There are no words for this...never, EVER forget why you chose to go your own way.

oldredder · 2016-02-17T22:58:34+00:00

Traitorous whores. I'll never get married. That's why women shouldn't be in the armed forces - they don't understand concepts like loyalty, duty and honour; among the more obvious reasons of course.

taewoodz · 2016-02-17T21:23:41+00:00

These whores are batshit crazy but they bring up a interesting dynamic, this idea where females will do sexual acts with you but don't necessarily WANT to do it. They are only doing it to further their agenda, and then they ration that shit out and you wake up one day and you haven't had sex in months. The fact these women are conscious of the fact they have good men and even one said she was attracted to her husband, just proves that women are not to be trusted they react based on feels and not what's real

Natsume21 · 2016-02-17T21:02:37+00:00

I remember this. Hi, Natsume21 here.

Believe it or not, I actually know the OP of that post. I've had a few conversations with her, in order to try to pick her brain. The story she told me as to why she suggested that was a little dissonant but honest.

Of course, the fact of the matter is that she admitted that she was bored with him and no longer believed in monogamy. She wanted an open relationship, but opted to cheat instead. She naturally didn't want to accept responsibility. But here's what floored me.

I asked her why she should deserve alimony if she voided the marriage out of sheer boredom. Her words:

"Women should be compensated for the amount of work we missed in the workplace for choosing to be stay at home moms."

Naturally, I was floored!

She wasn't such a terrible person for conversation, but it became clear after I talked to her that she was a cake-eater.

She wanted an arrangement where she could sleep with whoever she liked while getting paid at home for doing so.

This woman was in a career, if what she told me was to be believed, but that conversation, by a woman who is a staunch feminist, made me realize that the real goal of feminism is to maximize female sexuality, minimize personal responsibility, and ostracize male sexuality.

I won't go with AWALT, however, I see no reason why in today's society that NAWALT. They can go rogue and get away with it easy.

The relationships our folks had are dead for the most part, fellas. We have no choice but to accept it.

MuscleCarz · 2016-02-18T04:03:51+00:00

Take heed men.

You read it right here. Not just from a man, but a Female Therapist.

"Women lose desire for their husbands because they're BORED."

Let's be honest here, it's not just "husbands" folks, it's boyfriends too. You stay with her long enough, you're going down.

She's right. Women are just BORED WITH YOU, but can't admit it to themselves or anyone else, lest they be exposed for the insensitive commitment-challenged children they are, which screams contradiction as they demand without fail that Men commit to them.

Like the spoiled child--that demands constant "new" stimulation, "new" excitement, "new" novelty, they quickly lose interest, then start pining for that "new toy," and cast you aside, with zero consideration for past provision, love, loyalty or otherwise from you.

Great article.

As I've said before, IMO, when VR porn combined with "tactile stimulating devices" hits the scene and explodes across the market, women are going to freak, right, out--at their sobering, rapid loss of power over men.

Men are going to stop approaching women from a space of need, if they approach them at all, and when they do approach them, it'll be from a space of confidence and ZERO fear of rejection, because he knows he can have full-on, extremely satisfying, convincingly real VR sex with a gorgeous, engaging 9, or 10 at his whim.

No more, "gee, I hope she likes my car, clothes, house, money."

It'll be, "she better be bringing A LOT MORE to the table than her pussy, or she's outta there."

Greetings1 · 2016-02-17T23:08:19+00:00

As always I have missed out on nothing by not marrying.

Wargame4life · 2016-02-18T00:11:22+00:00

personally if a wife cheated on me, she becomes dead to me, and suddenly all concern for her welfare goes out the window. i.e I would become full on "out for myself", steal from her, cheat on her. do absolutely nothing for her at all.

if someone betrays me, They mean nothing to me. if you cant trust someone they have no value and they also have no grounds to complain when you start screwing them over.

Greetings1 · 2016-02-17T23:14:37+00:00

I feel very bad for guys simping and trying really really hard to be nice to girls. Regardless of whether this is their personality or not, a lot of guys have this future OP describes waiting for them. It's pure carrot stick bait and switch for marriage and no one except anonymous people on the Internet are willing to talk about it. We're going to enter an age were people on the Internet are going to more honest with us than those we know in real life. Especially women.

