How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?

SeasonedRP · 2020-05-02T16:42:25+00:00

Don't argue with women. If your texting has led to a recurring problem where girls blow up at you, stop sending those kind of texts. You want text conversations to be light and playful, not angry full of argument. Use texting mainly for logistics until you get some more experience.

saltyfiredude · 2020-05-02T16:50:42+00:00

1: Firstly, have a LTR that doesn't blow up at small miscommunications. Respect should be there.

2: If it does happen, always DARE, never DEER. In the sidebar (or mrp sidebar if its not in trp one).

3: If she's still pissy, don't talk to her for a bit. My time is too valuable to be spent squabbling, she should savour her time with you.

All of these require you to have frame, get some bruh

deeznutsbeswingin · 2020-05-02T16:55:32+00:00

“It was a joke don’t be so gullible”, and then move on with your day. Don’t get caught up in her drama, just treat her like a weirdo for not having a sense of humour. Laugh

Skylights1000 · 2020-05-02T17:25:53+00:00

See things your way? Dude you’re literally texting jokes over text. It’s difficult enough understanding context in text, don’t be surprised when she takes a message as serious. Especially since she doesn’t really know you

MGTOW_BEASTMODE · 2020-05-02T18:15:24+00:00

"Sheesh.. no more jokes for you"

And then no more jokes for her.

michael_in_chains · 2020-05-02T17:56:00+00:00

Never apologize to women, then you would start getting week in their eyes. If a women blows up at you for whatever the reason is, you have to keep holding a masculine frame. Be smooth, cool and collected. Don't start yelling at her too, because now you would be in a feminine state. As a matter of fact, you shouldn't even be there when that shit happens, we don't have time to argue.

2020-05-02T18:40:00+00:00

"how do you win argument with a LTR over ____"

by not arguing

throwitdownman · 2020-05-02T19:13:06+00:00

Here’s some practical advice that relates to our generation...don’t be sarcastic or joke over text/phone call/video calls.

Assuming your a young-ish guy, girls are used to an unrealistic amount of kindness through text. The winning strategy is to be aloof, and not take convos beyond the surface level over text.

I’ve literally had an ‘argument’ over a plate for sounding ‘mean’ over text. All I did was type in proper English and capitalised my letters. You’re asking too much of girls to understand context without getting their panties twisted.

IXseed · 2020-05-02T18:15:24+00:00

Rollo had a good livestream about how women and men brains work. Basically women put emotion before logic and men do the opposite. So her flipping out could just be her emotions processing shit and she'll come around later and realize she was tripping.

Don't get into arguments with your LTR or try to explain yourself. You're tending to her emotions when you do that and that puts you into her frame. Never enter her frame.

le_wolfe · 2020-05-02T18:34:35+00:00

My lucky ass hasn't even had a whiff of LTR & even I know that arguing with women is a bad idea.

Not sure about the context, but you should know better than to DEER.

alphakari · 2020-05-02T19:14:44+00:00

What was the joke?

The_Lightskin_Wonder · 2020-05-02T20:36:38+00:00

i feel like the problem is in your jokes. if you gotta explain it... its not funny.

if this happens so many times, with women you already know, it's something you're doing wrong or its what you lack, what may be a dickish thing for you to say may be hilarious for another guy to say

WheresDaLeek · 2020-05-02T21:25:55+00:00

Next time hold frame and keep joking with her more if she starts texting back less and or blatantly being serious about "blowing up" on you, tell her have a nice day and move on with your day. If she falls into your frame and keeps texting you (She's still texting = attraction) keep your responses short and witty, blocking her every advancement to gain dominance in the conversation. You should always speak to a woman in a Man-to-Woman frame... either business or sex. You choose.

Whitefarmer · 2020-05-03T02:50:03+00:00

Sum it to miscommunication and stick to it

AuberyBitoni · 2020-05-03T18:08:56+00:00

This is why I hate online stuff. One of my new plates was texting me but I was celebrating my friends' birthday and we were pretty drunk. So we called her and said she should come over and bring a cute friend for my friend. She said she didn't know anyone. I jokingly said, well, it will be a threesome then.

I was obviously kidding but she blew up, saying I was childish and disrespectful. She said we shouldn't see each other anymore. I said it's fine and she sent me like 2-3 messages afterwards but I just ghosted her.

Point is, don't make jokes online, I learned it this way.

vandaalen · 2020-05-02T16:57:22+00:00

soft next for creating unnecessary drama

comcain · 2020-05-02T17:08:53+00:00

just drop her.

:-)

Title	How do you win arguments with a LTR over miscommunication?
Author	I_Luv_Procastinating
Upvotes	9
Comments	22
Date	May 2, 2020 4:37 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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