Why do men want girls to send them nudes?

DangZagnut · 2020-05-25T05:45:41+00:00

Beats me. Porn is free.

ElectricalStatement7 · 2020-05-25T06:50:58+00:00

Is it really that hard to understand? Lol

Guys are visual. Pictures are hot for us. Secondly, it’s hot knowing someone submitted to that request.

Jimmy-Turnchapel · 2020-05-25T05:10:47+00:00

I never asked any girls for nudes. I also had only one sexual experience from age 13-21.

I’d like to think there’s no connection. But...

goatismycopilot · 2020-05-25T09:40:37+00:00

The obvious solution is not to send them. Some men will ask you to do stupid shit just to see if you will.

saladfingers4141 · 2020-05-25T05:30:38+00:00

Send nudes? Inbox me.

Yeh no idea, I will say that there are a lot of girls who I have dated who have voluntarily sent me them without me asking so I’m not sure it’s entirely one sided and that there are probably a lot of girls who get turned on by the idea of sending sexual photos of themselves to guys they are seeing or interested in.

Men like to see women naked I guess, porn is one thing but it’s very fake and unrealistic and naked photos of people you know is probably more of a turn on because of the realism. That said demanding daily nudes is strange.

bluesqueblack · 2020-05-25T10:14:54+00:00

I’ve never asked for nudes. Any nudes I’ve received have been sent to me unsolicited. I can’t fathom asking for nude pics of a chick

2020-05-25T05:09:09+00:00

It sounds like a control thing to me.

whichbladeN · 2020-05-25T05:05:26+00:00

Control.

Yeah they can find free nudes on the internet, but they value having the power and persuasion to get a real person to give it to THEM.

Isn't in person sex better then pics

Yes, but absence and anticipation fuel desire.

Strado13 · 2020-05-25T04:59:58+00:00

I totally agree. Im a young man and honestly I mean they are fun to look at i guess I would much rather have you and take my OWN pictures.

mashakos · 2020-05-25T10:49:10+00:00

Are you asking why some guys badger women for nudes from the get go or why guys like to have their girl pose nude and take photos as part of a sexy game? The two have different motivations

GYN-k4H-Q3z-75B · 2020-05-25T06:33:50+00:00

I would never ask for nudes but I like baked girls. So getting some pictures is always nice.

TheBookOfSeil · 2020-05-25T06:50:59+00:00

Some men like the novelty of seeing real people that they're physically communicating with. It's why some guys would gladly donate thousands of dollars to e-thots to watch them take their clothes off instead of typing in "p-o-r-n-h-u-b" on their browsers.

I was once in an online relationship for a year with a girl. I didn't have the money to go see her at the time so we would occasionally mutually masturbate with each other on video and we used that as a substitute for sex. She would also send me pics on occasion.

As far as being in person with a partner, I think there are some guys who would rather see nudes of their partner or someone they're having sex with to relive those moments when they aren't able to. Unless these guys aren't very well known at all, like the Indians asking for "bob an vagene" pics online, it's probably unlikely that they're selling your nudes online while you're dating or whatever it is that you're doing.

One of the guys I was casually dating, demanded that i send him daily pics. Ummm..? He said this would be a deal breaker if i couldn't do it... so of course i let him go. Isn't in person sex better then pics??

It is, yes, but could you have daily sex instead of sending daily pics? I think the guy maybe just liked the idea of being sent nudes everyday from someone he was dating rather than passing them around to his buddies or posting them online. I'm not that guy so I can't really say why he would be doing it, specifically.

gaylord_fag · 2020-05-25T10:30:36+00:00

I'm a camworker. Over a year ago when I got really interested in redpill stuff I added a guy on disc and we talked about redpill stuff particularly about dominance in a bdsm sense but performing it in a relationship safely (that's how I understood trp at the time, as being a bdsm Dom but towards the relationship not sex). I'm pretty sure he talked to me cos he thought I was a guy. Which I liked. But then someone either told him or sent him links to my porn, which I guess they knew about cos my username? I talked to a lot of incels at the time too cos I was also fasinated with them. And he started asking me for stuff. He just had this long paragraph to me about what he wanted which was daily tasks and he told me about his wife how she couldn't find out blah blah. And so I was like "okay how much will you pay me?" But the conversation from that point wasn't a conversation. It was so awkward. He said he was curious because hed never talked to a woman who did that and wanted to see what I had to offer. And I was just like okay I do this for money though. And we never talked again. It was just too awkward. Which made me feel really bad because prior to I would get excited that I had made a friend who saw me for my true self. Cos he would always talk to me like he was training a bluepilled beta boi. But had good explanations of redpill Dynamics because he was more positive about it. He wasn't ever like 'wOm3n bI0loGy mAkE dEM l0vE rAPe.' It was more like talking about how you are serving women when you lead. That whole sensing what the other person wants & then being a Dom/leader for them rather than using them made me more fasinated. Because it seemed kinder and more complex than how I understood the redpill broadly at the time. But I think he didn't see a point in talking about any of that once he found out I was a woman myself.

Pyral-Mortis · 2020-05-25T10:31:09+00:00

Yes, in-person sex is better than pictures.

I've also tossed the question at other guys and most of them say that it's more personal when a girl is sending you a picture that she's taken. You can reasonably assume that you are the only one that has seen said picture and that makes you feel a bit special.

J_Milton_Jr · 2020-05-25T11:00:36+00:00

men like seeing naked women...always been like that

Notsonewguy7 · 2020-05-25T11:36:07+00:00

The average female body only is good for me in person so nudes do nothing for me. For other guys I suspect masturbation material , a symbol of trust. Something along those lines.

SlashCo80 · 2020-05-25T11:42:23+00:00

They're horny and think it's a manly thing to do? Not that big of a mystery, imo.

paint-the-world-red · 2020-05-25T15:20:25+00:00

No way is this a serious question lol. But in all seriousness, men are visual creatures, seeing the goods gets us going. With that being said, I don’t care for nudes and whenever I’m in a LTR I actively try to avoid em. Not once has that gotten a positive response😐

staypositivebrad · 2020-05-25T16:02:24+00:00

It's an adrenaline rush because a real person is doing it specifically for you.

That rush runs out quickly and you can actually lose interest once you've seen her naked (no more curiousity) so probably don't be sluts and do it if you actually want a decent guy

Viking__Blood · 2020-05-25T17:23:37+00:00

The second someone sends me a nude, I know they 1) trust me and 2) MOST definitely want to fuck me.

To the guy who wanted you to send daily nudes, yeah... I don't know. I've yet to ask her to send me a naughty picture or a nude, but when she does, I just love it and want her more.

Harriett- · 2020-05-25T07:42:07+00:00

If you want to find out why men do xyz to women, what’s their purpose etc. you should always ask yourself “what would be the most vile, morally corrupt reason?”. And here is your answer. Always works.

So... having the power of ruining her life with them?

KickKathleeenKennedy · 2020-05-25T05:53:53+00:00

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SaBahRub · 2020-05-25T07:00:14+00:00

Objectification, duh

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wtknight · 2020-05-25T05:15:00+00:00

Men are visual and like sexy pictures to look at when they aren't around the woman whom they are interested in.

2020-05-25T10:22:03+00:00

So they can show them to all their friends. Usually with stories!

Title	Why do men want girls to send them nudes?
Author	KickKathleeenKennedy
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Date	May 25, 2020 4:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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