Guy is allowed to spend 5% of his salary - And his wife wants to take it

debanked · 2019-12-25T07:36:43+00:00

This is the difference between equality and equal opportunity

It started with equality (we'll let's just pretend). They each used their fair share as they decided. Both had an equal opportunity.

Now he leveraged his share better and delayed his gratification, now she wants another cut

This mirrors what is happening in the big (clown) world

Fuck that

ThrowawayGYOW · 2019-12-25T09:09:06+00:00

OMG reading through the comments on that post were INFURIATING!!!

They are literally looking for every little reason in the world to call him the asshole:

You should've taught her how to invest
You should've split your "extra money" earnings with her, because it's income you made
Her gas consumption will probably go up now
You should have at least told her you were gonna do it. Oh you did? Well you're still an asshole
Are you paying the insurance from your "extra money"? Oh you are? Well then YTA because of electricity
IPhone costs $100 per year to charge and a Tesla costs $600 per year

I feel like i'm choking on all these red pills. I had to get out of there.

Mr_Crick84 · 2019-12-25T08:02:08+00:00

This is really pathetic, He talks about the 5% as if that's his salary, What about the other 95%? Why the fuck would you want to in a situation like this, He sounds like she's his master.

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T08:04:56+00:00

One of the comments summed it up perfectly:

"Isn't this the same as when we were little kids and I got pissed off because I ate my chocolate as soon as I got it instead of waiting, and the kid next to me waited and got extra?"

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T07:43:09+00:00

I'm pissed off just by reading it

proxyreaver8 · 2019-12-25T10:07:19+00:00

Remember men, "what's hers is hers what's yours is hers". Fuck that noise and just go your own way so you can live a life of peace and quiet

Ody_ssey · 2019-12-25T09:50:47+00:00

Women are poor at money management.

CpuDoc67 · 2019-12-25T07:53:23+00:00

That's total bullshit.

The really F'd up part is I can think of countless women who would agree with your wife.

Now if you did that bullshit the outcry would be:
"He's a poor excuse for a man!!!"

MichaelSkarn_FBI · 2019-12-25T10:57:38+00:00

He’s NTA. He’s actually in the right, but it won’t matter.

She will make his life a living hell until she gets what she wants, then punish him further for making her have to ask instead of reading her mind and providing it up front.

me-dgaf · 2019-12-25T11:27:37+00:00

Here's an idea. Fuck institutional slavery--I mean marriage.

I keep 100% of my money, spin them monkey-branching plates and stay free.

BlackEyedHusky · 2019-12-25T09:09:59+00:00

Fuck marriage such a scam.

bfte2 · 2019-12-25T10:26:42+00:00

5% of salary. What a peasant.

evergreen35 · 2019-12-25T11:12:44+00:00

Female Logic: "My money is MY money, and YOUR money is MY money. "

VideoramaYT · 2019-12-25T07:53:36+00:00

"but honey, look at all these people agreeing with me! Oh you don't care? I guess I'll drop it then.."

Mr_Crick84 · 2019-12-25T07:56:32+00:00

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/ef786b/aita_for_not_sharing_my_money_with_my_wife/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T08:33:13+00:00

You are the simp for sharing it with your wife. Give her basic needs, anything more than that they’ll her ass to go want for herself.

tinyb1ts · 2019-12-25T10:00:00+00:00

They're both adults and probably not slightly retarded. He shouldn't have to teach his wife how to use money wisely or invest it for a long term goal, I suppose the OP didn't get to use her iPhone half of the day?

SalvageProbe · 2019-12-25T11:15:36+00:00

That poor idiot. Texas (he mentions living there in comments) is a communist... sorry, I mean, community property state. Their spoken agreement is legally null and void, and even if there is some prenup in place, I guess some red feminist judge can just wipe her ass with it.

ObliviousThrowawayyy · 2019-12-25T14:26:40+00:00

YTA because you're a man and will always be wrong no matter how right you are

JustNySpace · 2019-12-25T11:28:09+00:00

Grow a pair man, you do all the work and your wife hoes around spends all your cash and you basically get an allowance like your 5. I bet you don't get laid either.

Starter91 · 2019-12-25T11:16:07+00:00

He is not an asshole he is an idiot!

CHAD_TDK · 2019-12-25T13:23:29+00:00

There's the doctrine of "What's mine is mine and what's yours is mine too" which is a pillar of sociopaths and narcissists alike.

Jubab_San · 2019-12-25T13:28:20+00:00

Communism 100

Loganphoenix122 · 2019-12-25T19:12:48+00:00

First rule of a relationship, never ever share your finances. Wemon are known to spent it on worthless shit and wont be gratefully for anything ever.

2nd rule, when you smell divorce, work less hours, so she earns more, when she jumps out and you earn less, she’ll have to pay you alimony

3rd rule always put your money somewere where she cant touch it.

