Long time lurker I don’t date men but as a femme I realize I still need FDS because I’ve definitely allowed women treat me poorly and think it was my fault . I think there’s something about sexism what runs so deep even if it’s two women if you seem like the more “femme “ one often women will act just like LVM towards you . FDS has really helped me realize I have self worth as a woman and I need to assert my boundaries more and I deserve be treated with respect . For example I went on a date recently and in the middle of the date she shows me a thirst text and photo another girl sent her and then hearted it . In the past I would have just brushed that off but I thought about what FDS would say and I deleted her number even though it’s the first date I’ve been on in months . In hindsight there were a lot of red flags before the date even happened I ignored. This community has really helped me realize I deserve better ❤️ thanks ladies