I was shamed and insulted today because I don't want to date a woman with kids......

urban3879 · 2017-09-14T22:07:08+00:00

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Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2017-09-14T23:11:08+00:00

I absolutely love what another poster said: There are mainly two reasons why a single mother is a single mother.

1) She has horrible judgment and got raw dogged by a fuck boy or:

2) She ran off a very good man.

Now tell me what benefits there are dating those useless type of women? None, zip, nada.

ExpertDabbler · 2017-09-14T22:26:24+00:00

You'll be better off by not getting involved in such discussions and ESPECIALLY with women for obvious reasons. But if they push hard enough, the best way that works for me was to adapt the female euphemistic language and see how they like it. For example: "Why won't you date single mothers?" A: Don't feel like it. Q: Why? A: "My body, my choice, my decision". And if they say something along the lines of "Shame on you!", just mention that shame is not an argument. In short, kick the ball right back to them WITHOUT discussing the subject at hand. Because if you start discussing that, you'll lose.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-14T23:10:25+00:00

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mrscene1 · 2017-09-14T21:49:09+00:00

Number 1 rule of MGTOW: Don't engage lol 'why wouldn't you date her?' 'Hmm.. no reason'. Fortunately all my friends know single moms are losers.

NefariousRaccoon · 2017-09-14T23:03:26+00:00

Well OP, my take is, at least you kept it real. I mean some people never wanna rock the boat, let sleeping dogs lie, all that. I say fuck that - speak your piece. I've had similar situations happen as well - all too often. I feel like I'm talking with crazy people when it happens lol. They just can't even fucking FATHOM that I have priorities and interests that don't come second to Mrs. Ex-chad and her crotch spawn.

mrk68 · 2017-09-15T00:58:11+00:00

If you were female this conversation would have gone much differently.

Woman: "I won't date a man with kids."

Coworkers: "Understandable, you are allowed to have preferences..."

2017-09-14T21:46:24+00:00

A+ buddy. You're going to make it.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-14T23:59:33+00:00

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2QuietDude · 2017-09-14T22:07:46+00:00

Stand strong.

the_real_chronos_ · 2017-09-14T22:19:04+00:00

I don't date women without baggage now anyway so people trying to hook me up with a woman that does have baggage is insulting. To be honest having women around me is insulting in its own category.

Now ladies of the night. Independent and respectable and somewhat pricey ladies of the nights. I like them!

2017-09-14T23:27:58+00:00

NotMyCrotchfruit

NietzscheExplosion · 2017-09-14T22:13:25+00:00

How the fuck did you get sucked into the vortex....twice??

CIAC50 · 2017-09-14T22:51:02+00:00

If you're still pissed go for a run, lift some weights, and file it away for future reference. Only very rarely does debate contribute anything new, it's just the same old cliches.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-15T00:18:59+00:00

Where do some of you people live? Cuckistan? I've had men, and even women who don't have kids tell me to stay away from single mothers. I had lunch with a female friend today who told me to stay away from them.

Next time someone calls you selfish op do what I do. "Yep, I'm an asshole and pretty happy being one". Shuts then down quick

IsThatAll · 2017-09-15T02:11:10+00:00

This only happened because there was a woman in the car, and the two manginas had to jump in to be on her side to impress her.

1) If she wasn't in the car, the discussion wouldn't have happened in the first place

2) If she wasn't in the car, and the topic came up, I suspect the conversation would have gone more along the same lines as your best buddy.

In my experience, guys don't typically shame guys like this unless there are women around. YMMV

J-Mosc · 2017-09-15T01:10:30+00:00

If you were female and you told them they didn't want to date a man who was 5'10 they'd laugh it off, and if you said the man had to have an income higher than yours, they'd probably all agree with you. Sounds reasonable. Oh but you don't want to raise another mans child? What are you insane?

