Stepmom does emotional work for useless biological father. It isn't even her child. She defends him in comments.

RiasXgremoryX · 2020-11-06T23:24:45+00:00

The only reason LV men with kids like to date is so that they get a built-in maid/babysitter. I'm convinced none of them actually want to deal with their kids on a daily basis.

MadamLeFay · 2020-11-07T00:22:48+00:00

This is why I will never date a guy with kids

VikingPug · 2020-11-06T22:54:45+00:00

The stepparents sub is a shit show. These women are being more of a parent to these kids then the fathers are. And they will always defend their shitty SO. Like boohoo, he has SO much to deal with. Like we all don’t. But women are expected to suck it up, clean the house, care for kids-including kids that aren’t ours, work a job, run errands and on and on...boohoo he can’t take a few minutes to father his own child.

The stepmoms in there enjoy being victims..makes me sick.

GIfuckingJane · 2020-11-06T22:43:26+00:00

This is what brainwashing looks like.

Summerisle7 · 2020-11-06T23:47:57+00:00

Please note that r/ stepparents is another sub that looooooves their autoban bots. I made fun of them here a few months ago, and was banned from their sub within minutes, hahaha. Their mods spend a LOT of time scouring Reddit for naysayers

localgirlcult · 2020-11-07T00:44:39+00:00

Many women out there just fucking love wasting their 20s and 30s, don't they? Just piss them away like it's nothing. Parenting a man's child? Lol, why not?

EclecticBarbarella · 2020-11-07T00:23:09+00:00

No wonder the poor kid has a meltdown, she probably has to to get a crumb of attention from DD (Dickwad Dad, do I have the whole acronym thing down? I know they like those)

Ghost_namesake · 2020-11-07T03:44:11+00:00

I put so much time and effort into my ex husband's kids. I was extremely foolish. I paid for all sorts of things because their LVM father couldn't afford anything. I did all of the thoughtful things like picking out gifts and taking his daughter to get feminine products when she first started her period. The thanks I got was being treated like absolute garbage. I will never date a man with children again.

kettleodumplins · 2020-11-07T01:51:15+00:00

"I imagine that he's maxed out, what with him working full time and then doing all of the work for the kids and the house 24/7. All the cleaning and the cooking... it doesn't seem like a lot to you, but it can be quite the emotional burden being a parent, even when there's a step parent in the picture to help every once in awhile! Maybe you can take a night out of the week to cook for him and the kiddo, and you can even help clean up afterwards."

Oh.... Oh did I not hit the mark there?

Title	Stepmom does emotional work for useless biological father. It isn't even her child. She defends him in comments.
Author	Old-Flower-9089
Upvotes	108
Comments	24
Date	November 6, 2020 10:40 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/jpf5kr/stepmom_does_emotional_work_for_useless/
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