I gently told a guy that I wasn’t interested in a second date because we were “looking for different things.” And this guy kept pressing so I finally admitted that I felt that it was presumptuous for him to try and invite himself over to my place and that it gave me the impression that he was only looking to hookup and that he did this with a lot of women. Man, did he get upset. Lots of texts about how he’s “not really like that” and how he didn’t like that I assumed all these things about him. But honestly, that boy played himself. Maybe if you’re not looking to pick up a quick hook up, stop trying to hookup with random girls on the first date!!!