What do you think about a woman having male friends?

ReeeeDrumpf · 2021-03-16T12:53:44+00:00

Male friends are guys who fucked her or want to fuck her. If she only has male friends, then women don't trust her to bring around their men.

Double red flag.

SublimePimp · 2021-03-16T09:11:23+00:00

To me it’s a sign that the woman is a social loser in the hierarchy of women so they opt for easy validation and orbiting from men. They say women are bitches, etc, but it’s just a massive cope that they can’t maneuver in their respective gender hierarchy.

I’ve seen women that had groups of friends get dropped for being sloppy, openly whorish, and other detrimental qualities that got her ejected from her social group. Not only do these girls not put up any fight, but they start dressing like shit, stop wearing makeup, and turn to dogshit. Then they rationalize that the girls were all bitches and just hang out with MAH DUDES all day. Basically failures as women.

There’s a unicorn smoking hot trad that had a strong father who has a circle of men for guidance but that’s .0001% of them

The_Peoples_Asshole · 2021-03-16T13:01:55+00:00

Male/female friendships only benefit the woman. Whenever I hear a girl say she prefers guy friends, I take it automatically that she has had her business with these men, or these men want to have that business with her.

Either way, she gets the attention and validation. She is a tease at that point. Nothing more.

KirthWGersen · 2021-03-16T10:23:04+00:00

It is a red flag if you expect monogamy, and most people do.

I don't have any long-term female friends that I haven't had sex with.

And I know for a fact that my primary partner has had sex with most of her male friends (her trick is to have sex with them once, usually a pity fuck to cement the "friendship", then milk them for favours in the long run).

If you just want something casual or a non-monogamous relationship, it is not an issue.

kmf01 · 2021-03-16T10:05:25+00:00

You never meet a girl who is 30+ saying that all her friends are guys. Usually because she passed the wall, guys who were orbiting her for few years either gave up, found someone else or are no longer interested.

So that alone can tell you something, she can only get friends with a power of her pussy and looks when she is young in her 20s. Its very short term. If she doesnt have any close female friends this is a big red flag and means there is something wrong with her, you just dont know yet what.

If i had a dollar for every girl saying he is her friend but he is gay, I would be a millionaire. I like to ask: so he hits on dudes in front of you, right? Then you get a great confused look on her face

ISCOREDwithISCO · 2021-03-16T10:29:10+00:00

In my honest opinion, women and men cannot be friends unless they are not attracted to each other. This is simply because jealousy and sexual desire will get in the way of a true friendship. If she’s talking about sucking other guys dicks around you but she told you she doesn’t want to be with you, you’re gonna feel a type of way. I don’t even try and joke to myself that I can be friends with a hot chick, if she tries to friendzone me (hasn’t happened in a while) I just let her know that I have enough friends so I’ll pass. Or, you can agree to be friends but actually treat her like one of the boys. Show her other hot chicks you wanna fuck and ask her what she thinks of them. Show her dirty texts from other chicks. See if she truly thinks you can “be friends”. See how long that lasts.

However, I think I’m going to start the facade of being “friends” so that I can be exposed to more chicks friend groups and then try and get at their friends. Because hot chicks typically have hot friends, and you being cool with one of them helps you build rapport and it could be easier to get with the others. You could use this to your advantage.

DoubleConversation4 · 2021-03-16T11:10:29+00:00

Women want attention. A good amount of it. When they can't get the amount of attention they want from one man, they make up for it by making many orbiters out of men and getting their attention, they recompensate quality with quantity, for this, she probably even goes to the effort of initiating with men, which good & healthy women never do. This means she never learned how to be alone, and during trying times in the relationship, she'll cheat on you to not feel alone.

This is also a sign of that she doesn't have much control over her feelings and that there is an underlying problem, most of the time problem is trauma that is heavily engraved into the psyche. Desire for attention always comes from an underlying problem, it's a tribal mechanism to get their problem solved.