These people have swallowed the garbage they've been fed all their lives. They can't think for themselves.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-14T22:09:32+00:00

i think this was a shit test

cleats4u · 2017-09-15T03:32:31+00:00

If you work with these people (even off the clock) expect a call from HR not to discuss your personal beliefs with fellow employees because you are offensive. It could be a verbal or a written warning. The guys that baited you into that conversation are not your friends. If "Holly" works with you every single mother at your employment is going to know what you said and want you out of there. You are worthless to them now. Watch your back and start looking for another place to work or live in hell.

Cabshear · 2017-09-15T06:00:36+00:00

The most effective comments have already been made. However, I will say...The story continues to show me the truly animal nature of humans, not just women. When they didn't recieve the answer they wanted they ganged up like pissed off Bonobos.

Altrusist will always despise the selfish eqoist. Because, he has the balls to see things for what they are, live and let live, and tend to his own business. Altrusts are not mentally able to do this. Emotional whims are their compass, which if it was an actual compass would be spinning nonstop 360°. Their inability to tend to their own business is why gossip and constant invasion into other peoples' lives are a hot, and expected, commodity.
Nothing they said constitutes anything mildly reasonable. It was just profainity, guilt, and lazy hypothetical senarios. Flip the script: would it be okay for a woman to reject a man if he had the herp? It's something he carries that she will have to inherit until death if they want to be together. Discrimination isnt always evil, on the contrary it can save your life.

Also, you know how many chicks I talked to that ducked out when they discovered I was an active single dad? Altruists and moralists are really banking on you not seeing their hypocrisy, because even they don't see it!!

Rational Self Interest does seem to differ from coloquial selfihsness. However, its too difficult to explain this to people determined to misunderstand you and reinforce their own social/emotional dogmas.
In this hypersensitive PC age, any rational self interest will be vehemently resisted as "evil". Collectivists have been doing it forever.

Besides, why not have standards? Tons of women refuse to date guys with kids! One swift browse thru POF, Zoosk, Okcupid, and Tinder will show you that. Women can also refuse men for biological accidents or genetics as well. You're simply leveling the playing field. Dishonest people don't like that, because now their advantage has been taken away.

The ultimate result of shielding men from the effects of folly is to fill the world with fools. -Herbert Spencer

Aussiewolf82 · 2017-09-15T01:19:24+00:00

Female in car.. Males decide to say everything she wants to hear. Weak bastards. Glad you walked away. Personally I would have made them stop the car and walked off.

U96Q69 · 2017-09-14T22:54:24+00:00

Next time, just say: " I don't date woman with kids, because I'm afraid to be killed by her ex. (or accused being a pedo)"

Then change subjects, and move on conversations is a art.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-14T23:02:55+00:00

eh. I'm not convinced these guys were serious. it's not like they're taking care of some other dude's kid. also being a step dad makes no financial sense. you'll have to pay thousands to send the fuck to college only to have him abandon you after he's graduated.

2017-09-15T00:53:22+00:00

This is so strange of a concept to me. Only heard it from youngish people. It is madness. My parents generational have always encouraged staying away from single moms. It is the biggest red flag

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-14T23:57:13+00:00

They are not paying your bills, so who are they to tell you how to live your life. Stand your ground they are not important in your life so why would you care about their opinion?

Reprogramming_Life · 2017-09-15T07:29:39+00:00

I just don't see how any man can do it. How can you date or marry a woman with kids already knowing there are tons of women out there without any? That's going to make you feel like a real man, spanking another man's child because the mother is mentally ill and moderately attractive? How can anyone be that desperate for pussy. That's why these hoes are so reckless, they know a simp will always be there to bail them out. Doesn't it even cross their minds that she's likely a lying piece of shit Narcissist? I've never had any pussy that good. I wouldn't even fuck a woman with a kid, it would feel too creepy to me. "Hey kid, I just fucked your mom. Don't mind me getting some juice out of your fridge. I'll be gone by morning!" A bunch of fucking weirdos on this planet.

divorcedbp · 2017-09-15T04:13:16+00:00

There's a really easy answer for this.

