I've been dating a HVM for almost 3 months (1 month seeing each other, 1 month and a half with commitment already) and i cannot believe that FDS worked!

He's everything i'm looking in a man (so far)! he pays for everything and takes me on 70$-120$ dates (most guys split the bill or took me to McDonald's!), well educated and in the middle of his master's degree, has a job, has a driving license and a car, 6'2 and very fit and attractive, always compliments me (not lovebombing) and yesterday i introduced him to my family (hope it's not too early, i didn't post him anywhere yet. I post at 3-4 months) and they loved him, he was so polite. No female friends or female 'best friend' and no ex in his life. He likes animals and not a picky eater.

I like him a lot but i still keep my heart closed so it won't hurt that much (just disappoint) if stuff doesn't work out in a few weeks for whatever reason.

Honestly it's not even the only HVM i met, i also met another one about a few months ago and it just didn't work out because i wasn't emotionally available at that time.

For YEARS i was dating around without seeing any HVM (men i dated for a while would either have big potential but not HVM or be LVM lite, not fuckboys but def put in half-effort, will pay for dates and take me places but i always had to plan, they could never think of any place to take me and some more LVM lite signs), so many men that took me on bullsh*t dates and going-dutch or taking me to a walk in the park. Wtf was i thinking?!