If she only has male friends, it means that she was outcasted from the female society, which just screams trouble. Women are better at reading people and they're very competitive, but they're also very defensive of each other. There are certain parameters regarding on how their hierarchy is built, but my point is there's a hierarchy. The said system works, it operates smoothly, women get together as friends, they don't normally hang out with men. That said, bluepilled / feminized men are much more tolerant when it comes to women acting out, the simp mind will just do anything to earn affection out of scarcity mentality. Women being competitive doesn't mean they can't be friends, or hang out. If a woman is outcasted from the female side of community, it means that she's a huge troublemaker. It might be that the other females in the area were scared that "this female" would try her way with their male, if women felt this and kicked her out, then you want nothing to do with that specific female.

Or, she could be just trying to make you jealous, or it could've been a shit-test, but I doubt that.

Drop the girl if she's LTR, don't care if she's a plate but be careful and never promote to LTR and step out when you start feeling stuff for her. Good luck!

AuberyBitoni · 2021-03-16T18:40:51+00:00

All of her male 'friends' want to fuck her. If she's too dumb to realize that, it's automatically a red flag.

soltanparham · 2021-03-16T10:02:18+00:00

my best friend is a guy : 100% he fucks her any time she wants !
men and women CAN'T be friends , even if it's all about work , they still can't be friends

it's either 0 or 100! he's either smashing or on her wait list

StunningCharisma · 2021-03-16T11:14:29+00:00

Male friends means orbiters. Don't overthink it

BethereinZen · 2021-03-16T11:23:57+00:00

Call me the odd one out but idgaf if they have friends. #1: it I don't care that will make them wonder why. #2 I'm not the"nice guy" nor do I want to listen to most of not all a girl's stories. Tell them to your guy friends, then get back to me.

It eases a lot when I say tell your friends that kinda stuff because I don't care to much about the co-worker at your work and who he's dating or whatever it is.

Plus, im not that insecure. I got girl's in my life, who gives a fuck if you got guys in your life. As long as you don't care, she will always wonder why and that alone takes the pleasure out of fucking those dudes and onto fucking you.

It's inevitable when you're dating

Immediate_Basil_9089 · 2021-03-16T16:48:30+00:00

Who cares

Efficient_Film_149 · 2021-03-16T10:45:01+00:00

No thank you

cglehosit · 2021-03-16T12:40:48+00:00

From what I see, those male friends are not men to them. They are male girlfriends that think they’ll get laid after they do their time as a friend first. And they generally are the nerd/hipster type. They also are publicly awkward, which gives the woman plausible deniability when confronted about whether she’s sleeping with all of them. She is probably not good at being friends with other women, and let’s these types of boys fill that emotional validation void.

BavarianAlpha97 · 2021-03-16T12:53:03+00:00

Absolute Red Flag! Maybe is a friendship thing from the girl, but the guy.... he would fuck her, if he get the chance

subaruguy14 · 2021-03-16T13:22:58+00:00

Red flag, plate status only. Probably also means she’s drama so women have chosen to not befriend her.

AllocNeighley · 2021-03-16T16:20:08+00:00

Unless he's gay a woman's best friend should not be a guy

I_love_emoji · 2021-03-16T16:25:20+00:00

These are loser women who love having orbiters.

Fookin_Crispy · 2021-03-16T16:34:13+00:00

Men and women can be friends but the only one who benefits from that friendship is the woman.

Early_Ad_1861 · 2021-03-16T19:54:13+00:00

I had this same convo with my girl. She said she doesn't want me to fall asleep early because her guy friends are texting her and she feels like shes disrespecting me. I told her that it shouldn't matter if they are actually friends. I followed up by saying that i don't believe a guy and girl can actually be friends BUT i don't mind if she continues because I will get female friends as well. She agreed to cut off her guy friends but don't know if I should consider this a red flag since she didn't argue me.

tetrachromancy · 2021-03-19T05:45:14+00:00

If she wants to keep male friends around that’s fine.

She’s not going to ever get my commitment.

Raise your standards and live by them. Always be willing to walk.

Title	What do you think about a woman having male friends?
Author	asakk
Upvotes	15
Comments	41
Date	March 16, 2021 9:08 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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