Girl I'm interested in tells me about other hook-ups!

RPShitlord · 2017-09-15T12:12:54+00:00

She's telling you she's a slut.

Take her somewhere private and escalate.

If rejected, hard next.

redlurker9 · 2017-09-15T12:05:04+00:00

Take a shit, take a picture of the shit, send it to her with tb following message: "just pooped out this guy."

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-09-15T12:05:45+00:00

she continually send me snapchats saying "Just hooked up with this guy!".

You know those flag wavers, the one's that direct traffic and help you avoid totaling your car? This is the dating version. Direct your attention to the next exit and take it.

[deleted] · 2017-09-15T14:37:08+00:00

Not gf material, ever.

brinkleybuzz · 2017-09-15T14:27:57+00:00

Two possibilities: 1. She wants the D and is qualifying herself as a DTF slut to you. 2. She's placed you in the friendzone and is bragging about her conquests like she would to her slutty girlfriends.

There's only one way to find out which one it it.

Psychocist · 2017-09-15T12:32:38+00:00

Ignore, next, chase other women. She is playing childish jealousy games. Almost every woman will do this as a way to shit test you and see just how mature and immovable you really are. Too many guys fail because they can't handle jealousy. I was like that for a long long time.

Redirect the conversation to something else (meeting up) and act like she didn't even say it. If it crosses a boundary, then next her.

CypressSmallz · 2017-09-15T14:58:03+00:00

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1NV0K3R · 2017-09-15T13:37:36+00:00

I love 2017.

The amount of straight "gay friends" makes it so much easier for the rest of us.

Make a move or kill yourself, she won't care either way.

MattyAnon · 2017-09-15T17:54:57+00:00

Now she sends me mixed signals, she tells me she wants to visit me and see me again, but she continually send me snapchats saying "Just hooked up with this guy!". Is she testing me?

Gender myopia. She thinks this is attractive behaviour. She's showing she is sexual.

What would be a good reply to a snapchat like that that doesn't make me appear like a friend laughing it off.

"Nice...... I hooked up a couple of days ago... she has a great rack".

Dmva100 · 2017-09-15T12:34:37+00:00

A girl who sends 'mixed signals' isn't into you. If she wanted you badly she wouldn't do anything to confuse you about her interest in you over fear of loss. See Rollo's 'The Medium is the Message.'

If you have fucked this girl already, she is trying to make you jealous and getting you to invest by touting the escapades she has with other guys.

If you haven't fucked her yet and shes doing this you are friendzoned and are the equivalent of her girl BFFs that she shares hookup stories with.

Apply dread until she resorts to overt communication and chases you hard for sex.

Example:

Ignore her B.S. until she drunk texts you 'Im coming over' or something concrete.

damaged_goods420 · 2017-09-15T19:55:41+00:00

Try to fuck. If you get rejected never talk to her again, and if you fuck never talk to her again.

devilkingx2 · 2017-09-15T23:12:33+00:00

possibilities:

she's rejecting you in the cruelest way possible, this would be if she's telling you about other guys to basically say "other dick is filling these holes, don't need you".
she's pretty much overtly stating that you should just smash because she lets guys smash all the time. don't worry about wining and dining her or anything just come and get it.
she's trying to make you jealous for whatever reason, whether because she loves to play games with men or out of spite or because she wants something from you (commitment? attention? time and energy? money? who knows)

you know this girl, you know which of these makes the most sense.

Deep_freeze202 · 2017-09-15T18:29:16+00:00

She's trying to get you to make a move, she's telling you about her hookups in order to make you feel like you're going to miss your chance and/or incite jealousy. Escalate and bang the sloot already.

Zanford · 2017-09-15T23:24:02+00:00

Gender projection / myopia. She would find you more attractive if you were hooking up with other girls, so she thinks that telling you about other guys makes her seem like a catch.

