The Coronavirus pandemic is a major event in modern history, with far reaching impacts and repercussions worldwide. Large scale layoffs are happening around the globe. The financial security of millions of people is in question, and people are reacting in ways to foster self-preservation.

Do not be surprised if LVM you used to associate with attempt to crawl back into your life. Do not be surprised if LVM you currently know suddenly start pouring on the charm or confess feelings out of the blue. Do not be surprised if LVM who were previously against any form of commitment suddenly want to move-in or live with you. None of this behavior should be surprising.

These type of men are facing economic pressure, and their instinct to save themselves at all cost will be strong and far reaching. Desperation has a funny way of doing that to people. To these type of men, you haven't suddenly become "the one". They didn't suddenly wake up from a delusional fog and realize that they have been in love with you the whole time. Don't be naive, and don't let any latent feelings you may have for them overwhelm your own instincts for self-preservation.

I hypothesize that many LVM in the near future will attach themselves to women as a way to keep themselves afloat during these volatile times. They will think of and treat you as a life jacket, not as the woman they deeply desire to be with for the long haul. Parasites will be out in full force, looking for new or old hosts to attach themselves to. Keep your wits about you, and don't allow yourself to be used.

If a guy from your past comes out of the woodwork, asking for money because he lost his job, don't give him any. If he truly needs money, there are many forms of government aid and resources he can pursue. You are not his ATM or hardship loan.

If a guy you've been talking to suddenly wants to see if you are amenable to the idea of living together, or if he wants to move in with you, kindly decline. You are not a charity organization or homeless shelter. Act accordingly.

I'm honestly worried about the number of pickmeishas who will become collateral damage during this pandemic, due to their burning desires to be "nurturing" and finally getting the chance to be involved in the lives of men they desperately crave the attention of. I think things are about to get pretty ugly out in the world, with regards to the dynamics between men and women.

Don't let yourself become the next victim.