LADIES. I posted on here that I had to break things off with this amazing guy , because he wasn’t looking for a relationship but I was. Now a few weeks later her texts me again and asks how things are going and just talking to me normal. I really liked him before and was head over heels for him and I’m such a push over (I’m working on that though) and I’m so afraid to let him back in. I have no clue what his motives are now. What if he’s just bored and wants someone to talk to? What if he wants to just have sex and not want more? I don’t want to put negative connotations towards him but it was so hard to tell him that we couldn’t see each other anymore and now here he is popping back in my life . First of all why do men do this? I feel like I’m falling for a trap? I really just hope it isn’t . Sorry if this didn’t make sense but I genuinely feel so confused . He is so handsome , smart , sweet and caring but the only down side was that he didn’t want a relationship because he was “too busy with school.” He knows where I stand and what I want , so maybe he wants to try again? Idk I’m just rambling at this point .