This shit fucking hurts'

abdada · 2017-02-09T21:18:17+00:00

I love that women are an indicator of a man losing his way.

I trust women to be that indicator.

You throw your life away for the sake of someone else, fuck yeah the world should shit on you.

Fuck you for being born the better gender that doesn't automatically hit The Wall and can make every day better than the last and you complain about it?

redolas · 2017-02-09T22:35:02+00:00

The stages are: Shock, Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression, Testing, Acceptance.

You're in Depression. Just two more to go.

[deleted] · 2017-02-09T23:05:26+00:00

That's why most men violently reject it. It sucks to realize that if you put the happiness of the woman you love above your own, she'll shit on you for it. It sucks to realize that nobody really cares about you but only what value you bring. It sucks to realize that the world will only give you what you take from it with force.

But it's also liberating and empowering to know that as a man, you have so much control over your own life. No, you can't be absolutely anything if you just want it badly enough like we were told as kids, but you can come close. The only person capable of stopping you from achieving your goals is you.

max_peenor · 2017-02-10T00:08:12+00:00

Man that shit is inhumane

It is precisely human. It's these behaviors that have optimized the gene pool such that we are by far the most superior creature on this planet. Even our humanoid genetic cousins didn't stand a chance against us.

Celebrate it. Celebrate by becoming a strong, masculine male. Then celebrate it some more by cutting more tuna than a sushi chef.

Randomshortdude · 2017-02-10T01:32:56+00:00

Good, this is the beginnings.

After a while you'll begin to realize that it is still a man's world at the end of the day. And that you aren't completely helpless and at the mercy of the women you love.

Yes, hypergamy is real. But that's what the sexual strategy on here is for - to make sure you still come out the winner. Don't lose sight of that fact.

You've learned how the game is really played. Now figure out how to win.

ikigaiaru · 2017-02-10T04:42:34+00:00

Relax. TRP is a general framework, but it's not gospel.

AWALT does not mean that every women will leave you in every situation for ever and ever. It means human beings have general tendencies and working within an accurate and realistic framework is best.

Just be the best person you can be, for you. That's it. You can build a loyal family with a wonderful wife with children, it's just hard now in the west so don't get too many hopes up. It's possible, but it's a needle in a haystack. TRP is not saying that every girl will do the same thing every time, it's just saying to be realistic about reality and nature.

Second, having children is wonderful. Bringing life into this world is a great blessing. Just be sure to have the right environment for it (probably moving to another country). Plus, you have no idea of the future. It could be shit or great, but we are not in the apocalypse and there is still plenty of joy to be had in this world (and also realizing that you don't NEED women to find that joy is a joy itself...). The world is harsh but it's not THAT bad.

Gay4Pancakes · 2017-02-10T01:10:10+00:00

Stop loving them. Just like them, and never enough to let yourself get hurt by them. That's the key. Learn your own limitations.

PowerVitamin · 2017-02-10T04:57:08+00:00

She's supposed to test you. Hierarchy isn't set. Women want it to be set. They really do, but if you falter, she will test you.

You need to internalize, she's not yours, it's your turn. Nature can be normal and beautiful if you accept it that way. Believe me, the RP world is much more beautiful than the placated world of the blue pill and intellectual slavery.

nuffsaid666 · 2017-02-10T01:19:54+00:00

I actually felt a kind of relief and satisfaction after "waking up" to this reality. Like everything suddenly made a lot of sense and i wasnt the only one thinking these things after all. All of it, how women behave, how men behave, how they interact, it all aligned into one unified idea that explains all these behaviors i've been observing through the years but couldn't put into words. It was like a great "Aha! I knew it!" moment.

MattyAnon · 2017-02-10T05:19:52+00:00

But if you build a life with someone, if you give her your word that you'll do anything humanely possible to protect her and the family and she still fucks with you.. Man that shit is inhumane. That shit should be a human rights violation.

Human rights like this are only applicable to women, as they are sobbing in court saying "I took his money for twenty years, it's inhuman that he is free now, I deserve alimony!"

"Building a life with someone" is the myth that drives the exploitation of men. Get over it and free yourself.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2017-02-09T22:50:10+00:00

Once your eyes are open they can never be closed again. The only thing that I trust is that people will act in their own self interest. I love no one and no thing on this earth except myself. Eventually the "pain don't hurt." You'll be fine.

yummyluckycharms · 2017-02-10T06:24:07+00:00

Is it painful - yes - probably at first. But afterwords its liberating and feels so good. You wanna know what hurts - take a look at a guy who has been married for 5 or 10 years. The pleading for a mercy kill in their eyes is what gets me......its amazing they can continue to live in such pain

TheYoungOwl_ · 2017-02-09T22:12:24+00:00

Your measure as man is the value you provide to the world, you are the captain of your ship. Anyone who wants you as their leader will submit to you. Breaking loyalty means a kick to the curb. Quit being a fucking pussy.