"If she neglects her duty to her child to be with me, she's a terrible person and I have no desire to be with her. If she is a good person and a good mom, I will never be important to her. I fail to see how there is any scenario under which I at least come out even."

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-15T06:57:55+00:00

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thy_neighbor · 2017-09-15T07:21:57+00:00

As someone already pointed out the reason to avoid dating a single mom are many. You may ignore some of them, but it's clear that instinctively you figured out that's a very raw deal.
If it happens again that you're dragged in this kind of conversation, try to avoid losing your temper (it's a mess when everybody starts shouting) and use the same arguments that I do:

I don't date single moms because I've had bad experiences in the past, and to me the situation gets just too complicated. There are guys who like this kind of complications in their life and welcome it (blue pillers), I'm just not one of them.

If they keep trying to force their point of view on you with armchair psychology bullshits, just quote them this

Single moms can all be divided into 3 categories:
* The one who left the father of their child,
* The one who were left by the father of their child
* Widows
Now let's take a look on what we have here: a girl meets a boy, and without even checking if he's the kind of man she wants in her life, she has a baby with him and then dump him. This is evidence that she is emotionally irresponsible and prone to make wrong choices at the very least, since it's even worse if the man could have been a good father for the baby.
The second category is formed by girls who not only hook up the wrong kind of guy (cough Chad cough), but they involved an innocent child in an already messed up relationship with someone who wasn't a good partner to begin with, let alone a good father. This is evidence of being emotionally careless and egocentric.
In both cases the very fact that they are single moms is the proof that they are not good partner to be taken into consideration for a long term relationship of any kind, shape or form.
Third category is the widows. Now if we exclude the ones that took active part in their partners' death (for obvious reasons: who the fuck would want to date someone who killed or brought to suicide their last partner?), we remain with the ones who were probably in a healthy relationship but life forced them in a very unfortunate situation. Those have my most sincere sympathy, and I honestly have nothing bad to say about them.
In addition to what we have said so far, we have to take into account that if you engage a long term relationship with a single mom, you will have to be involved with the baby's biological dad and his family, which complicates even further an already shaky situation (I'm using euphemisms here).
To complete this already long list, if you had to chose a girl to date, why should you pick the single mom who has been proved not to be a good partner when there are plenty of women who have not committed any of those mistakes and are looking for a partner too?
So in conclusion the question is not Why don't you want to date single moms? but Why should you date single moms?.

I really hope this will be able to help people with any discussion on the topic.

Pk_s_to_the_yizzle · 2017-09-15T08:58:19+00:00

OP. Sorry your world got smaller. And You didn't see it coming. It's okay.

It's kinda cool to be the non-crazy one in a crazy world. Even as your friend pool shrinks.

But if you ever really wanna duke it out - go to retard ground zero in your defense.

"am i allowed to have an opinion? Or do I have to have your opinion?" Them: yes you can have your own opinion, but the only one that makes sense is...
"So It has to be the SAME as you, or else IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE HUH? So I am allowed to have MY OWN opinion as LONG AS ITS YOUR OPINION RIGHT? OR I am only right IF I agree with you? So you have all the answers to life and are the only authority on all that is right, is that correct?"

If they get silent - they realized they fucked up and you have them against a rock, they have to admit THEY REALLY JUST WANT TO CONTROL YOU OR THEY HAVE TO SHUT UP.

If they Say "YES" is ANY WAY. Then you laugh and play it off as a JOKE. YES I SEE you have great plans for the world, thank god you don't own it or me. There is such a thing as personal freedom. we can have different opinions, this is ONE of them. I have MY life and you have YOUR life. LIVE ONLY YOUR LIFE AND STOP TRYING TO LIVE MINE.

I FIND - YOU ALWAYS HAVE TO ISSUE SJW, projecters, and BLUE PILL people commands, because LOGIC DON'T COMPUTE, But Walls, Warnings, Threats, Barbed-wire fences, and outright Beat downs are Understood BY EVERYBODY.