WidmerBeer · 2016-02-17T23:54:12+00:00

Marriage today is having the expectations of living like a responsible 1940's traditional family, while completely forgetting to take into account that we have been raised in a society which views debauchery as the norm, infidelity as glamorized, accountability exclusively for men, solipsism legally granted exclusively for women, divorce encouraged, and where the young women who are soon to be wives are more likely to have experiences in threesomes than their husbands having over 10k in their savings account.

Let's try to juggle knives without any juggling experience because we saw the clown do it, what could go wrong?

Natsume21 · 2016-02-17T20:57:31+00:00

if someone would reply with "but not all women are like that" I'd likely slap them so hard they'd lose a tooth or maybe two.

Isaiah4verse1 · 2016-02-17T22:46:00+00:00

There is a reason why sex-bots are probably the most anticipated piece of technology.

WhoreObliterator · 2016-02-18T02:32:57+00:00

try to leave them, and suddenly they want you

gundahir · 2016-02-17T22:47:31+00:00

yep, thats what can happen when you trusted disney movies etc more than statistics and facts

PolishHammerMK · 2016-02-18T05:23:11+00:00

This is retarded. It's basically flat out dishonesty and she doesn't feel any remorse. Haven't wanted to doxx so bad. I feel very poorly for her husband.

I'm 26, I'm definitely giving the thought of marriage second thoughts. Thanks for keeping me awake, OP.

oldredder · 2016-02-18T06:17:51+00:00

pffft

"I know I'm not a bitch or a horrible person...This is when I started cheating on him"

That's the core definition of knowing she's a bitch and a horrible human being!

wont_tell_i_refuse · 2016-02-18T04:09:15+00:00

RedPill here, the reason these wives are so miserable is that their husbands are on a leash. You see it with the one who talks about how she "wanted him more" when they were "open". #1 DHV is when other women want you. Women only see value, and women want to fuck value, not looks (as also clearly stated).

Avoid commitment of any kind, want sex keep it to plates. Anything else is a humiliation and being informed about female nature in this way you know it's your own damn fault. You never have to lose your self-respect, MGTOW bros.

taewoodz · 2016-02-17T21:23:53+00:00

NGM never get married.

AurelianWay · 2016-02-18T10:48:35+00:00

So let me get this straight. A guy will do all that is asked of him, play by the rules, provide for his wife, be a good father & husband, maintain an attractive appearance & improve the life of the woman he married. YET......that's not good enough?

I am in utter disgust how these whores hamster away the "what he doesn't know won't hurt him" mentality. They are bored but they don't want to lose the provisioning from the hubby. A woman will never be happy, they crave drama. Anything that brings order or stability even if it makes their lives better is sooo booorrrring.

bonusfruit · 2016-02-18T06:40:29+00:00

Sexual attraction can't be negotiated. While their behavior is detestable, the factor of them not desiring good men oddly enough doesn't anger me. Women can't decide to desire someone. I'm just grateful to know what they are so I can steer clear

read_FactsAndFascism · 2016-02-18T06:54:14+00:00

Great post, OP, thanks for sharing.

So this woman's training should make her acutely familiar with the mechanics of denial and rationalization. And her words would have you believe that she is self-aware of these things happening in her mind and is struggling with them. But ultimately it's just words for her, for the purpose of self-pity and martyrdom. She clearly understands that she thinks with her pussy. She knows she's hurting her husband, but wants to fuck around behind his back so she can keep the social and economic benefits of her marriage. She knows very well that he'd ultimately be better off if he knew the truth. But she clutches on to the thinnest of rationalizations - he's better off not knowing - so that she can carry on with trying to get everything she wants without truly coming to terms with the fact that she is a selfish, manipulative user of other people.

I'd be willing to bet that the cognitive dissonance and psychological denial dynamics run deep with this woman, and that IRL she is a lot less composed than she appears to be via her posts.

minoru- · 2016-02-18T07:56:13+00:00

It seems women can't betray their biology just as men can't. Women are attracted to men who have power. Even money is just a proxy for power. For example, men can display male dominance by giving a speech to other males in various social situations.

