Got girl pregnant. Semi-LDR for 2.5 years, we traveled together and she stayed with me in Canada many times.

She flew back to south korea 3 weeks ago, and just told me she's preggers (3 positive tests + symptoms). She knows I want an abortion and I suggested it but I didn't force her to do anything cause that would just backfire. Told her to see a gyno to confirm with a blood test.

What's my best bet here to convince her to do the abortion? I know it's her decision but I'm obviously not ready to be a daddy. I barely started to get my own life on track.

Should I offer to fly to Korea and help her with everything? Should I leave her alone and act like it's no big deal? What's my best bet here?

I'm a fucking retard, give me your advice TRP.