Recently I came in contact with a woman I thought was LTR material. Upon finding out she was a gigantic casual sex slut, I left her. But before my leaving, of course she had to argue the classic argument that arises in virtually every one of these situations: "It was before I met you, it doesn't matter, why should I feel bad but not you about your own past"?, etc.
It took a minute for me to answer, mostly because I could see it plainly in her eyes than she genuinely didn't even realize what she'd done that made me want to leave. I was astonished that she actually expected me or any other man with a rational mind to want to be with her after the things she'd done. Gangbangs, threesomes, multiple guys in single days, the works. She had no regret or moral remorse towards any of it. She was perfectly engrossed in her and many other feminist notion that she could be a filthy casual sex slut AND a girlfriend. To any man that doesn't want to think about his girlfriend getting plugged by multiple dudes in a day, sure, good luck lady.
I didn't even waste my time explaining because I knew it would fall on deaf ears and wouldn't even accomplish anything but waste my breath. But this one's for you guy's who might be new and are still learning and I wanted to share what I've learned and why this matters.
First off, whatever the feminists say about how they can do whatever they want because the past doesn't matter in a relationship, the past DOES matter. It makes you who you are. That's why any reputable company looking for potential will do background checks on any of their prospects. Why you'll want to know if the babysitter you're hiring to watch your kids used to be a sex offender. The past is part of you and can and will be used to define you. Do you want a girl who's a virgin and will romantically remember you her entire life because of the emotional bond you created the first time you guys did it? Or do you want the neighborhood whore who's so used to having cock inside her she's absolutely desensitized to any emotional bonds that may have been created by having sex with her? Of course there's also the fact if for whatever fucking reason you pick the ladder, you'll have to live with the image of your girl getting cucked by Chad after Chad every day. Have fun.
Then there's the issue on why its different for men and women. If I had a fucking dollar for every time I heard a girl say, or post on facebook, or whatever other outlet they can think to say it, "Why can we be sluts, but pig men can't be?", I'd be running right next to Trump this November.
Here's the thing - first and foremost, men and women are biologically and psychologically different. The way they experience and handle sex is completely different. As said many, many times on this sub, men hold the key to commitment, and women hold the key to sex. If you asked a man what he would do to get a girlfriend, he would probably tell you he would try to swoon her and take her out on dates. Ask a woman, and most likely she will just tell you she'd fuck him. What's the problem there? Well if the woman has no other thing of value, that the best answer she can give on how she would attract a mate is to give him her vagina, why would the man want the commitment? If he's getting your sadly most valuable asset for free, why would he go any further? And then the girl is stuck there in her little world wondering why this guy doesn't want to be with her. Its because you and most of the other females are throwing around their vaginas for free, so much so that no man wants to commit to any of them because there is so much of it out there at no cost to them. And then the few girls left that actually have standards and won't suck any dick thats put in front of her, get pissed at the free girls because they can't get a man to commit to them, and also end up settling for just getting dick instead. In Dave Chappelle's words, "If pussy was stock, it would be plummeting right now, because you've flooded the market with it. You've given it away to easy." No better way to define the adjective easy than to use it in a sentence.
This is all not even mentioning the fact that most men have to actually work to get sex. Talking to girls, getting they're number, increasing their SMV so that they stand out from the other 100 chads doing the same. Girls literally just have to exist, not be fat, and they will get hit on. They can decide when they wake up if they want to fuck a rando that day. They can actually fucking say before they go out at night, I'm getting some dick tonight. Think about that next time you want to date a sex slut. Think about all the times she went out, saying to herself or her friends, I'm getting my mouth and pussy filled tonight, before actually doing it. Sounds super classy and respectable, right? Bet you can't wait to bring that kind of person home to mom!
As a special bonus at risk of making this post too long, I wanted to point out how funny it is so many of the double standards placed on us by women, after all the shitty double standards they think we've placed on them. I was trolling on tinder the other night, found a girl close to me, she was attractive but not enough that I gave any sort of fuck to actually put in effort to talk to her, and simply said lets bang. She goes off about, hell yeah I'm down you're hot, but how big are you? I say I'm only 4 feet tall, but she say's no, I mean your cock, how big are you, I'm very picky. I say that's also 4 feet, but she doesn't get to see it unless she tells me how tight she is. She sends me a paragraph about how I'm a piece of shit, that I'm a loser who will never get laid talking like that, et. I say 'lol.' and she unmatches me. Another time I read a story on the tinder sub about a girl asking a guy how tall he was, and in response he asked how much she weighed. Basically same response as my match, she gets all offended and butthurt, starts asking why that even matters, and unmatched him. Like they literally just can't even process this shit in their head or the actual fucking definition of the term double-standard even though they're the ones who like to throw it around the most to try and demonize any guy who tries to tell them their sluttery is not ok. It's very sad.
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