A domesticated husband fails to arouse wives because

A domesticated husband doesn't send signals that he has will and power to leave his current relationship anytime. A husband, who doesn't send such signals, feels boring and powerless to wives.
He looks powerless in general because he became subservient to the economic needs of a family.

Their obsession with fulfilling social/contractual obligation to satisfy their husbands sexually makes them sound bad. But, I can understand why husbands don't arouse them sexually.

The answers are simple.

Show that you have power to leave the current relationship anytime. Not marrying shows such power. Also, be seen wanted by other women, but look indifferent to flirts. Flirting other women may backfire.
Don't marry, but live with your girl friend
Display male dominance(e.g. giving a speech to many males) in public venues.

However, I don't totally agree with female biology. If I were the engineer of the human race, I would have designed sexuality differently. And, demonizing husbands because they don't want to feel bad for not wanting their husbands or for cheating them is terrible.

T0000009 · 2016-02-17T21:12:27+00:00

Way to small for me to read... If there a link for this?

ThrowawayBleh14 · 2016-02-19T04:48:04+00:00

The last comment in the bottom right is what really gets me. Everything could be perfect, she could acknowledge that the husband is a great dad, physically attractive, financially supportive, and yet deprive him of sex and cheat because the situation is too perfect. Like, what? So, the goal we are all trained to attain (mutually beneficial relationship, mutual attraction, stable home and family) is the exact thing that made her lose interest? Yikes.

Thing is, OP and the other commenters are among the most extremely self-aware insofar as how it doesn't make sense logically. Just makes me think how many others do these things without a second thought, or do everything they can to (irrationally) justify it.

AusMGTOW · 2016-02-18T09:53:15+00:00

Remember folks, marriage is the biggest sucker deal in the history of sucker deals. Pass this on to your non-MGTOW friends.

I_grow_chongers · 2016-02-18T18:35:58+00:00

seriously? how many of you are surprised by this? I am not.

KingreX32 · 2016-02-18T21:42:55+00:00

Whores, whores whores, every last one of them.

FueledUp · 2016-02-26T07:16:40+00:00

"I'm NOT a bad person for lying to my husband because.....feelings."

What a literal croc of SHIT.

Ghost-AtIas · 2016-02-18T18:11:40+00:00

All of you idiots blaming the women: Clearly you don't understand the nature of the genders.

The main thing I see when I read this is that these men are the beta BP types. They're 'nice', handsome dudes with integrity and too much do-good-ness, and they don't set loose their inner demons in the bedroom because they feel like it's wrong, but this is what's natural. I'm a typical 'nice guy' too. They difference is, I'm confident, I know when to say NO to women, and I'm a fiend in bed. I grab hair, choke, spank, talk to her like she's my property...I dominate. Which is what they want. They want us to be men, not cucks. It's the fault of these beta men for not honing up to who they are as men, it's not the women's fault.

That's not to say that the women shouldn't be held responsible for being cheating whores, but that's a separate issue.

T0000009 · 2016-02-19T00:49:58+00:00

Thanks to "FritzLn" I was able to check it out and read that vile diatribe of vicious deceit written by an ungrateful whore!

Geeez, Now I'm even more thrilled about watching those dumb cows burn in the fire the set.

lastlaugh50 · 2016-02-19T05:10:51+00:00

Marriage allows a woman to become lazy. She can divorce rape you at the drop of a hat and take 50% of everything you've worked for + receive alimony for x number of years + the possibility of LIFETIME alimony.

Fuck that noise.

If a bitch puts out then I will give her time and attention. The moment she stops putting out her ass gets kicked to the curb, she can find someone else who will listen to her bullshit.

TwoTonJoe · 2016-02-18T03:09:08+00:00

Sums up my recent marriage perfectly

Title	There are no words for this...never, EVER forget why you chose to go your own way.
Author	mgtowguynow
Upvotes	187
Comments	131
Date	February 17, 2016 8:32 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MGTOW
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/46at0h/there_are_no_words_for_thisnever_ever_forget_why/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/MGTOW/there-are-no-words-for-thisnever-ever-forget-why.638245 https://theredarchive.com/post/638245

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