First time poster. Wife issue

MattyAnon · 2017-05-03T17:26:47+00:00

He's on other end of country, so not a threat.

He's a threat, don't deny it.

I then find that she's been writing this guy letters since he's now in prison. I told my wife to stop so she did

She probably just hides it better now.

What do I do? Is this a legitimate threat since he's in prison and at other end of country?

yes.

Should I just use this as an excuse to find a side piece of ass? / Maybe I am getting what I deserve, but I never exchanged pics or kept going on.

Your situation is fucked up. If you get a "side piece of ass", she's justified in doing the same.

Your wife has emotionally checked out of your relationship. Talk to a lawyer, and get a realistic option for getting out (even if you don't take it just yet).

Wife talking to a guy in prison means you don't have a marriage, you have a legally enforced beta-provider contract while she seeks her alpha fucks. Wake up and realise how bad things are, live your life accordingly.

Oh, and check your children are really your own, she doesn't seem the faithful type.

Daddie0 · 2017-05-03T18:36:40+00:00

Since you caught her multiple times, breaking a boundary that you set, to stop pics and texts, and she is still doing it. Start planning to kick her to the curb.

Using this as an excuse to find a side piece of ass? Don't give her more ammo to divorce rape you dumb ass.

This guy gets out of prison and she will be screwing him, heroin addict will find his way across the country to your wife if she has been writing him / exchanging pics. Hell she might even pay for his trip!

This sounds like a slow moving train wreak that is already set in motion.

MrAnderzon · 2017-05-03T17:50:14+00:00

Just make the sure kids end up with you. If not they will end up in prison just like the guy she's talking to

NotProgCensored · 2017-05-03T17:37:56+00:00

Try this test. Ask her opinion on something, then ask the same question a week later. After 5 years of marriage I tried this several times and she either LOVED it or HATED it. That wasn't the ultimate redpill but it put me on the track to enlightenment. I was divorced the next year.

hva_vet · 2017-05-03T20:24:00+00:00

I know two guys who's wive's left them for men in prison and I mean straight up divorced their asses for dudes in the pen. He is absolutely a threat.

thewrecker8 · 2017-05-03T17:37:38+00:00

Here's the thing if a person needs to hide something from their S/O then they know it's wrong and the other person has a problem with it. You knew what you were doing was wrong and you stopped. She knows what she's doing is wrong and now hiding the letters in her purse. Have you read them? Are they talking about anything sexual or a meet up sometime? There's a lot of layers to this onion but the thing to keep in mind is you have a problem with it and you've told her. But she's not stopping which in itself is disrespectful to you.

Wizardglick · 2017-05-03T18:36:05+00:00

Threat or not, your wife is an idiot. Do you really want to raise kids with an idiot?

TheLaughingRhino · 2017-05-04T20:18:39+00:00

Actual quote from a lawyer I went to college with ( he was drunk at the time)

"Do you know the kind of parent that never gets custody? One that gets caught with a bag of cocaine in her purse. Do you know who can't collect child support? One that gets caught with a bag of cocaine in her purse. Do you know the kind of parent who is going to be too busy trying to survive day to day that you don't have to deal with them? One that gets caught with a bag of cocaine in her purse."

Just saying....

RavelsBolero · 2017-05-04T09:25:53+00:00

You're getting a divorce, one way or another. Gather your evidence and lawyer up.

19RomeoQuebec · 2017-05-03T20:49:20+00:00

As soon as he gets out of prison, he is gonna fuck you both. You better run.

Or you better learn how to squeal like a pig.

NeoreactionSafe · 2017-05-04T22:13:53+00:00

Your marriage and 14 year investment in this woman is now worth negative dollars to the tune of Child Support. ($$$)

Prepare to get out.

You need to avoid some serious divorce rape, so lawyer up.

SasquatchMcKraken · 2017-05-04T00:28:11+00:00

Her pussy is a-tinglin' and you've got about as much control over that as you do over the government of North Korea. Prepare exit strategy. You're lucky that A) you caught her ass and B) she's soaking herself over a dude in prison. This gives you the time plenty of men would commit genocide to have. Use it.

Everybodypoopsalot · 2017-05-04T12:11:59+00:00

I would be really concerned that the mother of my kids was acting that way, ie writing some loser in prison.

Like even if she appeared to change at some point, look at the level of role model she is capable of being.

[deleted] · 2017-05-05T12:17:48+00:00

So i'm not the alpha guy there (far from it) that said, if you want my 2 cents:

You probably didn't give her the image of a playboy when you married, so she leaned on the BB side of you, then she found out what she married you for (security, quiet life) wasn't probably going to be there and hated ur balls for breaking your covert contract. So maybe if all she wanted was to be quiet with a BB she looked for a guy who she thought would fit the model and love her ass more than you. All girls feel desire for AF, some are smart enough to keep it locked to live good and quiet. If she did just that then she experienced betrayal and is totally getting back at you. And at the same time she's farming her next BB. You can become a playboy before a relationship, or after, in the middle i always see it breaking stuff apart. It comes down to your personality continuum, she thought to marry a line, but you showed her a couple edges and... oh well.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-05-05T14:55:40+00:00

Your wife caught you texting a chick, you cut the chick off. You catch your wife textig a dude, she continues and seb0nds pics and even sends letter to him in jail. The Y in your wife is silent.Dump the bitch and free yourself.

nonthaki · 2017-05-03T20:16:52+00:00

She is just fucking bored .. i guess .. and fantasizes about fucking a big bad Alpha prisoner or That your cheating on her (txting other girl) could have triggered her to lose loyalty/attraction to you . ..but if she is American, most probably . . she would have started showing signs of cheating by now even if your texting incident was not discovered . Western women are entitled as fu*k .

What my suggestion is is you need to spice up your romance/sex life . Build your body and rip it if it isnt. .. and go to a foreign trip with her for a month .. and when she sees the exotic locations and chimes. .. she will forget him for sometime .. .. and also fuck her to death every single day . The relationship and feeling could be salvaged .

grooveychrist · 2017-05-03T17:22:10+00:00

i wouldn't seek revenge, you don't want to pollute your marriage with that. sounds like she's living in a fantasy world. i would ask her what's up, what does this all mean but i'm not in your marriage and have no idea how you handle things. i've been married a long time, we are happy, we are honest and respectful and never brutal to each other.

jake__johanson · 2017-05-04T02:38:43+00:00

Get your shit in order and you might be able to get close to full custody of your children. As soon as this dude moves in with her you take it to a judge. Because you are getting a divorce whether you like for not.

shivatalwar · 2017-05-05T02:26:22+00:00

Honestly, I would tell her to go fuck him (I'll even drop you off) or stop talking to him. You can do whatever you want baby, I'm not stopping you, but if you keep talking to him I'm out peace. Give her some fear for god sakes man stop being such a pussy. Go to a bar and start hitting on other girls and come back home smelling like you rubbed on some girl. Easiest game of my life.

__MoM__ · 2017-05-06T23:43:05+00:00

Do you love her? If so, fix it now!

Title	First time poster. Wife issue
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Date	May 3, 2017 5:01 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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