UPDATE: Could have lost virginity, chose not to. Think I made the right choice, what are your thoughts?

plasticslug · 2016-10-04T00:15:01+00:00

After you smashed a few sluts, you will look back and laugh at the term virginity and realize it's such a pointless frame of mind with dudes.

You stuck around for WAY too many red flags, to call this any kind of victory.

monetmanet · 2016-10-04T02:14:22+00:00

yeah, good call

Officer_Dick_Johnson · 2016-10-04T06:48:39+00:00

It's was a good choice if this chick is a regular in your life (meaning you meet her on a regular in school, work what ever).

If she's just a random chick from internet, you should've fucked her and left.

Doesn't matter how crazy the chick is, if she has no info on you she will do nothing.

username082016 · 2016-10-04T05:01:49+00:00

I dunno man, I bailed on my first opp to lose my virginity; it was a solid choice, just didn't feel right. The GF i lost my virginity to was also a virgin. I was 16 she was 18, we were in love and it was a pretty mesmerizing experience for both of us.

I understand popular advice to do it with someone who doesn't matter, to each their own. But when you do it with someone that does matter its a nice lifetime memory to reflect on.

Now if you're 26 then yeah lose that shit as fast as you can.

tallguyjp · 2016-10-04T06:08:04+00:00

You made the right choice bud.

SnarkyFella · 2016-10-04T09:58:38+00:00

You kept going after the 4 kids line? What the fuck? I would have RAN OUT THE FUCKING DOOR. Don't ever call her again.

aprettycoolviking · 2016-10-04T04:01:27+00:00

I'd have fucked her and left anyway.

IamNewToTheUS · 2016-10-04T08:32:44+00:00

hahaha wtf

redolas · 2016-10-04T10:31:24+00:00

Asking if you want to be a father was a shit test. Her jealousy - shit test. She wants to know how much of a provider you are, and how much she can cling to you. Virginity was another shit test. You passed the first ones, failed on the last one.

If she's crazy, you should not go to her place. I don't think most of these you quoted are red flags. It's regular, needy behavior of a 5 or 6 being away from her family and friends. Crazy? Maybe. How far crazy? There is only one way to find out.

There are ways to soft next a girl. Stay friends but don't fuck if you don't feel like it. You can always find an excuse to not be alone with her.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2016-10-04T09:08:15+00:00

Why are you pointing out red flags when you're not in a relationship with her. Sex has nothing to do with red flags, you pussied out and are patting yourself on your back. Think whatever you want, there is no perfect woman to lose your virginity to so get that out of your fucking head kid.

mksu · 2016-10-04T11:27:20+00:00

It's one thing to walk away from pussy, but to walk away from virgin pussy, at least you got mental fortitude lmao.

LewisCross · 2016-10-04T15:06:44+00:00

In this situation, you make the right choice. If your gut tells you you're dealing with a psycho, move on. There are 3 billion other women. You don't need to put all your eggs in this basket.

the-dick-hammer · 2016-10-04T16:03:44+00:00

Good call by walking away? Yes. Victory? Meh.

knightSwolaire · 2016-10-04T16:27:17+00:00

lol yes. jesus christ.

covertpenguin3390 · 2016-10-04T21:45:38+00:00

Always go with your gut. When something doesn't seem right, it's because it usually isn't. Could you have pussed out on some grade-a never been touched tight beautiful little virgin pussy that you could've drank from it's so fresh? Yeah, possibly. But I remember one of my best friends (tho the living embodiment of the 40 year old virgin) bang out some Asian not that attractive rave chick who was obviously fucked up in the head and she later killed herself and it kinda fucked him up for a month or two. She had so many red flags, it made your girl look like Pegasus with a horn on his head, but I think you get the point.... don't stick your dick in crazy. while crushing puss left and right is hard, banging out a girl every month or two once you've improved enough isn't really that hard and you'll get more opportunities. I would've hit it though lol

AceBenedict23 · 2016-10-05T01:23:33+00:00

How do girls end up this emotionally fucked up?

Serious question. I see girls like this every once and a while, hear stories similar to this every once and a while. Can never put my thumb on it.

NICOLAWRITES · 2016-10-05T05:19:09+00:00

If she's a psycho now, she'll be even more crazy after getting her vag stomped. Good call on gtfo there.

TheRedStoic · 2016-10-05T18:05:06+00:00

Fucking good call.

Never in crazy. Just, no. Virgin crazies are even worse.

jeezydasnowman · 2016-10-04T03:43:40+00:00

I don't think so. The sooner you lose it the better, first times gonna suck regardless so might as well do it with someone who doesn't matter.

BenDoberman · 2016-10-04T13:43:23+00:00

I had something easy with me for my first before. Until I found out she gave me chlamydia

Title	UPDATE: Could have lost virginity, chose not to. Think I made the right choice, what are your thoughts?
Author	MachiaWho
Upvotes	24
Comments	42
Date	October 4, 2016 12:00 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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