Apologies for poor grammar etc. I am shattered and dont have chance to do this any other time.

Saw a hot girl in a nightclub, she was obviously attracted to me in the first moments she saw me, so we instantly we starting making out.

I ask if she was able to escape back to mine, she says she can't leave one of her friends. Often this is a valid excuse and pushing it will just work against you, best to let the situation evolve sometimes those friends might fuck off themselves or pull as well. I threw out a few lines to test the validity of this "excuse". Seemed valid so i changed tact.

Keeping everything light hearted and fun i needed more info for logistic, so i asked where they lived, guessing they would be in a student flat- which they were. I told her i'd found the solution we'll back to hers instead, with a devil may care smile,doesnt matter if she agrees or not, it just plants the seeds in her her so she thinks about it. All the while we've had intense kino. Grinding, grabbing , making out etc.

i then get myself introduced to this friend so she likes me, wont get in my way and so i can be part of the group till opportunity arises.

At this point i've just got to keep things sweet until this group goes, which i guessed would be when the club closed. i know i can turn on a girl just right kissing, but i cant kiss her for 2 hours straight so i make sure routinely that we're grabbing onto each other, squeezing, kissing, but to also give her some breathing space. This stops me from: looking needy, annoying her, becoming boring

Things go one like this till the club nearly closes. i know when it closes so i make sure 15 minutes before it were having a heavy make out session, so shes turned on by me and feeling very sexual to me.

it is at this point shes says "we'll have to do this again some time, im not sleeping with you on the first night, i'm not that type of girl"

Now for the newer ones her, she does not mean that. She just needs an excuse, or plausible deniability so she doesn't seem like a slag.

first thing i need to do is get back to hers, then deal with any LMR easily.

I joke about an after party at hers, she protests but in the same joking manner as me. i say this type of thing one or two times and can see her pausing slightly to consider it. I teasingly call her out on it, saying i can see her thinking about it with her smiling.

i then come up with any excuse. I say we'll go back to hers for a drink and to talk because we can't in this loud club, then we'll just go bed.

whenever she mentions no sex, i use an innocent facade of: sex? no we're just talking

Just before leaving the club one last time she mentions i'm not going to hers. I responded by taking the lead and replying that we've already spoke about it and decided were going back for a drink and just chill.

A mantra that she adopts quickly, "just drink and chill...and maybe snuggle"

At this point we're leaving the club on the way to hers. the next obstacle if her saying repeatedly "we're not going to have sex"

each time she says it i reply with something like "of course not, what type of lad do you think i am" "yeah don't be getting any ideas, i need to be wined and dined for at least 3 dates before sex" "thats fine, im not the type who sleeps with someone on the first night" "sex? is that all you think im good for, i'm just a piece of meat to you aren't i" all of these half joking

once we get to hers, were straight to her bedroom, making out. she keeps saying we're not having sex, but at this point i just ignore it. We're under the sheets fully clothed. i interrupt her repeatedly saying we're not having sex, to point out how weird it was to be clothed in bed, she agrees and takes hers off. i keep mine on until she says something to get them off, just so she has to do a little work to get me. eventually its just down to underwear, i play with her to make her cum and with each orgasm caused shudder her defences collapses until we're having a sex. which we do alot all night, and she was fantastic.

Lessons to learn.

the biggest lesson i would say is how to view these situations. when a girl tells me we're not having sex, or shes going asleep now after getting in my bed etc. i view these as "Man Test" Are you masculine enough to know she wants to be fucked by you, and are you masculine enough to toss aside her feeble protest and rail her brains out.

Its something ive spoke about with alot of girls during after sex pillow talk. After sex pillow talk is the most red pill conversation you will have with a girl. They always agree a nice guy would be shit because he'd think when a girl turns her back on him saying shes going asleep, he takes it at face value and thinks "oh guess im not having sex" whereas a man thinks "hahaha don't be silly i know what you want" flips her around grabs her face a kisses her passionately. which will make her very turned on.

Ive found thinking about these situations in the moment as a "Man Test" benefits me because it makes me have the mentality of what i perceive a masculine man to have, instead of me thinking of a good line ive read somewhere, or how i'm meant to acting. Everyone has a vision of a sexual masculine man they draw inspiration from so its easier, to me at least.