Point the judgment in the right direction please....

misty-muse · 2020-12-14T05:33:30+00:00

Men shame women for being raped more than they shame other men for committing rape. It’s a feature, not a bug.

NurseRatched2099 · 2020-12-14T05:02:50+00:00

I never see any men, anywhere, shame men for rape. Not ever.

2020-12-14T14:30:26+00:00

They also shame us for not having consensual sex.

2020-12-14T07:07:42+00:00

Because men think they're entitled to sex at women's expense and if we have any agency or an independent sexuality that doesn't revolve around men, we're sluts. Casual sex is a lose-lose for women anyway but men are fine with rape as long as they're not getting in trouble for it.

Confidence_Relative · 2020-12-14T11:21:09+00:00

We have plenty pejorative terms for women like sluts, whores, slapper, gold diggers freely and liberally applied without consequence. But if a man is called abusive, all hell breaks lose unless and he is defended to the nth degree without fail and the blame put squarely back on the woman. Even if he is found guilty or acknowledges he is abusive. Looking at you Johnny Depp and Shia LeBouef. We find away to absolve the man and blame the woman.

Cutiejea · 2020-12-14T16:15:28+00:00

Or shamed for not having sex at all

atuan · 2020-12-14T16:55:43+00:00

Then argue rape should be a human right because women withhold sex.

iggypooop · 2020-12-14T11:10:35+00:00

I had this happen to me last week: a toxic psychopathic piece of shit found a way to my DM after almost 4 years of me blocking him everywhere on social media. He tried to provoke me asking if my husband knew that he was the 34th dick I had sat on. The same asshole mocked me ressetlessly for having been raped by 3 men at 15.

It's not sex per se that is the issue, they only shame you when YOU choose it.

MysteriousLife7 · 2020-12-15T04:29:44+00:00

They shame us for having consensual sex (a nymphomaniac), for having non-consensual sex (a cry baby playing victim), for not having sex with them (a picky bitch who doesn't want to sleep with average Joe), and for not having sex with anyone at all (a prude). WTF

Ladies, no matter what you do, you will be slut-shamed, victim-shamed, or prude-shamed. So ditch these LVM and what they say.

UnhappyMedia · 2020-12-14T20:27:43+00:00

LOUDER

FDSxMuffinVSrat · 2020-12-14T21:19:44+00:00

I love the succinct and powerful one liners like this. Because it's just true. It's not an essay. It's a simple and powerful truth.

Title	Point the judgment in the right direction please....
Author	libralia
Upvotes	1562
Comments	23
Date	December 14, 2020 4:42 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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