I have had some very successful long term relationships with women and many short term/ ONS relationships. I have kids and I have always had full custody and access to them, because I am Machiavellian and I know how to alpha widow a bitch. Im old and since I turned 21 I have pretty much been spoiled for choice with bitches. (I was a pussy in high school and for a few years after leaving high school, just like many of you). LTRs are a different animal entirely to STRs so if you are going to go down this dangerous path then you better make sure you are driving and you do NOT need a co-pilot. I DO NOT RECOMMEND LTRs. They are dangerous and you WILL get hurt, it is just a matter of when. Nothing lasts forever, either you will get bored of her or she will get bored of you. Humans are not biologically monogamous. LTRs have a use by date, know this going in. Belief in soul mates or happily ever after is toxic blue pill lies.

This is your journey, she does as she is told or she is fucking GONE. This approach is no good unless you have genuine abundance (not in your head, actual abundance meaning you can get several new girls within a matter of weeks) and an IDGAF attitude. Unless you are already there then do not attempt an LTR. So if you are there, and you want an LTR for whatever reason (including that you might want kids) then here we go. My attitude is old school and extreme but it works better than many other models I have seen.

I advocate a combination of domination mixed with comfort and fun. I do not agree with the Captain/ First mate dynamic that is often quoted in here. Giving a woman the title of first mate or indeed any significant responsibilities at all is like giving matches to child. They are not suited to any form of management or responsibility so it is your job to treat her like the ridiculous emotional being that she is. It is your job to dominate her and contain her emotions. If you give her the title of "first mate", do not be fucking surprised the first time she says: "belay that order" in front of your friends and family.

Mate guarding is another thing that is frowned upon in here as it is considered to be beta behaviour. Some of what I am about to recommend could be wrongly thought of as mate guarding, it is not. It is treating a poisonous snake like a poisonous snake, it can and will bite you unless it is contained and handled properly. If you want to let your bitch go out drinking or partying with her friends then go for it, just do not complain when you taste Chad's cum next time you go down on her. Remember we no longer live in a society which has any respect for your rights as a man so you need to lay down the law and stick to it. If she ever breaks any of your rules then YOU HARD NEXT HER. There are no second chances here, not even one chance, she breaks your rules then she is fucking gone.

So onto the rules. They are simple, do not break the rules, do not bend them. Here they are:

  1. She does exactly as she is told and she does it the way you tell her to. She will need a lot of instructions sometimes, that is OK so long as she is trying. Do not allow her to do things her way, that is her attempting to gain power. She has no power, she wants no power. You are the lord and commander and she is your lucky companion.

  2. She does not go anywhere without your permission. She has no outside interests which are not approved by you. She only associates with people you approve of. Give a bitch an inch and she will get 6-9 inches inside her before you know it. She has no male friends, she does not ever hang out alone with men, she does not drink without you (she is a child, she cannot be trusted with alcohol). None of this is mate guarding, it is common sense. If your bitch needs male friends or to go out drinking with the girls then she has not submitted to you. All she needs is you, sure she can get her hair done, have a reasonable shopping budget, hang out with some other moderate well mannered girls. She can go get some dinner with decent girlfriends who you know or see a movie, do sport etc. She CANNOT ever socialise at night unless you know where she is and with who. She always takes your calls and she never has an excuse not to text or call you immediately on your request. She is NEVER late.

  3. You make ALL important decisions. Sure you can ask her opinion if you want to. Also leave women stuff up to her, decorating, household routines, these should come naturally to her or she is not feminine and WTF are you doing with a useless woman? You cannot turn a ho into a housewife. You should also remember that she does not need to be forced into doing shit she does not enjoy. Treat her like a woman, you take her to things that you know she enjoys, this is the comfort part of your job. You should be taking good care of her and making her life fun. She should be thrilled every time you say "let's do this". You are alpha, you are the king, she trusts you completely because you make good decisions. You do not expect her to watch the demolition derby or football at the pub. So not only do you make all the decisions, you make good decisions.

That is basically it. The rest is up to you. You are the boss, you make all decisions. She is not your first mate, she does as she is told and that is it. If you delegate 100% of the housework to her then that is what she does. You do not ask her for financial advice or tips on how to do your job, you do not consult with her about anything. Your job is to relieve her of the heavy burden of "Thinking". Thinking is the thing she hates the most, she does not want to think, she wants to live in a world of feels. It is your job to keep her caged in that world, the minute she tries to open the cage, you have failed and she is gone.

Maybe this form of relationship is not for you. Maybe you think women have functioning brains and should be treated more respectfully, maybe you believe in the Captain/ First mate dynamic. That is fine, I am presenting an alternate way. In most of the world before feminism appeared no-one would have thought to ask a woman's opinion on how to run a relationship, family or business. I still cannot believe we let them vote. However here we are, if you want to try out an old school style of relationship, then the above is how I did it. You should be prepared to next her ass at any moment if she ever breaks your rules. Permanent inbuilt dread is crucial to your success as the boss in the relationship. You can love her, you can be scared to lose her, but you must be willing to lose her in order to keep her.