Hi everyone,

This is a new relationship, we started dating in February and became a couple just a few weeks ago. He was really kind and sweet with me, we joked around a lot and he looked smitten with me. I'm 28 and he is 29 FYI.

We had sex for the first time 3 weeks ago, and it was really good. We had it a few times and he became very distant afterwards, no hugging and he went on his phone. I stayed the night and he said he had to go and see his friend quickly and he'd be back. Well he was out for an hour and a half and only came back because I asked him. He didn't seem to see the big deal about this, I was craving him to hug me especially as it was our first time and I had never slept Over at his.

The second time was less cold, he didn't leave, but he was still on his phone a lot and wasn't so open. We cuddled a lot as well which was nice.

Today I went to his and he had bought me some flowers, chocolate and wine for my birthday and he was super sweet at the beginning. Then we had sex and same thing, on his phone and he said he had to go soon. He could tell by my face that I was upset, and I decided to open up and say it upset me because I wanted to hang out with him afterwards. He said he's very closed and hard to get attached, I asked him why did he ask to be in a relationship and be super sweet beforehand. He was kinder after this and more cuddly,and said we hung out for nearly 3 hours that's a long time. I didn't force him or beg, just said I was upset but he could tell by my face as well.

This doesn't seem normal, what can I do? Was he just trying to sleep with me, shall I give it more time or just never see him again?