-_PM_me_your_nudes_- · 2017-02-10T01:12:09+00:00

To appease ... some bullshit biological tendency that you can't control is retarded.

Why? What are we besides our desires?

[deleted] · 2017-02-10T04:26:26+00:00

Eventually you'll become indifferent. The realization settles in and acceptance follows. After a while, it won't even bother you. If anything, watching from a safe distance provides entertainment when you see it unfold.

fenghsui · 2017-02-10T08:05:33+00:00

Know what hurts? Not having your girl attracted to you cuz you lack the secret powers of dread game.

riverraider69 · 2017-02-10T09:03:55+00:00

I'm starting to think maybe there's a bigger thing beneath all this. 20k years ago we were hunting game, came home to a tribe with plenty of hotties, fucked one if we bagged something good, maybe hook up and help raise a kid for a few years, always help raise other kids because they're cute little buggers plus hell, one of them could be mine, who can remember what I did 7 years ago? Had mates, had girls, had family.

What do we have now?

[deleted] · 2017-02-10T10:06:52+00:00

You are just going through anger and depression. It's normal, it will pass. Focus on money for a while. I remember when my marriage ended, 2 kids, decades together, how could she, is this real? Two months later I am sliding my 40 something cock into the ass of a 20 something Swedish model. It cuts both ways. The same weaknesses which make them leave their husbands makes them fuck guys with, looks, status or game (hopefully all three) on a first date. They can make you feel like you are in heaven or hell if you let them.

NakedAndBehindYou · 2017-02-10T01:14:28+00:00

When you internalise it fully, you feel sick.

This isn't fully internalizing it. It's just the first part of the anger phase.

if you give her your word that you'll do anything humanely possible to protect her and the family and she still fucks with you..

You sound beta as fuck right here mate.

[deleted] · 2017-02-10T12:06:32+00:00

Its the same thing when trying to answer the question of why we sre here, whats the point of life. Usually reaching the conclusion of there is no point of life, we all die is scary and disconcerning. It used to put a pit in my stomach and make me feel sick.

But Ive come to terms with it. I cant control it so why worry about it? It sucks but it is what it is, whether you accept it or not.

[deleted] · 2017-02-10T14:01:50+00:00

It sucks but we've all been there, buddy. Taking the red pill is painful. Even more so when you get philosophical and realize all of this is meaningless, and if there is something outside of this, it's not knowable or in our control. So you create meaning to live. Read some Frankl or Sartre.

As for society and women, unconditional love doesn't exist and relationships are very power focused. Unconditional love didn't exist even between parents and their kids. If you had some semblance of it, you're in the top 2%. I had a very dysfunctional family with rampant abuse and a sociopathic cousin who tried to kill me when I was a kid. Motherly love? I used to resent my mother for being unemotional and cold, but her life was a mess, too. At least we had food on the table and at least we lived in the West. I had lots of issues growing up, but I am proud of myself for surviving when people in my position I've known have become hardcore heroin addicts and criminals. I looked at all my close brushes with death- actually having been resuscitated once and in a coma once- and am grateful to be alive. As if life was a tough father- my own father was very beta and though I love him, he never taught me any of the lessons I needed to learn- I got into a flipover accident last summer and have an unusable left hand because of it, not to mention tens of thousands in medical costs for it. But I know I'm lucky and in the top 5% of people. Your average male in Syria now has lost many family members and possibly killed a few people in conditions he never asked for. Reflect on that and feel blessed.

Taking the red pill sucks but it's liberating. It frees you from the burden of childish expectations that will only lead to more suffering and hardship. Even Buddhists say life is nonstop suffering and that suffering comes from expectations. Take in reality, mourn the world you thought existed, and become stronger. You're already stronger than 1/2 of men out there by virtue of not kidding yourself any more.

Unfiltered_Soul · 2017-02-09T21:54:31+00:00

You need to kill that woman that is growing inside of you. It is the way of the world and you have to be ruthless to it when the time comes. Shrug your shoulders and move on. Pay attention to signs next time.

cuntrolbot · 2017-02-10T06:38:54+00:00

The fact that you guys bring children into this world knowing what you know about the world.

Go ahead. Don't reproduce. The next generation's work will be that much harder, since your RP tendency genes were eliminated. Thanks for nothing.

Title	This shit fucking hurts'
Author	MediciMan14
Upvotes	46
Comments	70
Date	February 9, 2017 9:09 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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