This is my second field report. The first one I posted did not get much positivity but that's not stopping me.

Situation: Online dating app. I opened with a basic question about her experience with the app...she answered and then asked me. I replied with "seems a lot of girls are into '50 shades of grey these days..." That peaked her curiosity. I explained how one girl suggested doing x with me...we chatted back and forth a bit where she was giving me IOI...for example, calling me witty or sweet or cute...I was about to ask her out when she went silent. The next morning she replied that she fell asleep because of work related stuff..but told me to let her know when I was around. My response was, ok I'll let you know...I did and we met at a local bar.

I arrived at the bar and bought myself a beer and sat at the bar. When she arrived I got up and kissed her. I did not buy her a drink, she bought herself one. I basically did not offer to buy her a drink and just chatted with her. After like 2 mins, she got out her purse and ordered a drink. I did not feel compelled to buy her one and acted normal. She was clearly excited, talked nervously, asked questions...I tried to let her talk about herself, her job, her trips...

I played it cool and nonchalant. I made her guess my occupation but ultimately never told her exactly. now we are sitting on stools. while talking I started touching her briefly but maintaining eye contact...her arm, leg, back... Eventually, I grabbed her stool and pulled it into mine while rotating her ass to my front. She would later say in bed that night, that it was "so hot" when you pulled me on the stool. When I did, she leaded back into my chest and I grabbed her waist..and kissed her cheek.

Anyway, at this point, we left and went to another bar to dance. I bought myself another drink but shared it with her and when we were done I told her to buy me a drink, she did. So now we are dancing with my hands on her ass and my knee between her legs...gentle, nothing rough. We make out.

So now at this point, she says, like "you're unbelievable, what's your deal?" Like is this "just a ONS to you or what..??" It was clear that she recognized that I could pump and dump her but she said i just need to know so i don't get my expectations up...

I said something like, "I don't even know [what I am looking or want] myself...so it's hard to answer that question." I took my time with this question and she kinda got nervous saying I wasn't trying to make this hard or something...

She said, you seem nervous but really confident. Like you're not trying too hard, like you're just 'here.' Now she's running her hand through my hair, saying your hair is so beautiful.

in any event, I suggested that we go back to her place about 3-hours after we met and she agreed and got the uber herself. I played it cool. At this point, it was clear, I was the prize and in total control.

I banged her all over the apartment (bed, couch, and floor). Later in bed she would say, I loved how you pulled my hair and choked me.

So, take aways.

  • Don't buy her drinks, make her invest by buying you a drink. Alternative is to share a drink with her.
  • Progressive Escalation (kiss cheek, touching her, then kiss her more than once, touch ass, knee to crouch).
  • Playing it really cool, not giving up to much information too soon or at all (guess what i do, let her guess, never say exactly).
  • Keep moving from place to place, the scene should get progressively more sexual, darker (change to a darker, dancing scene),
  • don't say what you are looking for, be open to possibilities. Deflect, be vague.
  • Once she is naked and sucking your dick (or jerking it), make sure you pull her hair correctly and choke her gently at first...smack her ass.
  • while getting head, you pull her hair up into a ponytail and grab it with a fist... don't pull up on it, your hand is there set the tempo and if she needs to breathe, let her...then you nudge down if she takes too long.
    • alternatively you can do the head palm like one-handed a basketball but some girls don't like that as much on the first time..holding the hair up to see their face is best at first.
  • From a missionary position, you underhand grab her hair and pull down into the bed and hold it there and release the pressure then pull again. As oppose to pulling them and twisting their neck...its better if you rotate her head to the left or right, then grab the hair and essentially pull and hold her in that position
  • Form doggie, its the straight grab from the base and pull her head back and when you trust in is when you pull back the most. if its a new girl, first time, don't overdo it...let her get a feel to WANT MORE next time...IN OTHER WORDS, it is a trial run...sampling through the various methods. Don't be too rough or resort to smacking her ass 100 times...cycle through and see what feedback she gives.

The three pieces of feedback she spontaneously gave me after sex while we are laying in b