4th rule sharing your whole finances is a bluepilled dumbass cucked christian disney pro female anti male propaganda rookie mistake

Kyxrn · 2019-12-25T12:54:43+00:00

SOMEONE GIVE HIM THIS SUB NOW

GreetingsFromErf · 2019-12-25T13:41:15+00:00

On the plus side we now have another shining example of you men shouldn't get married. Throw it on the pile with the rest!

DeplorableToast · 2019-12-25T12:16:31+00:00

Triple hook into this poor suckah .. no hope for simpletons like this!

Brewding · 2019-12-25T14:06:45+00:00

What a bitch.

firethrowaway3790 · 2019-12-25T14:24:40+00:00

His first mistake was to agree to spend only 5% on personal stuff when the wife can also do that, when he probably makes most of the household income. I doubt I would’ve saved up so much to buy a Tesla, but it is funny and predictable that the wife would be mad. “Oh you saved up and invested the money and spent it on something that will provide useful transportation? Why the hell didn’t you tell me?!?? I spent mine on useless shit that goes out of fashion with my airhead friends in 3 months!” If you even get married, keep the accounts separate and do your own individual budgeting. If you can’t agree on that, don’t get married to her. Marriage should be treated like a business. I hear so many guys at the golf course talk about how lucky they are that their wife let them get out on the course today. What a joke.

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T15:10:27+00:00

Brother, you don't have to feel bad about you decisions. You saved up your share and made it grow! Technically, it's all from that 5% so you shouldn't be sharing a penny from it unless you feel like it.

BTW, she looks like a toxic person. I would get away from her as soon as the kids are old enough to eat by themselves and ask for custody. You dont want your kids to grow up in a toxic environment.

Kotaro-Atani · 2019-12-25T16:04:16+00:00

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BeeDubzftw · 2019-12-25T13:59:23+00:00

Imagine letting someone else tell you how you can spend your own hard earned money. It's pathetic, and he deserves to be in the situation he's in for being his wife's little door mat.

iAmMaskemane · 2019-12-25T14:53:38+00:00

No kids no wife = you can use 100% of your money.

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T16:37:15+00:00

Isn't it his own fucking money in the first place?

TheAnarxoCapitalist · 2019-12-25T17:07:30+00:00

He should call his wife "IRS".

ValhallaBoundBoy · 2019-12-25T17:20:48+00:00

Jesus Christ, imagine being this dumb. I could understand the wife's point if it had been with any other money, but they basically give themselves an allowance and now that he's saved his instead of spending it, she wants it now. Fuck that.

JohnnySkidmarx · 2019-12-25T19:25:10+00:00

Always get a separate bank account. Any bonuses you receive from work need to be direct deposited in this account. Every month withdraw a certain amount of money from the bank account she knows of and deposit it in this separate account.

tingsrus · 2019-12-25T21:38:18+00:00

WHY are you sharing finances???????

GnuYOW · 2019-12-27T11:32:35+00:00

If he owes her a percentage on the investments he made, then she owes him for the depreciation on all the useless shit she spent her share on (including the value she lost on potential investments she could have made). If anything, she owes him money in the balance.

Iwassleepingawake · 2019-12-25T13:37:52+00:00

Just...what? I'm sorry, I'm married and this is just retarded. We're a team sure, but what I earn...I earn. Of course I will help my wife if I need to, but she can't just dip into my resources..wtf

megamanxtc · 2019-12-25T14:27:39+00:00

Your money is our money.
My money or my money

Supersnail420 · 2019-12-25T14:51:40+00:00

877-CASH NOW

Malbek604 · 2019-12-25T16:19:57+00:00

I hate that sub and the people who cringe post there.

[deleted] · 2019-12-25T16:29:15+00:00

fritobandito214 · 2019-12-25T20:40:08+00:00

That's not "extra money," that's your personal funds you saved. YOUR money, don't let her hoodwink you bro !

theoracleofosiris · 2019-12-25T22:40:47+00:00

I make my own money and I spend it how I like. No wife to tell me I owe her fuck that lol

Machomuk89 · 2019-12-25T23:07:21+00:00

Hey just throw their own idol's words back at them. If I'm not mistaken doesn't that 7 rings song say something like "I want it, I got it"? That's the life of a MGTOW. I want something I buy it.

bransome44 · 2019-12-25T23:26:53+00:00

The aita ppl are such cucks.

datdbui6 · 2019-12-25T23:42:57+00:00

Lol know your place 🐖

krusecontrol91 · 2019-12-26T00:41:36+00:00

AWALT

[deleted] · 2019-12-26T18:46:52+00:00

Only a married men would ever feel bad for buying an expensive car with his hard earned money.

BlackFire68 · 2019-12-25T13:48:06+00:00

What part of “what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is... mine” don’t you understand?

NathanHollister · 2019-12-25T13:15:46+00:00

NTA, but dumbass for buying a new car without consulting the Mrs. A car is not the same as an iPhone.

Title	Guy is allowed to spend 5% of his salary - And his wife wants to take it
Author	Mr_Crick84
Upvotes	448
Comments	122
Date	December 25, 2019 7:32 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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