My boyfriend doesn't want me to have male students and he also wants me to move in too quickly

_biryani_ · 2021-07-16T21:15:43+00:00

I'm sorry if this comes off as harsh but you've only been together for a month and have his name tattooed on you?

You're right about the part that he's rushing into moving together so soon! Although I don't think this relationship will last long, I suggest you try to reason with him that tutoring brings you money etc. I hope he sees reason and that whatever happens is good for you :)

Current-Ticket4214 · 2021-07-16T22:31:07+00:00

Lives with mom and dad. Extreme jealousy. Wants you to move in with him and his… checks notes… parents?

Definitely a low value dude. Run.

gammaJinx · 2021-07-17T00:58:08+00:00

I can’t tell if you’re trolling or not lol

Inside_Ad_7292 · 2021-07-17T04:47:19+00:00

I hate to sound harsh, but you need to seriously ask yourself why you (a 33 year old, grown woman) is dating a boy who is barely out of his teen years, and allowing him to dictate how you navigate your professional contacts. And the fact that you actually decided to tattoo this boy’s name onto your body after a month of dating (or at all, for that matter)… that speaks volumes to your ability to make sane, logical life choices. I suggest you take a step back from this relationship, and the dating world in general, and evaluate what you really want from a relationship. Do you want a man-child who lives at home and has barely passed through puberty? Or do you want a mature man? And if you decide on the latter option, then you need to do some serious work on your own maturity level. Thinking that you’re going to be together forever based on a month of dating is some high school stuff.

Lando_620 · 2021-07-16T23:57:53+00:00

He has the excuse of being young (20) and the fact this is almost certainly his first relationship which explains why he has a sea of red flags.

You at 33, don't have the time to spare with this doomed encounter. Second, getting tattoos in general makes women less attractive. When it is the name of a boyfriend, let alone one of 1 month, leads me to believe you have some personal issues you may need to address. I know this might seem harsh but at 33 your deepest connection being with a 20 year, old who acts like he is a child, after only a month is very concerning.

I would advise you end it, and at least take some time to steady yourself and seek help if you need it.

Good luck.

pinkdrawings · 2021-07-19T23:35:53+00:00

Nothing about this is high value in any way. I hope I am not breaking rule three by saying this, but you are not showing high value actions right now. I'd suggest nun mode, get the tattoo removed (if you can) or covered up and get some therapy.

sj637 · 2021-07-19T18:20:59+00:00

He is a kid, leave him.

Sea_Bookkeeper_1533 · 2021-07-25T06:00:41+00:00

33f with a 20m?! Oh honey no. 🙄😘

Tanman55555 · 2021-07-25T07:07:52+00:00

I see absolutely no reason for you to continue talking to this man.

throwaway2255770 · 2021-07-25T08:28:37+00:00

I see your post history and yikes

Title	My boyfriend doesn't want me to have male students and he also wants me to move in too quickly
Author	Gatitagordrita
Upvotes	0
Comments	45
Date	July 16, 2021 8:49 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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