Talking to this girl I met on tinder. See any red flags?

Tookthemethpill · 2018-08-27T02:32:50+00:00

i hate this fucking world

protonexus1 · 2018-08-27T01:50:19+00:00

Found the red flag

Talking to this girl I met on tinder.

BitcoinBoffin · 2018-08-27T03:57:38+00:00

Sounds like she wants a Schrodinger's Cuck.

flee_market · 2018-08-27T01:22:50+00:00

She wants them to fight over her, like knights at a jousting tournament trying to win a fair lady's favor.

In other words, preadolescent Disney bullshit.

Tell her sure, but you get to marry her off to strengthen the alliance with France.

jeffreywolfe · 2018-08-27T07:42:56+00:00

Someone i know (let's call her L) has been dating T for almost 2 years. L has been cheated on twice in a row, in her previous two relationships. T is very intensely romantic (L says Filipino guys are like that). T constantly talks about marriage and kids, and L sometimes indulges him but overall feels like she's being smothered.

Couple months ago, L meets up an old flame and fucks him, and breaks up with T the next day.

Ever since, L and T still hang out, like couples, families meeting and eating together even (wtf i know). L tells T that they can get married after she finishes her MBA, but until then, they can date other people. T is bummed but agrees.

T distances himself from L. L gets mad and asks why. T explains that the idea of letting her see other people is taking a toll on him. L doesn't understand this and still wants to fuck around.

I'm mad just sharing this LMAO

Why_should_I_mayne · 2018-08-27T04:28:54+00:00

This is why whores were shunned from the community back then. It discouraged other women to follow in this pattern by taking away one of the things they most cherish: attention

KC_weeden · 2018-08-27T03:26:27+00:00

“That makes no sense”

Now you’re getting it!

TheBattlingBastard · 2018-08-27T03:43:51+00:00

Let’s the streets have that bitch

lucasblake69 · 2018-08-27T01:26:01+00:00

Her thirst for attention and validation makes thirsty African children blush

bongohai · 2018-08-27T05:50:17+00:00

My exgf repeated something at parties that she thought was a groundbreaking idea.

"People get divorced anyways. They don't marry for life anymore. So instead of lifelong marriages, why can't they have 5 year marriage contracts"

StylishMGTOW · 2018-08-27T04:22:50+00:00

I get it: while the man's all protective and jealous over her, she wants to ride the cock carousel.

thxnwy · 2018-08-27T06:03:08+00:00

You made the age old mistake of trying to apply logic to female sexual behavior.

AngelTe2016 · 2018-08-27T04:47:10+00:00

Translation:

She wants to setup two men to fight over you. She wants one of them to be the creepy "alpha" dude that thinks he is "entitled" to you. And she wants the other one to be shit tested about it and if he can beat up the creepy dude, you can win over a slab a Arbys roast queef.

AgentRickc137 · 2018-08-27T06:08:15+00:00

Sometimes I wonder do these girls really be drinking retard juice

BanMeIMakeNew · 2018-08-27T05:37:45+00:00

I want to breathe air but like teehee not breathe air. Teehee im special.

ucDragon · 2018-08-27T02:06:38+00:00

kinda like how they fight sexism by protesting in the nude

https://youtu.be/T-TgFSLtkKc

smfuel87 · 2018-08-27T06:27:08+00:00

You can thank Twilight for this bullshit.

TakeYourDailyDose · 2018-08-27T07:35:08+00:00

This is what women actually think "love" is, gents...

Global_MGTOW · 2018-08-27T01:49:53+00:00

Tell her she's a retard and needs to be locked away.

krawm · 2018-08-27T08:35:30+00:00

She wants a chuck, a chad who is also a cuck.

He must br jealous and possessive and beat up other men who flirt with me but also let me go off and fuck other chads when it suits me.

LordNuts · 2018-08-27T06:44:52+00:00

A whore doesn’t know what sense is

2018-08-27T02:03:39+00:00

She's watched to many movies

2018-08-27T09:16:15+00:00

Biggest red flag of them all, it's Tinder. Don't waste your time on power-fantasy thots. Women are used to simps doing literally everything for them and they get off on it. Thus they see how far they can push the boundaries. Shit testing is just accommodating an egotistical solipsistic maniac. No thanks leave that to the PUAs to deal with the disrespect.

smfuel87 · 2018-08-27T06:25:12+00:00

Yeah. You looking for relationship quality women on tinder.

sir_monkfish · 2018-08-27T01:32:59+00:00

None at all. Have Unprotected sex with her

cobaltcolander · 2018-08-27T06:24:32+00:00

Hamster on full throttle.

