How To Not Give A Fuck By CharismaOnCommand

IIlllIllIIIllIl · 2017-01-18T02:28:32+00:00

PUA gets so much hate but it is largely redundant. TRP is just a branch of the tree which grew after "The Game" was published. The better pick up artists know that you get what you put in. PUA will get you laid but you will generally get the quality and quantity of girls based on how you lived your life before you found pick up. If you are good looking but shy, PUA gets you laid more, if you had a great career but you are skinny, PUA gets you laid more. TRP could be best considered as a more wholistic approach to pick up because it emphasises getting your life in order first. This was all said before TRP came along. Mystery taught us the fundamentals of game, Roissey said follow your mission, Pook said put on some muscle and follow your dream, Rollo pointed out some truths about females. I do not bother hating on PUA anymore than I hate on gym rats. TRP is currently the best site for putting it all together but something else will replace it soon enough. Whatever replaces it will then bring on the hate for TRP. I view it all as an evolution and I have respect for each link in the chain. We have all learned a lot from the previous contributors to the manospere. Some plateaued, some reverted, some crashed, some married.

Ivetakenthepill · 2017-01-17T23:30:08+00:00

This is so valuable and important.

Getting laid isn't hard

Go to any bar on any night and you'll find some buzzed broad who you'll say the right things to, and have a sloppy fuck you can feel good about for a while.

Become a man of purpose. Not so that you can fuck more women, but so that you can leave a footprint, so you can create something of value, so that you can inch humanity further through whatever it is that you're passionate about. Lead others through the clarity of your example, learn what you want to learn, go where you want to go, make your life a story that you'll be fucking proud to tell your grandkids someday.

If you can be THAT guy, women will be falling on your lap, you won't have to game.

Game to me is essentially pretending to be that guy with purpose, drive, determination, goals, passions etc. around women so that you can get laid.

Fuck that, just be the guy.

TheSebitti · 2017-01-18T07:40:18+00:00

How I see it is;

TRP teaches you how to grow, improve and focus on your goals. An automatic Side effect is that the ladies will be attracted to you.

Conceited-Monkey · 2017-01-17T21:12:12+00:00

If you cannot get laid in Vegas without hiring "professional" help, why not just hire a prostitute and cut out the middle man?

JF803 · 2017-01-18T03:53:31+00:00

The size of your life is the size of your problems. It's important to ask bigger questions.. not "how can I bang this chick?" But "how can I be a more dynamic and interesting person"

OneRedYear · 2017-01-18T14:43:47+00:00

If your primary goal here at TRP is to just bang chicks yet you work minimum wage job, play video games all day and spend every night at a bar trying to pull chicks because you have 0 hobbies or interests, you've fundamentally failed what TRP is trying to teach you.

WRONG.

TRP is a toolbox. Stop pushing an ideology. If you can live like that and pull chics and are happy TRP doesn't give a fuck. I personally don't want to live like that, but I'm not going to step into your frame on this either.

circlhat · 2017-01-19T11:29:28+00:00

Learning game and practicing it is good, but 80%, if not more, of your time should be spent building yourself into a man with purpose and drive.

I disagree, game is 80% for women, but building yourself is 100% for life on other things.

. I don't think society shuns PUA because it's deceitful or "wrong" but because a man who's only purpose in life is to bang as many chicks as he can has fundamentally low expectations for himself.

I disagree and this is putting women on a pedestal, you don't need to be all that to get women, but you must be masculine, which society doesn't teach.

Honestly it seems guys are so stuck in blue pill ideology that we must first shame men, than repeat what women say and simply build a career, lift, boxing, mma, all these things aren't necessary and are quite blue pill.

If your primary goal here at TRP is to just bang chicks yet you work minimum wage job, play video games all day and spend every night at a bar trying to pull chicks because you have 0 hobbies or interests, you've fundamentally failed what TRP is trying to teach you.

Not according to the mods or the side bar, and remember guys have been told this all their lives to be something, rather than enjoying life it's always a mission. Yet time and time again we see guys with no mission, no life goals, no jobs get the majority of the women.

Read Michael's Story, its on the side bar, you will see a guy who is doing well, but stil can't get laid.

