I 28/F have been seeing this guy 26/m for 3 weeks now. We had gotten together about 7 times and things have been going so well (having real conversations, getting to know each other and our attachment styles, etc) and then last Saturday happened.

I went out with my friends on Saturday and by the time I met up with me date at his place, I was very drunk and ended up blacking out that night. We were drinking together, and the last thing I remember is him saying we were too drunk to have sex (we had seen each other naked a handful of times and messed around but never sex) but we ended up having sex that night and he reminded me in the morning. (He didn’t take advantage of me, I knew I kept asking for it and he was drinking too and then we had sex again in the morning) I told him while we are hooking up I’m not okay with him having sex with other people while we are and he agreed.

Anyways, I felt terrible for blacking out and he said it was okay and that I wasn’t annoying or anything, but since then he’s backed off. He still texts me every day and follows up when he says he is, but it’s been a week since we last have gotten together and he hasn’t asked me to get together this weekend. I asked him if he wanted to go on a walk w me after work yesterday since it’s nice out but said he couldn’t bc he’s going golf with his friends.

His last text to me last night was him wishing me goodnight and saying he would text me tomorrow. Not sure if he’s trying to let me down easy? Should I bring up last Saturday and say that he’s been distant this week? It’s been almost a week of not seeing him and it’s Friday.