MadeInBeirut13 · 2018-08-27T06:26:02+00:00

Funny shit, went on a date once and asked the girl what she wants in a relationship. This was her exact answer. I told her im splitting the bill.

We still fucked...

Sfrider · 2018-08-27T01:26:23+00:00

such stupidness just hurts to read gyow

llDUNN · 2018-08-27T04:20:26+00:00

So what's the rest of the conversation look like?

DarthCallidous · 2018-08-27T09:37:43+00:00

Wait, why are you on Tinder?

cleats4u · 2018-08-27T12:12:35+00:00

What exactly is a woman's love? Seems pretty toxic for men in 90% of cases over time. At my age, I don't know too many men that haven't been fucked over and betrayed by one of these creatures and they keep going back for more like a fucking drug addict. They don't quit until they are out of money and on the streets, in jail. It is all they think about until they find their next fix. They don't understand men that have given it up. And the "pussy peddlers" definitely don't understand it.

SM500 · 2018-08-27T06:38:55+00:00

Do exactly what she says she wants to do and watch her change tune so fast... “I don’t like the thought of other girls with what’s mine.”

BlackTar100 · 2018-08-27T09:03:19+00:00

"See any red flags?"

From the first sentence and onward. She sounds like an outright mess. If a woman communicates like this, don't walk, RUN. That being said, it sounds like she wants to push some weird fantasy she saw on some porn site. Just weird.

This is not reality lady!

As-You-Were · 2018-08-27T09:45:03+00:00

Sounds like a catch! You better put a ring on it, and a baby in it.

genethedog · 2018-08-27T10:52:38+00:00

"I want all the men I'm fucking to be insanely jealous of me and the other men I'm fucking. I want them to all be fighting over me and then they aren't I want them home, suffering and pining away desperate and thirsty to see me every second of every day while I have my choice of whom I rotate to each day/week"

crshdurmomlstngt · 2018-08-27T04:22:53+00:00

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smat1987 · 2018-08-27T10:45:55+00:00

Lol. She wants a beta to control and dominate on an emotional level. Chads on the side for the cock. 😂😂😂 Nothing surprising. Research shows that women will often do this. Just your average, everyday hypergamy.

Martel_732_Tours · 2018-08-27T10:50:02+00:00

The closest 'logic' from a male's perspective that can be applied to female sexual nature in this instance is as follows. Essentially, her biology is driving her to a seemingly paradoxical position; she wants a devoted partner, who is jealous and protective over her, whilst she also has the freedom to engage with other males. What this translates as from an evolutionary perspective is this. Her nature is to entice several or more males that she has pre-selected to be potential alpha material, to pass on those superior genes to any offspring. However, this isn't enough. Her biological imperative is that they also fight over her; this would ensure that the one she mates with for the foreseeable future is also the most dominant male out of the ones she's selected; he not only has the attractive genes but the capability to protect and provide.

She doesn't know why she wants what she wants. It's entirely instinctive and due to her nature she believes that what she 'feels' equates to 'logic'. Of course we know that isn't the case, but hopefully the above can shed some light on the actual dynamics at play here from our species' amoral evolutionary past.

Celticfan93 · 2018-08-27T13:14:55+00:00

UPDATE: I stopped texting her back and she’s threatening to show up at my house. Apparently she googled my name and my address showed up.

Asphyxiem · 2018-08-27T15:01:00+00:00

I hope an asteroid destroys this planet and everyone get incinerated

becjorgs · 2018-08-27T06:40:09+00:00

I dont know what red flags you're talking about - she seems like a real keeper

vass15 · 2018-08-27T09:36:36+00:00

Another example of how fkn stupid they are

DoccSampson · 2018-08-27T10:06:22+00:00

No. She wants to be able to do whatever she wants, but she isn't going to actually do it. And she wants a strong man to be strong enough to be weak. Unless of course she does whatever she wants, like find some other dick. Then he's a cuck and she doesn't want that.

Get it? It's not that hard, people. Just get on the wheel and start running!

SpiderAlpha33 · 2018-08-27T10:20:17+00:00

This doesn't surprise me at all.

pushkar_chaudhari · 2018-08-27T11:06:06+00:00

Did someone noticed : she wrote "my men" in her fourth text

redditrat99 · 2018-08-27T11:26:29+00:00

Biggest red flag - you are talking to a tinder slut.

Captain_REEcard · 2018-08-27T13:30:39+00:00

So she wants constant drama and conflict then?

