I feel like giving up

TheOGJammies · 2020-03-10T16:41:37+00:00

You’re getting emotionally invested in these scrotes too quickly and you’re not picking up on their BS fast enough. How old are you?

timetofliptables · 2020-03-10T16:59:50+00:00

Giving up, no. That’s defeatist language and you’re too young for that. You can make a choice to be single a while. You can make a choice to take less shit. But you cannot “give up” no one in this group will abide by that kind of language.

Also, I’m in my mid thirties and hotter and more confident than I’ve ever been so do NOT buy the bullshit that you only have a few years left. I have aunts in their 60s that are still gorgeous. Like, no. Men need to shut the Fuck up.

You just have to get to a point of “Fuck that.” And count it as a blessing that you caught him with another woman. I know not everyone is religious but I seriously, as much as it sucks to have a heartbreak, I honestly thank god when I can suss out a dick fast and early, especially when it happens in such a coincidental way. I’m like... good looking out.

aclumsygirl · 2020-03-10T17:11:32+00:00

A month is not long enough to be committed to anybody, and dating will get a lot easier when you train yourself to not get emotionally invested early. Dating multiple men helps enormously with that.

The 29 year old is a ephebophile. Obviously he thinks a 23 year old is over the hill. Anything over 17 is old to him. He belongs in his mother's basement wanking to anime porn all day. 🙄

Edit: Actually, he belongs in jail.

This-Register · 2020-03-10T16:49:29+00:00

All I can say is, just focus on you. Take a break from dating, relationships and love is not the be all end all of a womans life. The best things in life often come to you unexpectedly so the more you force it, the less likely it'll happen. The greatest relationship you'll ever have, is the one you have with yourself.

I'm in the same boat I guess, I dont get asked out on alot of dates, I dont use dating apps and I'm not actively looking but I see it as a win because I can use this time to improve myself as much as possible so I barely even notice. The more you occupy your time and keep yourself busy, the less likely you are to sit around worrying about being lonely. It's hard to find good people these days but it doesnt mean they dont exist and that you'll never find them, all you have to do is sit back, go with the flow and dont lower standards.And even at the end of it all if you still dont find someone, at least you can say you lived your life for you, you lived it unapologetically and you did the best with what you had.

Ms_Tilly · 2020-03-10T17:44:19+00:00

How are we supposed to take men seriously when they spew "It'S bIoLoGy" when talking about being pedophiles and talk openly about their made up wall? There is nothing intelligent about people who talk like this. I'm convinced that the majority of men have neither mental or emotional intelligence.

Like someone else said, you can't take men seriously until you've vetted their personalities for at least 6 months. I think 3 months is too soon. Some of the worst ones are good at hiding their numerous issues. Don't get invested too soon. Never ignore yellow flags. Ghost and block when presented with RED flags. You never know when they're going to let their true colors show.

siberiansummer · 2020-03-10T17:39:17+00:00

Whoa!!! The 29 yo is probably some red pilled scum who sees women as “cars with mileage on them”. Try to find out this kind of information prior to sleeping with them. That’s where the 90 day rule comes handy. LVM scrotes are incapable of waiting that long

szsunshine · 2020-03-10T19:39:26+00:00

In the future, don't agree to commitment after only one month. That is way too soon. I am wondering if he said this only so he could sleep with you? (ie: You: "I won't sleep with you until we are in a committed relationship." him: "Ok, we are in a committed relationship." Then sex).

Be proud of yourself for blocking these LVMs. It will get easier over time. 29yo is a pedo - gross!

throwaway23004345 · 2020-03-10T17:09:17+00:00

Ew any 29 year old guy that sleeps with a 16 years old is DISGUSTING. Thats R Kelly and Aaliyah territory. Also he is mentally immature that he thinks that he can relate to a high schooler. YUCK YUCK YUCK

Anyway I am 27 and I feel like giving up too on men. But there are many men out there (even if they are hard to find). That guy is LV anyway. But I am glad you blocked him, never speak to him again.

runasseatfast · 2020-03-11T03:14:14+00:00

I’ve been reading a lot about these pedo guys lately, and I’m honestly very scared for vulnerable, young girls.

9penguin · 2020-03-11T04:10:12+00:00

I'm sorry, take a break and focus on yourself. Dating below 30 is full of fuckboys and charming users, maybe wait until you're more mature and your age turn those users off.

Title	I feel like giving up
Author	girlyasfuck
Upvotes	103
Comments	19
Date	March 10, 2020 4:14 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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