USE THEM. They will make your life Easier.

In essence, always break down what they are trying to do "OUT LOUD" and put it in the light of day AND THEIR FACE, so you can expose them. THEY HATE BEING EXPOSED WHILE TRYING TO MANIPULATE. They recoil from it like VAMPIRES FROM THE SUN.

So, what your saying is that I should take money that is only mine, and give it to some other women and her kids. Because? And that's the Right thing to do?

So lady... When are you going to help a single day get his act together? How much are you going to spend on him the first month?

You are literally just repeating their lunacy back to them and watching them try to re-dance around it to try and cover up the bullshit.

Zombocom1911 · 2017-09-15T00:00:53+00:00

Ray (Male 1) says: That's not a deal breaker is it for you is it OP? I said yup. I won't date a girl with kids. They asked me why. So I said: I don't want to have my own kids, why would I want to help take care of someone else's? Que the shaming language.

I agree with this 100%, as a man who has recently become surgically child free for life.

however, people are worthless, and you should not depend on anyone to have your back, in any situation. you will never be disappointed that way. That means not sharing your beliefs, too, because you stand to gain nothing from it, but stand to face what you face.

CynicalSoup · 2017-09-15T03:17:35+00:00

"I don't fix other people's mistakes."

darkrood · 2017-09-15T04:24:32+00:00

Oh, I know why, because I don't date single mother (I still fuck them if they don't bring up kids, hue hue hue)

They are shaming you for Chad's sins. Men have to take other men's burden like men because society says so.

Still makes 0 logical sense.

omega_dawg93 · 2017-09-15T04:56:37+00:00

my reply: "i don't date women with kids. how old is the kid anyway? well, I'll ask her out when the kid is an adult."

Codeine_dave · 2017-09-15T05:09:38+00:00

Single moms are disgusting. You are 100% right why should you have to take care of someone else's bad decision?

scaur · 2017-09-15T08:38:36+00:00

Tell them they can support her, give her $$$ each week.

Revorob · 2017-09-15T09:02:23+00:00

One reply comes to mind.......

"Mind your own fucking business".

I agree that at the end of the day, your views/values in life are your own and you are perfectly entitled to them. Anyone who cannot respect that is not much of a friend.

You could point out the obvious hypocrisies that most women will not date a single father who has custody or is under 6' tall. Does this make them shit humans as well?

mthrowaway52 · 2017-09-15T00:29:00+00:00

I don't want to date women at all though. Or even be with women.

Squidhunter88 · 2017-09-15T00:39:10+00:00

They are the product of single mother families and took offense since you were possibly offending them and their mothers? I have had this happen to me.. bitch had three kids to three dads and my mate took offense when i said single mothers are in fact the selfish ones. Simply projection OP on their part. No.one gets to set your moral standards but yourself. Good job. Let it go and continue as normal.

rquasius · 2017-09-15T00:44:09+00:00

should have told them to shame the father of the children, not you.

2017-09-15T01:04:42+00:00

They're just severely cucked. It sounds like you handled it well, though.

Griever114 · 2017-09-15T01:11:07+00:00

Stop dealing with these fucks and do your own thing. You are dealing with tradecons, cunts and fucking beta cucks.

bridgerina · 2017-09-15T03:08:00+00:00

Honestly that is so dumb. If you don't want your own kids why would you go out of your way to date a woman who already has kids. That's not shitty at all. Those people were all being jerks. And that's coming from a woman, who loves children. You have every right to not date whoever you want for any reason. Especially something as big and life changing as children.

Nachowolfs · 2017-09-15T04:18:41+00:00

Long shot outlier hypothesis: I bet the baby daddy was in that car with you and you didn't even know bro . They took you for "anti-social" because you are non conformist to the social consensus like all of our brothers in this sub . I hope you feel better about this conflict but just know that this constructive conflict where you now know where you stand with said individuals.

-goodnight my brothers !