That's what will happen. She'll increasingly do batshit crazy things to "test his limits," and he'll have to either manage her batshit crazy, or he'll end up going nuts himself and doing something really stupid that has long-term consequences.

Best to just avoid.

DirtieHarry · 2018-08-27T13:45:06+00:00

You've got to be jealous when she wants to be jealous, you've got to fight for her when she wants to feel validated, but you also have to disappear when she wants guilt free sex with whoever she's interested at that given moment, until she wants you back.

Well shit, sign me up... ^/s

tifuforreal · 2018-08-27T14:07:57+00:00

women want to be free to cuck a guy, but they don't want the guy to enjoy the cucking.

LimousineLibtard · 2018-08-27T17:30:15+00:00

The average American woman. The only difference is she's being honest about it.

justicecantakeanap · 2018-08-27T05:34:28+00:00

Yep captain

I-am-the-lul · 2018-08-27T05:48:34+00:00

The only thing missing from the OP is a hammer and sickle.

Geleemann · 2018-08-27T09:15:17+00:00

the red flag is she's retarded

2018-08-27T10:39:07+00:00

One of the major red flags is you're on Tinder.

Cissnowflake · 2018-08-27T11:56:59+00:00

So when’s the wedding?

treble-n-bass · 2018-08-27T12:01:15+00:00

Typical self-absorbed lack of accountability

kayfab · 2018-08-27T12:09:22+00:00

Ask her to marry you , you found the unicorn haahah

InfinitePrior · 2018-08-27T12:28:46+00:00

Talking to a girl on Tinder is a major RED FLAG.

stoopididoit · 2018-08-27T12:41:24+00:00

In my book, being on tinder is a red flag so... yeah.

BlackVale · 2018-08-27T12:57:04+00:00

Makes sense to me. Bitches want their cake and to eat it to. They want that alpha who is also a beta and that never occurs in nature. Then when they get it they move on.

SJHammer · 2018-08-27T12:59:33+00:00

She wants a guy full of constant anxiety, self doubt, insecurity, etc that she can manipulate easily.

BlackVale · 2018-08-27T12:59:48+00:00

Makes sense to me. Bitches want their cake and to eat it to. They want that alpha who is also a beta and that never occurs in nature. Then when they get it they move on.

Toolman890 · 2018-08-27T18:28:42+00:00

Women find cucks unattractive because it's weird. What she's saying is true.. she wants a man who lets her get away with anything, so that she can cheat.. but she doesn't want her to man to know or accept the cheating because then it would be weird and not a normal relationship (whilst she's in his presence).

So she wants her man to let her go on girls nights, vacations, to say sorry after an argument where she decides to disappear for a night, flirt 'harmlessly' in front of him, etc.

DarthSchadenfreude · 2018-08-27T10:18:34+00:00

More red flags than China.

mariustibi · 2018-08-27T10:53:49+00:00

that's what "sexual liberation" does to you.Give her 10-15 years and she will be glad if she gets any attention at all.Then comes the baby-rabies.Then she loses her looks and then its all down hill from there.

2018-08-27T13:19:22+00:00

Red flags? Where to start...

Zephyrium5 · 2018-08-27T13:26:29+00:00

She wants to cheat lmao

wont_give_no_kreddit · 2018-08-27T13:27:30+00:00

This is a pimp's wet dream.

cottonmouth96 · 2018-08-27T13:30:16+00:00

Devil's threesome?

daniel13324 · 2018-08-27T13:54:09+00:00

I don’t know about you fellas, but I see ALL the red flags..... 😂 Geez Louise....

rlh445 · 2018-08-27T14:01:21+00:00

Lmao I remember when I used to really wind myself up over stuff like this - used to hear very similar from wymyn and truly try to figure out how things like this could make sense to them.

Now I just know that wymyn honestly just don’t have or understand logic or taking a narrative from A to B to C - they just feel their way through everything. So now I just find their complete lack of brain power hilarious and a bit sad.

2018-08-27T14:03:09+00:00

Ask her to fix Psychiatrist's appointment

z-man2017 · 2018-08-27T14:05:10+00:00

Yup. More red flags than the fucking Soviet Union

Illustrious_Hour · 2018-08-27T14:14:51+00:00

It makes sense. She wants a harem of men for herself. Problem is sexal deseases that all men in that harem can catch without knowing. She would probably not bother with protection.

Shuraug · 2018-08-27T14:16:38+00:00

removes match

StoneTempleFlyboy · 2018-08-27T14:36:49+00:00

They think they bring value to the table just by existing. Narcissism.

