Sickening thought of the day: Whenever you have sex with a man he is probably patting himself on the back congratulating himself that he conquered you.

Skittleschild02 · 2020-02-04T05:23:02+00:00

Well, that explains why I had one dude call me, “ cold hearted,” but still wanted to be in contact with me. He still wanted a chance to fuck. He will never get it, though.

cannedboelyn · 2020-02-04T13:30:40+00:00

I saw this while lurking in a men’s forum too. It was something about the guys telling each other as long as they get something out of it

TheOGJammies · 2020-02-04T05:27:21+00:00

Yes. Understanding this about men is the first step to leveling up. They fundamentally cannot relate to us like human beings.

2020-02-04T09:16:55+00:00

Yup sadly fuckboys see sex as an ego boost. Whenever a woman pleases them, they, and their fuckboys ways, feel valid. Sex means a lot for them.

TheObservationalist · 2020-02-04T18:12:41+00:00

Unfortunately this seems to be wholly accurate. They don't see it as something good that happened to both participants. They see themselves as having 'smashed, hit, wrecked, fucked, plowed, destroyed' that bitch. And that's how they talk about it after with little boy friends.

505ithy · 2020-02-04T07:07:12+00:00

Tbh I was paranoid he was fantasizing about the chick from work with a big butt. Don’t matter anymore

Fitncurly · 2020-02-04T14:22:42+00:00

If they wanna play the dehumanizing game, then conquer their bank account. If they wanna relate like humans and lovers, then we can be humans and lovers. These simpletons never realize how simple it all really is, all they can think with is their hate boner.

Dirty_Commie_Jesus · 2020-02-04T10:59:42+00:00

Tbh this is a similar reason for a part of why I don’t like taller guys. If there is a significant height difference he is probably thinking about how weak and small(child like)you look when having sex with him.

Lakersrock111 · 2020-02-05T03:36:53+00:00

And this is why I wait and wait. I admit, I friend zone a guy first, because I want to know what a fella is like. Unfortunately men know I am a nymphomaniac without even me saying hi. I give those clues away because I have a bubbly personality. I am from Europe and built like an athlete because I am one. It drives me nuts. People wink at me or hit on me a lot. They see me for sex. And I obviously don’t.

TheOGJammies · 2020-02-04T07:33:27+00:00

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TheOGJammies · 2020-02-04T14:04:15+00:00

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JesusisKingisLord · 2020-02-10T04:07:30+00:00

I recently read in an article in The Atlantic that high school boys are moreso thinking about whether they're performing well during sex for the sake of their own egos -- not their partners' pleasure.

I'm sure this applies to men who are 45 as well.

ivy176 · 2020-02-04T15:03:48+00:00

I guess some men are like that, but not all. My partner has never viewed sex like that

Title	Sickening thought of the day: Whenever you have sex with a man he is probably patting himself on the back congratulating himself that he conquered you.
Author	teibe
Upvotes	238
Comments	28
Date	February 4, 2020 5:10 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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