From No Sex To Hurry Lets Fuck In One Shit Test

MadDannyBear · 2016-06-05T21:37:25+00:00

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f33 · 2016-06-06T04:18:17+00:00

-Are you OK with sleeping? This mama is beat? -Don't know what else you had in mind.

The shit test's goal is to put you in her FRAME.

Bravo for seeing that it was a shit test.

However, the frame she wanted to put you in was "we can hang out without fucking." The fact that you weren't "being butt hurt, angry or annoyed" doesn't mean you passed the shit-test.

Check the sidebar again. You didn't agree & amplify(AA). The whole point of AA is to RE-FRAME the dialogue. You just agreed. The fact that you busted a nut was a coincidence.

edit: if you are OK with you two just hanging out, what you did was OK. I'm just saying that your actions made that a future choice now.

ex_addict_bro · 2016-06-06T06:08:23+00:00

I'm not a player, I just crush a lot

munchtastic · 2016-06-06T00:53:58+00:00

When I was just starting TRP, I had a girl over to my place to watch some TV. I was doing some minor kino (massage exchanges, etc.) to try to escalate. She wasn't reciprocating much. so I just stopped cold and sat back watching TV. After ~5 minutes, she said she was going to leave and I said "sure sounds good" without moving a muscle. I truly didn't care if I got laid or not. She headed to the door and put her hand on it for a good 20 seconds, waiting for me to ask her to stay I'm sure. After I gave her nothing, she let out a big sigh and jumped on me. We had a wild night after that.

I replay this night in my head anytime I find myself caring about getting laid. If you really have outcome independence, your DNGAF attitude will exude it and girls can tell. It's one of the best ways to show you are not just another thirsty guy.

RedEyesBlueShades · 2016-06-05T21:34:51+00:00

I spot it for what it is and instead of being butt hurt, angry or annoyed like I would normally be, I agree and amplify and accept that fact that it is possible I won't be getting laid that night.

This is such an important part of the puzzle, and it's rarely explicitly mentioned. When you raise her bluff or bet, there is a chance it will blow in your face. Even BBs know this, it's why they "play it safe".

The key difference, of course, is that all magical IDGAF attitude - Either way, you win. If not immediately, the next time.

Well done, OP.

mojo_juju · 2016-06-06T14:53:13+00:00

women speak not to communicate information but to elicit an effect

expect women's communication to be deceptive and/or encoded

they tell you something to inform themselves, not to inform you

(i.e. to see how you react)

[[note: I don't mean they do this 100% of the time. women can communicate info. its just that they are all on a spectrum of the tendency to manipulate. some are insane powertripping machiavellian bitches. others are practically autistic.]]

yumyumgivemesome · 2016-06-05T23:17:09+00:00

I would have failed that shit super hard. My response would have been to say fuck it and stay at home and sleep in my own bed. I think a big part of where I slip up is recognizing shit tests. Presonally had I seen that text I would have responded with "aight well Im just gonna kick it at home then, good night". I dont think I can recognize the shit tests when presented and Ive only noticed now with this post.

Wanderbrew · 2016-06-05T22:13:16+00:00

Yeah, this all plays into the fact that girls don't want to feel like you're only coming over for sex. It makes them feel like sluts (and sometimes rightly so, but you gotta keep that hamster spinning). I had a girl once pester me about how tired she was so I took her home after we fucked. The next day she complained to her friends that she felt like a whore because I drove her home after we fucked. She would then try shittests like this in the future. Its a careful balance sometimes. Good work OP

Invalidity · 2016-06-05T23:42:45+00:00

Not sure man. I think the message now is mostly that you're willing to accept her shit and just submit to it. Maybe she even think you give a shit about her... and she'll clinge. Seriously, to tell you that this early would have been a big red flag for me, but I wouldn't have given a fuck about it. Anyway, good thing that you got lucky but be careful in the future, I would not say it was a good move.

TrueFacets · 2016-06-06T08:24:30+00:00

What would be a good reaction when you are already at her place and she pulls this ? (i'm fine with staying the whole night but only when fucking is on the table)

What would be the a good reaction when you are already at her place and she says that she's on her period ? (You went there but she didn't told you before)

What when you are already at her place and she says that she's on her period and doesn't want to fuck but you think it is either not true or if you and she did in the past under the same circumstances ?

2Bait4Me · 2016-06-06T14:51:28+00:00

"ok, had other plans anyway" then radio silence and hit her up a week later ?

this would give the frame "bullshit = No attention" and gets her hamster thinking what other plans / whats he been up to.

BluepillProfessor · 2016-06-06T17:31:58+00:00

Taking Red Pill Shit tests 055 puts you in the top 10% of men by default.

2016-06-06T20:25:28+00:00

I can't help it. I have to ask... I have an iPhone as well. What does -120 in the upper left corner mean?

2016-06-07T01:59:56+00:00

"She asks if it's ok if we just sleep and that she's tired."

This means I just want to lay here and let you abuse my holes.

mirl · 2016-06-06T05:15:14+00:00

Don't know what else you get had in mind

I have no clue what you fucking said

KartagoPill · 2016-06-06T07:23:11+00:00

Show us suprise hahah

Good job mate.

2016-06-06T03:24:38+00:00

Wow, Echo! Great moves, keep it up, proud of you

blackchadthundercock · 2016-06-06T07:16:00+00:00

Don't know what else you get had in mind

Da fuck is that supposed to mean?

aanarchist · 2016-06-05T22:29:02+00:00

what's funny is you don't give a shit about her.

Title	From No Sex To Hurry Lets Fuck In One Shit Test
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Upvotes	32
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Date	June 5, 2016 9:23 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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