Railing against common sense. I woukd guess she also couldn't comprehend why homeowners are more responsible than renters.

2018-08-27T14:42:22+00:00

It sounds like she wants a husband.

1v1crown · 2018-08-27T14:44:28+00:00

It does make sense. It's trash, but it makes sense.

badaboomxx · 2018-08-27T14:48:22+00:00

Hamstering 101 ... it make no sense.

2018-08-27T15:06:41+00:00

Only red flag I see is you using Tinder.

Apaullo35 · 2018-08-27T15:06:58+00:00

Sound likes textbook psychological abuse.

247spyz4life · 2018-08-27T15:31:06+00:00

I had Tinder for 3 months and never got any responses. you have to pay for that shit now. You could just get a hooker

Cissnowflake · 2018-08-27T15:48:32+00:00

In sure once he told her she wasn’t making sense she came to her senses

2018-08-27T16:22:50+00:00

How about you go fuck whomever you want and just not have a bf? Then you don't mind fuck whoever you're with and you don't have to lie to anyone about what/who your doing?

freezingsama · 2018-08-27T16:26:41+00:00

See, it's true they don't even know what they want.

Wallaby_Way_Sydney · 2018-08-27T16:47:54+00:00

/r/ChoosingBeggars

PerfectNemesis · 2018-08-27T17:05:34+00:00

Sounds like she wants a cuck with extra steps.

throwaway10031998 · 2018-08-27T17:14:27+00:00

Lmao kill me

2018-08-27T17:37:07+00:00

Why are you even wasting time giving these tinder thots any attention to begin with?

serene_monk · 2018-08-27T20:11:27+00:00

NTR?

digitalEarthling · 2018-08-27T20:16:57+00:00

WOMEN ARE WHORES. period. dot. the end.

GanksGriefersForFun · 2018-08-27T21:22:49+00:00

doesn't know what cuck is in 2018 these broads are willfully stupid I've talked to my share of dumb, non-thinking cunts and it's annoying trying to hold any type of conversation with one. They're the type to ask you how tall you are over text and get mad when you respond asking how much they weigh.

xEman26x · 2018-08-27T21:32:07+00:00

A lot of them are like this though

dravenaus · 2018-08-27T22:17:35+00:00

“Wt f is that” . She obviously knew but was testing you knowledge and your willingness to do it. Smh

ListenUpMuthaFucka · 2018-08-27T22:55:51+00:00

Not really. If anything she's a spot above the rest.

This one is actually honest.

ppanthero · 2018-08-28T09:38:49+00:00

Haha - she retarded?

nonoriginal85 · 2018-09-01T01:11:28+00:00

Wear a condom. Don't give her your real name or address.

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2018-09-12T06:53:57+00:00

Fucking thot.

MAGAneticENERGY · 2018-08-27T16:37:52+00:00

I miss tinder. No really I made my dates pay for my meals and got the d wet and all. Got banned for saying "no feminists and cisgender only" in my bio

2018-08-27T06:19:36+00:00

Girls really say that?? I have talked to at least a thousand girls not all serious but I’ve had them message me I message some first but most message me first or talk to me first never once met someone say do whatever I want but they gotta be all about me

EndTimesRadio · 2018-08-27T06:36:15+00:00

I've started fucking someone who's got an amazing boyfriend. I've given up on finding available, attractive women who are into monogamy. Attractive women are never available, and available women are never attractive (inside or out). You want to stand in line and wait to be chosen, I can promise you that you'll never be able to progress in that line toward the goal of being with someone.

Me? I'm almost 30, and I've frankly gotten depressive about my chances of starting a loving family with a wife who would be faithful, kind, and compassionate. The odds of that happening are apparently nil.

So, whatever, right? It's even more depressing when you think that to scratch your urges, you're contributing to the problem, but you know that if you didn't nail her, she'd just fetch someone else.

Makes me feel like a human dildo, you know? I'm literally here to plug a hole. That's my role in this. She 'does what she wants.' I feel bad for her BF. Tempted to leave a note on the underside of the toilet seat, but then I'd have to find a new slam piece- as long as she's fucking mostly me and him, and I'm wearing a condom, the situation remains as stable as can be expected to be in 2018+.

Welcome to the future. Women said they wanted this, but I imagine from the rhetoric of how they "hate men" that they're no happier than before.

Title	Talking to this girl I met on tinder. See any red flags?
Author	Celticfan93
Upvotes	1239
Comments	256
Date	August 27, 2018 1:17 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
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