One out of five women don't have kids by 45 (up from 1/9 in 1940s) partially due to female hypergamy: "IT'S THE MAN'S FAULT"

backbayguy · 2015-11-15T20:33:41+00:00

Nicole Scherzinger, 37, and Lewis Hamilton, 30, have had an on/off relationship since they met in 2007. After their latest split in February, Nicole was interviewed by American TV host Wendy Williams who warned her, ‘[Men] can have babies whenever they want. Those are seven years you can never get back.’ Nicole has confirmed that she wants children: ‘I will definitely get married and have kids. It’s just who I am inside’

She tried to lock down the best race car driver in the world that also is a male model in his spare time. We are talking about one of the most desired man in the world. If she wanted kids, she needed to be honest with Lewis Hamilton early on but I have the feeling she didn't have the strength to leave him when he wouldn't commit to her and her desires to have a family. No one to blame but yourself honey... unless being with Hamilton for 7 years was more important than starting a family. In this case, you can't have it all. Pick one. You picked Lewis Hamilton and don't be bitter about it 7 years later.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2015-11-15T19:51:07+00:00

Women are given the advantage when a cohort is young, but time is the Great Leveler.

Think of women starting higher up than men, but we're on an escalator up and they're on an escalator down. Near 31 to 35 years, the escalators cross and the men wave 'buh-bye' to the women. This is when the women bitch about how there are "no good men" left, which really means that there are fewer good¹ men left for them, given their elevated expectations and their declining SMV.

Women can either figure their shit out or not. They are lied to about how the gravy train will go on forever, they will always be "beautiful", reject family for career, blah, blah, blah. They never seem to notice that the women selling them this LIE are childless, single 45 y.o. hags with dry, dusty raisins for wombs. Does the person giving you shit advice look like they had their own shit together in life? No? Then Why The Fuck Are You Listening To Them?²

All this "But...but...but It's Mens' FAULT!!! WAAAAAHHHHH!!" is just a gigantic HamsterFest.

The Real Lesson: "Gather ye rosebuds while ye may"

¹ Really perfect, sexy with tons of $ b/c that's what women are taught they 'deserve' no matter if they are totally grody swamp donkeys.

² Only exception: If they are using their situation as a "Don't be like me" cautionary tale.

Evileddie13 · 2015-11-15T19:12:46+00:00

Wait till Vasogel goes main stream.

raceAround126 · 2015-11-15T21:29:41+00:00

describes her feelings as ‘grief – it’s really that powerful. Women in this position are grieving. Yet it’s rarely taken seriously. It’s seen as their own fault.’

I'm going to wager that almost every guy who was rejected ruthlessly up until late in life after doing everything right and being the nice guy can relate to this!

Barrebaron · 2015-11-15T19:05:14+00:00

Yup my sister bugs me about why I don't have LTR partner. I usually answer that I don't have a expiration date like she has in this matter.

chances_are_ur_a_fag · 2015-11-16T08:36:13+00:00

Meanwhile Islamic extremists are having like 5 wives, each with 7 children, so that Islam can spread.

MattyAnon · 2015-11-15T21:57:02+00:00

Men are totally on the line financially for our children. We're spending our future earnings on supporting our children AND the women who raise them (don't tell me child support doesn't subsidise women's lifestyles). And we get zero rights into the bargain. And abused for being a deadbeat dad because feminism. And kept from our children because feminism. And if a woman says we are violent or is violent herself, the police throw us in jail and ban us from seeing our own children.

But hey... yeah... raising children. Great deal, count me in! /s

Further observation: CC plus wall plus late marriage plus cats... and then NOT being socially acceptable for older men to date younger women. That means the peak SMV of each gender fails to match up, and a LTR or marriage makes no sense for anyone.

TL;DR: Feminism fucked it up, don't blame us for having choice too.

newls · 2015-11-15T23:29:21+00:00

Feeling some hilarious schadenfreude at the black girl who dated Simon Cowell and had a Twitter meltdown because he ended up having kids with a younger and more attractive girl.

You can taste the bitterness. Their shrieks for independence disguise a desperate hunger to bear the children of a strong man.