2017-09-15T04:56:19+00:00

i wouldn't even be friends with people like that.

steelfil666 · 2017-09-15T05:33:38+00:00

Come on man, why did you let those assholes get to you. Their behavior is childlike and easy to deflect. I always start of by laughing uncontrollably at their statements, it really shakes their confidence at what their saying because they have no real basis behind the argument, they just repeat their social conditioning stuff. And after you got 'em in defence mode they try to defend their point with arguments which is a really weak position for them to be

SushiWizard · 2017-09-15T06:20:30+00:00

Perfectly get your point. Just curious though, would the reason she is unmarried with a kid change your decision? For example, her husband died of cancer and she was upfront with you about the kid at the first date. Even then, I don't think it's selfish of you to reject it.

CarbonNightmare · 2017-09-15T06:45:35+00:00

Yeah. "it's my sex life, I'll be as discriminatory as I want. If I don't like fat girls, I have no obligation to sate fat girls, if I don't like black girls, I have no obligation to date them, same with mothers."

mgtownigga · 2017-09-15T08:44:33+00:00

it blows my mind when people think you're selfish for not wanting to date a woman with kids. That shit is real baggage in more ways than one. I mean if you're much older and her kids have grown up, that's kind of another story, but if you're under 40 and her kids are still children/teenagers, then yeah, it's not a small thing to overlook when dating someone. That's a huge deal and people are fucking retarded. You cannot claim that dating a woman with kids isn't a wholly different scenario dating a woman without. EVERYTHING is different. It's not even close to the same thign

Trek13 · 2017-09-15T13:11:33+00:00

you need a better argument.

the next time you have a conversation like this:

OP: "ok, you are claiming that I am selfish simply because I want to live my own life the way I want to"

friends: yes you are selfish for not wanting to take care of a woman's child by another man.

OP: ok, lets talk about "selfishness". I would argue that every person has the right to live their own life as they see fit. Its their life and you only live once after all. But a woman who has a child and then expects another man who is not the father to assume responsibility for that child? Well, that is probably the most selfish act I can imagine. The absolute entitlement to expect such a thing from another human being is just outrageous. A woman makes a decision to have a child, which in itself is a very selfish act motivated by her hormones, her "feelz", sure, she can fool herself into believing its "all about the child" and that it is somehow a selfless act. Sorry, IT ISNT. And then thru bad fortune or bad luck or bad decisions, this woman is left on her own to take care of HER CHILD that she SELFISHLY brought into this world and then for her TO EXPECT another man, who is not the father, to bear the responsibility for her decision? That is FUCKING SELFISH! (at this point it is ok to be shouting at your dumbshit "friends"). And this is just not any small responsibility! It is a long, LONG term decision taking up a huge part of that mans life and a huge part of his finances and time. FUCK THAT!!!

Oohhthehumanity · 2017-09-15T16:19:06+00:00

If you are a) a male and b) not chad you are not supposed to have requirements. For the fun of it we are allowed some preferences: "So do you like blondes or brunettes" and maybe have a pick in what kind of popculture thing they are in to but that is about it. You mention anything above that you are basically a shallow sexist scumbag. If asked I usually say "I heard that fishes don't need bicycles and I do my own maintenance thank you". They usually drop it after that!! Either because they have no idea what i am talking about and think i am crazy or because they do get it and realize I wouldn't match well with their feministic but fabolous friend with either baby rabies or 2 kids.

TigPlaze · 2017-09-15T16:55:34+00:00

Single mothers know their SMV has been destroyed by their bad choices, so they make pathetic attempts to shame men into dating them. Don't fall for it. They're worthless and not worth your time. Laugh at them. Make fun of them, but don't fuck them.

EnslavedOpethFan053 · 2017-09-15T18:17:02+00:00

Are your 2 male friends virtue-signaling white-knights? The fact that there was a female present might have altered their behavior.