Women are attracted to men that do hard shit.

Not really, women are attracted to resources, and if your hard shit brings resources you will find women, but you typically want sexual desire and not resource desire.

DonaldBaelish · 2017-01-17T20:44:10+00:00

This guy truly creates invaluable content on various subjects. There should be another RP Antibiotic Nuke post with videos , his included.

Where you been , Clint?

jocomoco · 2017-01-18T12:33:18+00:00

Well, $2000 for a PUA, $100 for a hooker, which one is more valued then ? Getting laid or being good at PU ?

SW9876 · 2017-01-18T17:38:38+00:00

This is pretty interesting. Imagine that your number one goal was the be the best pick up artist alive. Not for me, but I'd respect it anyway. PUA could be seen as a hobby or skill. But even if your goal is to be able to bang as many hot girls as possible, you're still following this message since your goal is the be the best pick up artist and this girl is just along for the ride. So in this way, even when your goal is banging chicks, that girl isn't the main priority.

tailz69 · 2017-01-19T05:11:28+00:00

I just got out of a LTR .. I've been drifting and only been thinking about the relationship and noticed my business was suffering. I actually had no interest in it and there was a great opportunity where I lost a lot of money cause I was "attending" to her.

She broke up with me and I had 1 day where I actually was a little upset but then realized fuck this and started consuming myself with work. Back to 10 hour days. Within 3-4 days I was back into my work and made a couple good deals luckily which sparked me back on track.

I had a girl over and in the morning and i was doing work calls while she sat there listening to me. I didn't give a fuck she was there because I was so focused on my work. when i drove her home, I did another work call while she was in the car. This was not on purpose but my priority list changed. Before I would maybe let the work call ring but because my head is in a good place she sat there like a chump listening while I handled my business. I used to fuck this girl but this time it's different she's way more sexual with me on text hours after dropping her off. The vibe brushed off on her that I have a mission and she isn't that important I guess.

I tried acting like I don't give a fuck but when I have consumed myself with work and actually put it before everyone it does actually make you not give a fuck and attracts women. They can truly tell if you don't have a purpose.

All I know is my advice to guys, watch out for these soul goblins. They will drain your energy if your not careful and you will lose focus on your business. If you are slacking at work it's already begun and you need to tip the scales in your favour.... she will thank you for it. My only other suggestion is stay alert at all times and watch yourself start to slip or become distracted. One fun weekend with a girl can do it... make sure to choose work first or whichever passion you are obsessed about or can be obsessed about.

In other words. Be as passionate as the salt guy is when making his food on insta lol. If you haven't seen it, Google salt guy insta

RICCIedm · 2017-01-17T22:02:49+00:00

"Women want a man with purpose" is an empty statement, and OP did not provide a theory to defend the idea.

evil_misogynist · 2017-01-17T20:32:44+00:00

What sort of purpose? I bet the PUA who works at McDonald's gets much more pussy than the "respectable" guy who slaves away 60 hours a week as a middle manager at some soulless corporation.

[deleted] · 2017-01-18T04:23:17+00:00

HA

People think you're scary in a serial killer way if you are intense about things in a non-regular way.

They don't look at your intensity, they're looking at the size of your wallet, and if you happen to be intense about things that make money, they'll be fine with it, and if you don't, they don't care no matter how much you "don't give a fuck"

RiceballonRage · 2017-01-18T10:14:57+00:00

Watch tfm the zen of zero fuck giving..

ecosci · 2017-01-19T00:04:25+00:00

You cant manufacture not giving a fuck women can sense beta behaviour like a shark smell blood the best thing to do is be a selfish bastard they secretly love it.

CyberninjaZen · 2017-01-19T02:56:37+00:00

This is true. I've noticed that women want me more when I turn them down to go to the gym cus the gym is more important to me than them.

bigredchewinggum · 2017-01-18T05:10:01+00:00

The narrator of this video sounds like a fucking pussy. Just saying.

Title	How To Not Give A Fuck By CharismaOnCommand
Author	Clint_Redwood
Upvotes	423
Comments	66
Date	January 17, 2017 7:54 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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