At work, a colleague of mine told me that he has been speaking to some woman and wants to set me up with her because, according to him, he needs to "fix this problem of being single."

While he thinks he is doing something helpful for me, I could see the real psychological motivation behind his actions. The implication behind his act is that he thinks he is better than me. By trying to set me up, he is acting all superior because he has a wife and thinks that by setting me up with a woman he is bringing me up to his level.

Angry by this, I said no and told him that I am happy being single. He responded with "okay" and now he hasn't spoken to me in about a week. I think he has responded this way because, by trying to set me up, he is suggesting that he is bringing me up to his level, but when I rejected his offer, I reject his value system (i.e. married men are better) and replaced it with my own (married men are inferior slaves) and under my value system he is inferior.

I am somewhat concerned because I am careful not to out myself as a MGTOW. I am a closet MGTOW. I am not some loud and proud MRA who goes on about how evil feminism is. I speak like a blue pill man but act like a MGTOW.

It is difficult because when you are a covert MGTOW who speaks like a blue pill man, people try to persuade you to act blue pill e.g. try to set you up with a woman, and if you comply with their demand then your blue pill words will lead to blue pill actions.

How do you deal with the social pressure or from arrogant blue pill people who try to set you up and get your married?