Xlasingx · 2017-09-15T02:25:52+00:00

i wouldn't have been able to contain myself..

on that fire, i would have pulled out the kerosene.. that and all kinds of comments, through my insane laughter..

succubus.. harpy.. welfare mama.. entitled, worthless, used, wall approaching..

..shitstain on humanity!!

..the laughs i would have had..

robowriter · 2017-09-15T04:57:42+00:00

Misery loves company. Stay true to yourself and slide out easy and find some new "friends" but not like these. If you get trapped by women divert with nonsense, fashion, gossip, regular stupid conversation.

down_vote_militia · 2017-09-15T05:53:34+00:00

Well, they want to pick your dates - find them a nice homeless fucker and set them up. Be sure to tell them how selfish they are if they decline.

Tyler789228 · 2017-09-15T06:00:45+00:00

Don't start to justify yourself. It's like opening the door of your mind and letting them in...

2017-09-15T06:07:12+00:00

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2017-09-15T06:45:36+00:00

That's okay... Yesterday some dumb cunt tried to shame and threatened to dox me for not wanting to hook up w her... She has genital herpes. I don't.

The entitlement of these cunts is astounding.

shockred · 2017-09-15T07:24:57+00:00

if you met a girl and she had a kid

I can hardly imagine translating this to my mother tongue. It just sounds... Not proper. Nobody uses that specific combination of words in the context of a mother with her kids.

Girls don't go with kids. Women do/should.

Ah, the wonders of English language. Even it is being changed for the feminist agenda.

UDT22 · 2017-09-15T08:25:06+00:00

Some time it pays to give a political non answer. When asked if you said it would depend on the woman.

urban3879 · 2017-09-15T10:39:52+00:00

Tell em to call jg wentworth with their concerns , 877 fat cow

Arab-mgtow · 2017-09-15T10:47:17+00:00

People are so brainwashed that it is almost impossible to interact with them. Like you, I prefer to just be by myself and do my own thing.

However as a compromise, if someone asked me this, I would say something less inflammatory, such as "I don't really date because it is a hassle. I am too lazy." I conform a little, play the part, but never commit myself, never lock myself in, never enslave myself. Then I just walk away.

2017-09-15T11:20:26+00:00

I get why you'd be pissed, but at least know you're doing the right thing. We wouldn't have the single mother epidemic if all men did this...

Beyond that, at least your an honest person. You could have just said, yeah you're right, I guess it'd be fine to date a dumb whore who popped out a poorly planned human life and been done with the whole situation. Stick to your guns.

I'd go a step further. Not only will I not date a single mom, if I have the chance to do so without repercussions (causing problems with work or friends), I'll definitely shame them. With good reason too - their children are a blight on society - likely to be a criminal and generally require public (MY) assistance.

DarkCircle · 2017-09-15T11:47:48+00:00

There are some really shitty people that call themselves your friends. They aren't.

Booshank25 · 2017-09-15T11:51:09+00:00

Selfishness isn't doing what you want to do, selfishness is wanting other people to do what you want them to do for your benefit, validation, comfort etc. Ergo, your co-workers are selfish.

Maintain sovereignty.

genesic123 · 2017-09-15T12:31:35+00:00

You are a complete stranger to her kids anyways.To date her would be selfish,cause how would these kids feel when a total stranger is getting it on with their mom? Wow people do push men to do some messed up stuff.

TonyPajamas29 · 2017-09-15T12:53:40+00:00

People get really weird about just the idea of not being interested in a relationship at all. I still have people that say they want to set me up with this girl they know. I'm just trying to figure out why they want to bring me down lol. Sorry but I'm not interested and it would take a a whole hell of a lot to change my mind, throw a kid into the mix already and it's game the fuck over that instant.

Keep doin you OP, don't let them try to bring you down just because they're miserable.