She's dead wrong of course. The good news is she accidentally waved her red flag and let you know she's a casual sex type of girl and not girlfriend material. You should either hook up soon (wrap it up cuz of STDs with this chick...) or disappear. And you should be pursuing other leads either way. A chick like this will never be a serious prospect for your monogamy. Even if she made up the text and there is no other guy, or it was just a chaste date-ending peck like yours, her text shows very poor judgment and a lack of respect.

She probably has you friendzoned - one little kiss at the end of a date is practically friendzone. Your next meeting, if any, should have good logistics for a hookup, and if the mood isn't right / she isn't into you that way, forget about her, since she's made it clear she will hook up casually with guys she does like.

Peter_B_Long · 2017-09-15T23:38:21+00:00

I wouldn't reply at all to that shit, I'd soft next, then hit her up 2 weeks later like nothing happened.

TankTopCanibal · 2017-09-16T01:06:25+00:00

No mixed signals. She is holding a freaking huge neon sign over her head in big all caps letters saying ''I'm a whore'', just below that says in smaller letters ''treat me as such''. Don't know how you missed that OP.

By the way, this is true, even if it isn't. You gain nothing from trying to figure out her behavior further than this. I'm sure you have something or someone else to occupy your valuable time with.

JohnFapWick · 2017-09-15T16:04:24+00:00

Oh damn! Yeah you gotta next her because you went to the dating part dude and she is obviously not reciprocating that back. Pump and dump her.

[deleted] · 2017-09-15T19:38:29+00:00

One time had a girl tell me about the shape & size of her previous lovers penises as well as describe how compatible each penis size/shape was with her vagina.

At the time I had zero emotional investment so I passed the shit tests with flying colours.

Not girlfriend behaviour.

LordThunderbolt · 2017-09-15T19:46:58+00:00

Women think men want women that other men want. She's projecting. Women want men other women want or have access to. Men want women that other men don't have access to.

She's trying to raise her value in your eyes by showing you that she is in fact desired and you're looking at a prize woman. When the truth is she's just signaling that she's an easy lay for you.

Plate her, and never commit.

sixseven89 · 2017-09-16T00:53:01+00:00

Women think men are also hypergamous. She thinks telling you about her sexual past would make you more attracted, because when men do the same it makes women attracted.

They don't know that this doesn't work. Just don't worry about it.

SugarlessCrystals · 2017-09-16T01:30:14+00:00

Clear shit test to see how confident you are, if you will get jealous and to overall increase her own value. Ignore her ass try to fuck if she even bullshits you slightly next her because she's just using you and fucking with your head for her personal entertainment

The__Tren__Train · 2017-09-15T15:23:46+00:00

What would be a good reply to a snapchat like that that doesn't make me appear like a friend laughing it off.

idk.. something like 'been there done that' 'omg me too! he has a real gentle touch'

either way, this chick is DEFINITELY not relationship material

bainbridge_island · 2017-09-15T19:42:17+00:00

She is benching you. Or breadcrumbing you. LOL.

You are one of the many guys she is dating.

Zweihander747 · 2017-09-16T06:40:06+00:00

She's told u she's a slut, so just use her like the slut she is.

If that doesnt work out, just next her and find another bitch.

verily_rp · 2017-09-16T08:34:19+00:00

https://therationalmale.com/2011/09/06/the-medium-is-the-message/

Shukakun · 2017-09-16T16:46:19+00:00

I'm just amazed that you're even using Snapchat. Do you post selfies and share "deep" quotes on Facebook too? As you know from experience if you've ever been beta, behaving like the girl is a terrible way to make her attracted to you.

Regarding Snapchat, I personally install it every now and then for a couple of days, then get rid of it. Literally the only thing I use it for is for girls who want to send dirty shit but are too afraid to do it without the "This will be gone in 15 sec"-gimmick. That's the only purpose it has for men. For women, it's a great place to keep your orbiters.

PantsonFire1234 · 2017-09-17T18:06:17+00:00

Sounds like a great thing, girl is being honest about her being B-type level fuckmeat. Either she just wants to fuck or she just views you as a friend.

Title	Girl I'm interested in tells me about other hook-ups!
Author	Polartec2390
Upvotes	33
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Date	September 15, 2017 11:52 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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