It makes me feel pretty damn glad to be a man. It must feel shit for them to know that the only thing they're valuable for - their ability to bear children - is not only temporary but dwindles away fairly quickly, and that having kids at that latter stage dramatically increases their children's chances of having some fucked up disorder.

Apostrophe · 2015-11-16T16:30:55+00:00

They may then find raising the topic of children excruciatingly difficult. "Women hate to appear pushy or needy," says Day.

"We are brought up to put other people’s needs ahead of our own, so if we sense reluctance, instead of insisting on a frank discussion, we may just drop hints."

What planet is this person from? O_o

YouDislikeMyOpinion · 2015-11-16T06:01:38+00:00

http://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2015-11-11/a-record-share-of-young-american-women-are-living-with-family

Share of 18 to 34 year-olds enrolled in college has risen steadily since 1960

18 to 34 year-olds are much less likely to be married today

The median age at their first marriage has risen considerably since 1940

Share of 18 to 34 year-olds living with their parents or family members

US National Fertility Rate Data

Likelihood of getting pregnant & Likelihood of infertility

Average age of mother at first birth: US 1970-2006

Percentage of first births, by age of mother: US 1970-2006

More women getting diplomas than men, although I don't consider many degrees to be an actual degree.

Median age of first marriage going up. Likelihood of marriage going down. Amount of Adult women living at home going up. Fertility rate decreasing after the age of 30. Childless women over the age of 35 account for under 10% of first births nationally. Average age of mother at first birth going up (The graph slopes down at the end, but 2013 number[not shown] increased to 26y.o.)

Here's what I see. The beginning of the window of having a child is slowly closing. The end of the window is not promising. This is squeezing the window tighter.

What will happen when jobs are outsourced to technology? How will women satiate their hypergamy? What will happen to fertility when male birth control enters the market?

Let's be real. How many women do you know who have started their own business and are self-made 6-figure earners?

What happens efficiency and technology eliminate needless jobs? The population will be aging, but there are only so many healthcare jobs that the country can afford.

I wonder what will happen to those women who have <10k to their name. Will they adapt or will they try to take the easy way out? Will their strategies be brain-focused or vagina-focused? If the labor market dries up, and they opt to use their vagina to get their golden meal ticket, what will happen? Millions of women simultaneously choosing to do the same thing. I wonder what will happen to the price of sex.

max_peenor · 2015-11-16T18:29:07+00:00

Editing the hamster out of the gene pool, one harpy at a time...

Lookin4SomethingReal · Mon Nov 16 18:46:22 2015 UTC

And once all the Whites are gone... there goes the world.

LadyLumen · 2015-11-16T15:12:23+00:00

As a woman nearing the wall without kids, I can say waking up late on a weekend morning without having to deal with a screaming, crying, pooping thing is pretty sweet. Instead I get to focus on my boyfriend, friend and hobbies.

Sdom1 · 2015-11-18T00:28:40+00:00

I'm not defending them, but in the article it clearly states that some of the guys led their gfs/wives on, saying they wanted them later, etc.

And I don't think this article was saying, "these evil men." If anything, it put a little more responsibility on the women for staying with them when they wanted different things.

Enjoyitbeforeitsover · 2015-11-16T20:21:19+00:00

What I'd like to know is why would anyone read or care about such articles? The time wasted debating this could be spent doing some better shit.

CatalinaAmor · 2015-11-16T03:08:09+00:00

not everyone has to get married and breed some little fuckers. women chose career because work=surviving. marriage is a scam. love does not last. at first, everything is great, then it gets stable/boring, then it ends. it has an expiration. just like a good book, love will feel great, but after it ends, its time to move on.marriage is a trap, its anti nature. we cant cheat nature. you guys should be happy that more women are single, so you can date at older age, instead of getting all married in ur 20s, and fuck your wife for eternity while holding your vomit. in the modern life, women have indipendece, you have it too. now we can have serial monogamy, instead or being tied up for life.

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Title	One out of five women don't have kids by 45 (up from 1/9 in 1940s) partially due to female hypergamy: "IT'S THE MAN'S FAULT"
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