Valentines Day, Reversing the Trend

PabloEscoba · 2016-02-15T16:59:24+00:00

Next valentines,tell her u want get her something special but ONLY if she's doesn't share it on social media. Watch her head explode.

scarletspider3 · 2016-02-15T19:33:30+00:00

Women don't appreciate shit you do for them on Valentine's day because they just feel entitled to it.

SComm · 2016-02-15T21:22:53+00:00

Valentines day is a mathematical equation every man has in his head that goes like this: How much money do I have to spend today so that you won't act like a cunt? - Jim Jefferies

razometer · 2016-02-15T19:05:24+00:00

I was going to cook a Valentine's Day dinner for my LTR at home. Nothing special, but the gesture is what mattered, then she came home and we ended up cooking together. It was a lovely evening considering she's the one making food the other 364 days of the week. Everyone had a good time, and I didn't have to spend more that I do on a usual dinner. Her girlfriends got expensive gifts from their boyfriends and shared everything on SM. She didn't. Guess who had more fun?

T0000009 · 2016-02-15T19:54:26+00:00

I bought my dog a giant bone...

She licked me for hours, didn't bark, and slept in my lap most of the day.

WINNING!

2016-02-15T19:10:56+00:00

Didn't do anything special for my plate besides be dominant in the bedroom that morning before work. Not even a "happy Valentine's day." A couple of her guy friends I'm mutual friends with bought her gifts because we aren't in a relationship. She later sent me a text about how much she desires me and how she is going to cum to the smell of me on her shirt later.

All I can do is laugh and say TRP is the truth. Women look for both alpha fucks and beta bucks/orbiters. Don't be the beta bucks.

thenemaxofredpill · 2016-02-16T01:51:52+00:00

If you are still doing the whole Valentines Day, you are def doing RedPill wrong. Valentines Day was created by Hallmark to sell cards. Then, came all the other bandwagon corporate assholes that want to sell candy, and giant stuffed bears. Fuck that. I don't care if a chick I am seeing whines, cries or calls me an asshole. I will not buy into a scam that will make me more broke and her more fat. I used to work in the restaurant business and there were special menus just for these dumb ass holidays that normally jacked up the prices of regular food a dollar or two. And drinks...don't even get me started. But most of you don't realize it because you are too worried about giving her the V-day that she will remember for the rest of her life...and in girl-time...that means about 6 hours.

Here is how the conversation went with my date of 6 years:

Her: What are we doing for Valentines day

Me: What do you mean?

Her: Like are you going to get me anything or are we going out or something?

Me: Planned on getting you the same thing I got you last year but in a different color.

Her: You didn't get me anything last year.

Me: Exactly.

Her: B-but babe....I at least want to see you.

Me: That's fine. Come over and bring your bikini. We'll take a dip in the jacuzzi and get white girl wasted on some whiskey. Then, you can do dirty things to me.

Her: Ugh...you're such an ass. But OK I'll head over after work.

When I was blue pill...I gave my date the ultimate valentines set-up. Massage, mani/pedi, dinner, wine, chocolates, etc. Got the whole "I think we need a break" talk about a month later. Now, I don't do that shit and have been dating the same girl for 6 years. This year...my valentines consisted of inviting her over for a dip in the jacuzzi and a bottle of whiskey. She even gave me a card and an oven mitt. Yes, I didn't have an oven mitt and she comes over to cook all the time and complains that I don't have.

Wake up, gentlemen. Stop buying into the bullshit. It is called the Red Pill for a reason. Time to wake up to the Matrix or you will be caught at Jared buying her a clear piece of worthless carbon.

EDDbDG · 2016-02-15T20:39:21+00:00

In my culture it was always the tradition for the female party to give the male party presents on Valentine's Day. I liked it like that. Why is it backwards in America?

Thizzlebot · 2016-02-15T22:29:25+00:00

God I forgot people have low standards and date whores that think like this. My gf went out and got me a bunch of shit and knows we're are splitting the bills on almost everything. You need to vett harder in the beginning if you are in a LTR with a "princess".

CaptainGloom · 2016-02-15T18:29:07+00:00

Haha wow, this was enjoyable. Reminds me when my ex used to be a bit of a whiny bitch whenever I did something slightly disagreeable (keep in mind I was the guy she kept telling was her dream) and if I brushed it off she usually came back with her tail between her legs and trying to appease me. Good lesson, friend.

FrameWalker · 2016-02-15T22:40:47+00:00

Chiming in to thank the trp subreddit. This valentine's day I was very happy with my girl, she spent hours and hours making my gift, and it was so thoughtful. Awalt and it's just my turn, but it's nice to see that steady reinforcement of good behavior pay off.

Meat-on-the-table · 2016-02-15T17:31:10+00:00

Do you or do you not believe in Valentine's Day? Because great as the gifts were, it still comes across as you being swayed by her emotional nonsense.

cs181181 · 2016-02-16T05:59:10+00:00

I have to agree with this. I said to my LTR that "if you want to go out for it, your paying for it" So she ended up spending 100 on dinner for us both and 50 on a movie to go see.

P.s Movie was dead-pool, and the guy that said it was full of Neo feminist bs was right.

redpillliger · 2016-02-15T18:47:32+00:00

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max_peenor · 2016-02-15T22:40:19+00:00

I only do nice things when I want

The true and final way to project power to women. No obligations. No tradition. No rules. It is your fancy that drives what you do.

2016-02-16T08:18:49+00:00

Valentines Day was invented by broads to get guys to cough up the gold. Don't be a victim, they don't deserve shit on any day. We give them enough.