2017-09-15T12:55:57+00:00

This is why I never have anything more than completely superficial conversations with anyone until they have cleared my vetting process.

fickle_fuck · 2017-09-15T13:02:14+00:00

Shame on you for doing what you want and not wanting to stay on the plantation. They can call me selfish all they want because it's probably true, but I still have the biggest shit eating grin on my face!

tradermikez · 2017-09-15T13:19:09+00:00

If any woman were shaming me as shallow or an asshole for not wanting to date a woman who has kids, I'd ask HER if she'd be willing to date a short man! Like 5'5 short ;)

CadeyrnDragheim · 2017-09-15T13:56:39+00:00

"You're soooo selfiiisshhh" the parasyte always says to the host who doesn't want it anymore

HODLtheCRYPTO · 2017-09-15T15:03:17+00:00

Tell them cunts to go fuck themselves.

e1337chin · 2017-09-15T15:20:18+00:00

imagining myself in your situation reading your post, i would have focused on the married part of all her friends are married with kids, and said some joke like, well i don't wanna be a homewrecker lol.

of course you did nothing wrong, just some people can't handle when others have a differing opinion to their own, or to seemingly mainstream society's. goddamn shame. i'm very impressed at how you held your ground in the car and at the mall with male 1.

2017-09-15T16:41:07+00:00

The problem here is that you actually have standards and are daring to stick to them. This is totally unacceptable to women and BP/simp men because:

Women: If you have standards that means that if they wanted to get with you they will have to measure up to YOUR standards, totally unacceptable! You should know by now that YOU are the one who must measure up to HER standards not the other way around, how dare you. Standards are for women you silly boy, Shame on you for thinking otherwise!!!

BP/simp: This is even more insidious because… You have standards the simp does not, he will do anything for that sweet sweet penile moistening he craves. By having standards you are showing that you are Alpha and he is clearly Beta so he will pile on you to make you look bad thinking this will curry favor with the woman in the car make him alpha. How dare you have standards while I don’t, Shame!!!

drhagbard_celine · 2017-09-15T17:04:29+00:00

Not MGTOW myself, but you absolutely have the right to not want to get involved with a woman who has children. Your friends were out of line.

ManIsWalking · 2017-09-15T17:44:07+00:00

Lol fuck all three of them in the mouth. You're allowed your personal preference and standards just like everyone else. If someone wants to spin that shit on you, just make a comparison. "So would you date an obese woman? Just because she's a little overweight and has to use a walker to get around shouldn't stop you from living her, right!?"

If you want to be more PC about it, remind them "that for every single mom out there is a single dad. And you just feel that people with similar experience would be better suited for eachother." Some people just aren't attracted to people of a certain race, weight, situation, ECT. And we should all be allowed to have those preferences.

There's nothing more cucked than being a step-father but not having kids of your own. If the woman is not bringing something extra to make up for having the kids in that kind of relationship, she has no business being with a man that doesn't have kids of his own. Yet you see this alot online, single moms exclusively demanding a cuck provider, it usually reads "mommy of 2, I'm looking for a man with his own home, makes 6 figures, at least 6'0, no kids..."

johnnygeeksheek · 2017-09-15T18:46:02+00:00

She said she didn't have any available friends because she precieved your SMV as lower than hers. Her friends having a similar SMV to her.

By rejecting her friends you are implying to her that her SMV is lower than yours. This is why she was adamant in shaming you. Your 'friend' wanted in her pants and was willing to shit on you for it.

whitelight369 · 2017-09-15T20:13:43+00:00

You don't owe anybody with kids a goddamn thing unless you want to. That's the truth , the truth is if you were blessed in this world to think critically, you know you don't have to take care of others karma.

2017-09-16T02:32:53+00:00

You should be evasive in those types os siituations, OP

Title	I was shamed and insulted today because I don't want to date a woman with kids......
Author	EnslavedOpethFan053
Upvotes	338
Comments	175
Date	September 14, 2017 9:42 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/705f3o/i_was_shamed_and_insulted_today_because_i_dont/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/i-was-shamed-and-insulted-today-because-i-dont.556259 https://theredarchive.com/post/556259

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NotMyCrotchfruit

..shitstain on humanity!!