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[–]MediumRareHunterFDS Newbie75 points76 points77 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've always been the fairy godmother to my friends' heartbreaks. Not anymore, I've already shown FDS to two of them. Here's for hoping there will be no more fuckboys in their lives.
[–]AigonorusFDS Apprentice20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Are you me? Have done the same
[–]RobotAmericanFDS Apprentice59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Damn, I had gone on a couple of coffee dates that I entirely forgot about... I didn't think anything of it at the time, and those guys were entirely forgettable and a coffee date with them was no different than just hanging out at the coffee shop and talking to strangers. I never saw these guys again. I even remember later being like, huh, he told people that we dated?
Now that I think about it, more girlfriends have paid for my coffee than men, because actual coffee dates never offered to pay for anything at all. If a girlfriend invites me to coffee because she needs to talk, she at least offers to pay, or sometimes just does it without asking. The fuck is wrong with men.
[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Wow, good point! I've never had a coffee date with a man end anywhere good. Half-interested. Any man who's been genuinely interested has asked me to get a meal.
[–]BlackgirlwandersFDS Newbie51 points52 points53 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
I had a coffee date planned with a cute guy. He cancelled our first date because he was “ill”. Lol. He said “some other time?” I say sure. He claims he is busy lol. “But how about sex?” Really?! Blocked and deleted!!!
[–]silkdurag16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fuck! Gross!
[–]littlecuteroseFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Wtf
[–]myprettiesFDS Disciple8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He got mixed up with emails to prostitutes
[–]BlackgirlwandersFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lol! Should have replied with this.
[–]Liz_LemondropRuthless Strategist47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
How did you get this photo of me from 2018?
[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
I was sitting in a coffee shop reading yesterday evening and saw a chick meet her tinder (?) date for coffee at 7:30pm. What the fuck is that? I felt so bad for her.
[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
7:30 for coffee what the hell who set that up ? Man that’s fucked up. I would’ve not even shown up .
[–][deleted] 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
He made her move chairs when he came back o the table with his shitty cappuccino too, what is the world coming to?
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
See yeah cause no Hopefully she mentally cancelled ever having another date with that guy
[–]12sushiAt-Risk Pick Me Youth-1 points0 points1 point 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What is wrong with that
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lurk moar
[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I can't believe women actually think like this. Why?!
[–]Merry-goes-foreverFDS Newbie41 points42 points43 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
dey been groomed so
[–]venomous_gFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Spoiler alert: If you accept a coffee date... they'll only offer you a shared bag of doritos at a bus stop. You'll always get less than what you've settled for.
[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
LMBO at least the Doritos would be unique 🤣
[–][deleted] 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I NEVER go on coffee dates.
[–]jlawapologist19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
What's wrong with a coffee date for a first date? Genuinely asking. I've liked them because they are easy to end if you're not giving, but admittedly I've never gone on a second date with someone after a coffee date.
[–]vereelimeeFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I think it only works if you propose that as the location. I prefer coffee dates because I actually like coffee. There's a great upscale cafe near me. I have had second dates after a coffee date.
I have not been on a coffee date that I had to pay. Then again my love for coffee is real. So if a potential partner isn't willing to go along with me to something I enjoy, then there's no way I'd spend effort on him. It's a lowkey way for me to weed out lvm who will dismiss my hobbies.
[–]throwawayz187yFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, I like coffee dates...I wouldn’t expect a complete stranger to spend like $50+ dollars on a fancy dinner the first time of meeting (and dinner dates give me anxiety, I HATE eating in front of people$.
[–]littlecuteroseFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Are coffee dates really that bad...?
[–]queenoficeandfire25FDS Newbie15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I mean they are definitely low-effort and show no signs of high value behavior but after a few horror story first dates I personally don’t mind them as long as they know it doesn’t count as a “date.” I’m more than willing to pop into a coffee shop on a work break to get eyeballs on a guy before I spend a chunk of time and change preparing for an official date.
[–]Kaiern98 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
What's wrong with coffee dates? Or am I misreading.
[–]myousernameFDS Disciple14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
The men who have invited me for coffee dates usually have the attitude "I'm unwilling to spend more than $5 on a girl unless I am POSITIVE she will reward me with sex. Women need to EARN dinner dates (with sex)"
[–]NaturalRattleFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
They're too low effort/cheap, usually a sign the guy isn't that interested, is stingy, or just wants to bang.
[–]scarletbegonia79FDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Something about “let’s meet for coffee “ tells me he’s in early recovery from alcohol abuse, hello ...4 DUIs..before the age of 30? I. Think. Not.
[–]blackbunny101Pickmeisha™️0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What's wrong with a coffee date? My other half and I have made it a tradition since our first date was getting coffee. It's casual, it's comfy, it's inexpensive and it's easy to leave so if it doesn't go well, no one is feeling put out due to cost. It allows space for conversation without the complexities of dinners
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[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH27 points28 points29 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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[–]curlygirl507FDS Apprentice33 points34 points35 points (2 children) | Copy Link
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[–]JesusisKingisLordFDS STRATEGY COACH8 points9 points10 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]jlawapologist19 points20 points21 points (2 children) | Copy Link
[–]vereelimeeFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points (0 children) | Copy Link
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[–]littlecuteroseFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points (1 child) | Copy Link
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