see SLC, and Mormons really push the "Disney" on themselves.

Evidently this is a year after the events, and this dude is WAAAAAAY too stuck on this situation. This is what the Blue Pill does to you. These two shitheads are living in his head, rent-free.

Lessons He Should Have (But Did Not) Learn: She's not yours, it's just your turn. Once it's over, drop her and move on. Also, if he was maintaining sexual relationships with multiple women, none of this would be a problem.

HauntingPlatypus · 2020-03-12T08:25:03+00:00

He plucked her pubes for his best friend.. My lorddd.

LongTimeOn · 2020-03-12T06:23:59+00:00

The hampstering on her part is amazing. How they're able to square a circle in their heads and even after fucking someone over in the worst way, gaslighting them...they still tip up later in like nothing has happened and it doesn't matter. Women are incapable of any sort of loyalty or decency.

sean_of_anarchy · 2020-03-12T20:17:31+00:00

Dude seriously needs to find the red pill. Surprised he hasn't yet.

I'm a web dev too, and I can tell you that most men in this field, or tech in general, are utter simps. Tim Berner's Lee just recently stated how the internet is "not a safe space for women".

falconiawillfall · 2020-03-12T11:26:54+00:00

This guy reminds me of myself a while back. No abundance mentality and trying to rationalise shitty behaviour and a lack of loyalty on the girl’s part.

Really would’ve saved himself a lot of undue stress if he just had an ounce of self respect and ghosted her and his “friend” after she sent that first text.

Yakatonker · 2020-03-12T14:31:11+00:00

Cringe inducing, and here I thought this was just a meme. There are some interesting pointers in this excessive video. The girl did not like to be sexual with him, and maybe initially she started the relationship where in there being some attraction. However the hard working beta killed it off with excess prejudice. You can also tell by his rambling at the end he has very little experience with women and that it doesn't seem he's internalized much, even though he knows of Rollo's work.

TDLR, beta stereotype gets cheated on, fails to internalize much of anything but some sort of unconscious realization that women are likely viewing him as nothing more than a cash machine.

Brutal13 · 2020-03-12T22:02:58+00:00

TLDR: His gf fucked raw with his old childhood friend 0:50:00;

That friend accused him that OP doing good at his work but has no time for GF and friends.

What a lame move to say like that. Spend more time with me if you are a friend.

Good RP example video.

Also, that part where he speaks GF and him discussing cheating. And she would say: cheating is bad etc. Marvelous.

drkinferno72 · 2020-03-12T15:10:26+00:00

Clearly not your best friend

OPs_Real_Mom · 2020-03-12T17:19:24+00:00

I've been following this guy for quite sometime, he mostly talks about self reliance and not to depend on employment or romanticise it, basically like the red pill when it comes to dev jobs and job hunting.

This isn't the first time something like this has happened to him, he is divorced (he got married at 20, he moved all the way to Finland for pussy). He's too hang up on her.

He mentions in the video he is reading a Rollo book and talking in TRP lingo so I hope he gets better and doesn't repeat the cycle.

liondrius · 2020-03-12T17:12:38+00:00

In the beginning was thinking, nah, this dude is really telling only a part of the history, the sad music, the bullshit about the dogs crying, I thought he was showing himself intentionally naive and victimized to win sympathies.

But the part when he asked her if she had sexual relations with the other dude was so beta, that shit can't be faked, wtf.

Others have already remarked his mistakes, but for someone so lonely and naive to man up and don't give seconds opportunities takes nuts, many blue pills would have fallen into the trap of forgiving or feeling guilty (he was guilty of putting her on a pedestal and being very naive, yes, but everything else is the fault of Hoe and Chad).

when_its_too_late · 2020-03-13T19:00:52+00:00

Man I had like a word for word similar experience. Except she went to a party. She didn't party, didn't drink, didn't go out much. Her excuse is "her friends dragged her their and made her drink" yeah yeah yeah. If she's not at work, at home, or with you, she's cheating. Easy.

monsieurhire2 · 2020-03-15T04:57:11+00:00

This guy is trying to have it both ways.

He is clearly familiar with the TRP, as he uses some of the terminology, i.e. "captain / first-mate" dynamic, the use of "dread-game," not wanting to get get married, etc.

However, what did he think would happen? And why does he care so much?

I mean, the girl wanted to get married, she told him as much, and on multiple occasion. She tried different tactics to get him to budge, but nothing worked. He held all the cards, or so he thought.

The only card he didn't hold was that he actually gave a shit. He wanted her to stay. He wanted her to be his LTR.

Except he wouldn't actually legally commit to her.

Meanwhile, she's watching her youth slip away. Four years of it. Four years of fucking a guy, but there are no guarantees. He says he wants to be with her, but he can leave her at any time, and she has nothing to show for it, except that she's four years older, way less marketable, and if he dumps her out of the blue, it will take her time to recover, psychologically from the shock.

So what does she do? She slowly starts to distance herself and seek out other options. The friend may not have even been the first guy. There may have been others. She wanted him to know.

And there he is, crying big crocodile tears. I mean, he got four years of free sex without any commitment or entanglement, and now he's free to pursue whoever. Meanwhile, her prospects have gone down.

I think he got the better end of the deal, but he doesn't realize it, because he actually had feelings for her, but wasn't willing to understand that it wasn't going to work because neither side was willing to budge.

He should have ended it earlier and found a woman willing to live by his terms, instead of one that was only pretending to for the purposes of seeing if she could get him to budge.

hauntedsaint · 2020-03-15T15:50:08+00:00

Why go MGTOW? This video tells you

2020-03-12T15:34:01+00:00

oof man that is really rough, i really wish you would have said "its over" after you found the flight info and NEVER texted or communicated again. i guess its time to move on and if your ever in the same situation again you'll know what to do

chadtwashington · 2020-03-19T12:17:47+00:00

Fact is dude spent almost an hour too long giving a shit about it on video. Women are trash. Other men will always do you dirty if you let them. You're on your own. Deal with it.

Title	My girlfriend cheated with my best friend (showing real text messages)
Author	fuckyallmat
Upvotes	59
Comments	63
Date	March 12, 2020 3:35 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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