Unmistakable red flags to watch out for when dating a man:

  1. If he is too good to be true, he probably is not true.
  2. Unable to cut ties to a previous wife/girlfriend.
  3. If the bartender knows what he wants before he orders.
  4. You feel you are not a priority.
  5. Sexualize all conversations.
  6. Chronic Bad financial situation, compulsive spending, financial irresponsibility. He always needs help to pay his bills.
  7. Can’t hold a job, Poor work ethic (changes jobs often and it is NEVER his fault).
  8. Dysfunctional family. The crazy apple doesn’t fall far from the crazy tree.
  9. Too close of a relationship with parents, especially with a mother.
  10. He lives with parents or family members (not always a bad sign but if he is old enough to have his life together he should probably have his own place).
  11. His words and actions don’t line up, inconsistency.
  12. Multiple children by multiple women.
  13. too many female friends on Facebook or following too many girls on Instagram.
  14. Talking shit about ex, If all the exes are “crazy”.
  15. Secretive about parts of his life, too mysterious...I no longer find this sexy, and you'd be better off adopting the same attitude.

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