0kool74 · 2016-02-16T14:21:50+00:00

Me: "What did you do for me? Did you get me flowers? Candy? Buy me anything? Write me a poem?"

Her: "No because I'm the girl!"

And thus why TheRedPill exists

lagerea · 2016-02-16T19:44:42+00:00

I went to see Deadpool with the ltr, then ate coney dogs she bought the movie I bought the food, mine was cheaper lol no fuss we both had a great time. Times be changin

plsjustgo · 2016-03-13T08:17:52+00:00

"Hmmm sounds pretty one sided...not sure I want any part in that. I only do nice things when I want to, not when I feel obligated."

Women seem to be really receptive when we speak like this. You let one of these sit in their head for a while and then you see the results.

Moldy_Gecko · 2016-02-16T04:13:59+00:00

I gave the girl I was with some regifted chocolate about a week before Valentines.

TRP_Lee_zard · 2016-02-16T17:23:03+00:00

Shit, I've done the same thing this year.

As my LTR was misbehaving week prior to V day. On Sunday when she asked what I have planned, I told her that V day is a reward for good behavior and asked if she think she deserved it.

She sulked for a while, but later went out and brought me a cake and made dinner.

whatgatsby · 2016-02-16T00:33:17+00:00

I see your point. Here's my FR: So i take my STR HB (10) out to dinner, me being (10) and it wasn't that bad. I started right off the bat with max KINO, HB was liking it. I could easily tell. By the time the Hibachi chef was finishing up his fucking volcano of onions, i already knew this would end in a full close because we already k closed like 3 times.

Hibachi chef knew what the fuck kinda game this alpha was playing. So feeling pretty good at this point i decide to go for a small boob grab (as she's sitting next to me), you know just for some real kino not that beta touch-her-hand-shit. But she rejects! Shows some light IOD at this point. Got no idea what the fuck happened i was definitely SMBing at high levels. Hibachi chef kinda smirked at me too.

Then i decide fuck this Valentine bullshit beta shit, I'm not not going to pay for the bill entirely. So we split 50/50 and no tip for that smartass hibachi chef. Bill was $120.93, a little steep but fuck it got some decent k closes. So we leave this dump and i am purposely not holding her hand. Using some push-pull theory i learned a while back on TRP, gold shit too. Then i open the car door for her and we hop in my Civic V-tec (boosted).

So at this point im just driving her back to her apartment and decide to smoke a cigarette but she decides to be a fucking SJW and stops me from doing so. Now I'm starting to feel like a beta by not smoking but only bc i dont want to fuck my F close chances. But i smoke my vape instead it a APV (Arizer Solo), beast clouds from that tune, i do recommend it to those who vape.

We arrive at her house. And this is were i start to get nervous. She's instantly whips out her phone (S6 Edge +) and starts going on FB. I hate it when they do that. Like wtf I'm some sort of wall? Did I not split the bill with you?! So fuck it, i go on FB too. We can play this game all night. After like 10 minutes i alphally tell her that she should invite me for "tea". She agrees, i fucking knew it, f closing this tonight. We go upstairs to her apartment and decide to watch the new walking dead. I'm a big fan but she's not. Whatever fuck it, I'm def trying to watch that shit. After 40 min and no tea, no k closes, and definitely no f close, i start to get bored and feel like an orbiter. I use the excuse of it being too hot in her house (it was actually really cold, the heater pipes were busted) i start to take off my aramani jeans. What do you know she shows LMR and says its too soon. Maybe some ASD? I don't even know at this point.. So i put my pants back on. We re-watch the all star game and its just awkward now, i don't even like basketball...

I'm totally lost here, I mean we made out before, but does this make me a plate now? I know i can't be friend-zoned bc we did kiss before like 3 times in the Hibachi joint. But really whats the point of inviting me for tea if you're not going to f close me? We all know what "tea" means.. We all seen the movie Hitch before, shits a fucking classic. So I'm done watching this dumb basketball game and while she's in the bathroom, peeing or something, I pull out her dusty wii console and load that shit up. I think this is smart bc you can definitely get some solid KINO with a girl while playing that good ol' wii. I'm just happy she has one. Oh and also I hid the other 2 remotes so we can "share one". Gold move right there imo. Now heres the TIFU:

She comes back from the bathroom and says she's down for some wii action (i just wished she wanted that d action instead, all good we'll get there though). But the fucking remote i chose was broken! Like a dumbass i had to go back to her kitchen cabinet and pull out the other two remotes. She's pretty confused and i just said, "my bad". We play wii and i start pretending like i don't know how to play so that i can stand behind her and put in some more KINO. Kinda like the teaching-a-girl-how-to-play-pool thing but this time she's teaching me how to play the wii. Whatever she knows what up and sort grinds up on me from the back. Finally all that dumb fucking KINO for a little action, here we go. And at the end of it all i actually didn't F close. What a plate..

Thoughts?

TLDR: Alpha at first then beta..

2016-02-15T18:09:31+00:00

I took my ltr out. But not on the day and it was very clear that this was to reward her for doing well school and doing her part. I wanted to try this new place and took her along. That night she gave me a gift of expensive cologne and a nice fantasy I wanted to try out. Of course I get a few shittests, but it was largely a fun day. Any entitlement behavior and I turn the car around.

Title	Valentines Day, Reversing the Trend
Author	CryptoManbeard
Upvotes	154
Comments	81
Date	February 15, 2016 4:21 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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