It always does & it’s expensive sis!

ddl2046 · 2019-12-20T15:50:33+00:00

They ALWAYS cost you. Never ignore them

ashwheee · 2019-12-20T17:49:35+00:00

“You know, it's funny; when you look at someone through rose-colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags.”

FluffandRainclouds · 2019-12-20T16:55:33+00:00

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Deadgirl1888 · 2019-12-20T17:28:44+00:00

"Seeing the best in people" is the worst advice ever. It's how I ended up in toxic friendships and relationships. People need to prove they are trustworthy and worth your time.

idiosyncraticg1 · 2019-12-20T16:06:30+00:00

100% yes. I saw red flags in my ex when we were still friends and weren’t even interested in each other, yet I ignored them and they came to bite me in the ass YEARS later.

riseaboveagain · 2019-12-20T16:25:50+00:00

Being nice and overlooking poor behavior gets you nowhere

One of the last things I told my ex, when he was trying to feed me yet another bunch of BS excuses, was, “My break cutter broke.” BYE

ms_monquis · 2019-12-20T21:10:54+00:00

Even Dr Phil these days is like “giving people benefit of the doubt is for suckers.”

pinkliquor · 2019-12-20T17:37:35+00:00

You end up with bad memories and a headache.

SupremeCanadian · 2019-12-20T17:25:53+00:00

Yep

And this goes for literally everyone you ever meet or know. My mom and dad are constant people pleasers and it's running them both into an early grave trying to make their entire extended family happy.

I'll be sure to learn from their mistakes and focus on me.

thinktwice247 · 2019-12-20T17:04:32+00:00

I needed this. Thank you.

CyberAmbivert · 2019-12-20T17:16:26+00:00

And do it did.

Queencake504 · 2019-12-20T18:13:53+00:00

True story🙌

pokersnob · 2019-12-20T17:55:06+00:00

Reminds me of the time I had a crush on NBA player Jr Smith despite his character flaws... Now seeing the drama him and his wife are in Im so glad that nothing transpired years ago when I was acquainted with him

Darkchick21 · 2019-12-20T23:09:19+00:00

Yeah

starsheepie · 2019-12-21T11:06:41+00:00

Yup, learned this the hard way! IDK if it was blind love or willfull ignorance, but I'm glad to have put my pickmeisha days in my past.

Title	It always does & it’s expensive sis!
Author	3unny33
Upvotes	1199
Comments	27
Date	December 20, 2019 3:02 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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