It’s not our responsibility. Got problems? Go fix them. Without droning on about them.

irrelevantmoniker · 2021-07-03T15:42:45+00:00

Now. This being a feminist saying this I have to ask for careful consideration to 'what does this person mean by 'misogynist' and 'kindness and understanding'

because lets not forget misogyny can be defined as 'anything less than complete support for radical feminism'

and kindness and understanding can mean all sorts.

So here's what I think happened?

MRA: So I'm an MRA and I think men have issues.

rabid: an mra? you're a misogynist!

MRA: No men have issues that are not being addressed and here are some of the ones i care deeply about *insert explanation here*

rabid: you expect me to understand and care about that? fuck you!

MRA: now that's just a bit mean.

rabid: *screaming like a cat yowling into a microphone crossed with a 56K modem then goes to write a post on 2X*

evil_banana · 2021-07-03T13:47:23+00:00

If they don't care about us, we don't have to care about them.

Just don't worry about it. Suck as much joy out of life as you possibly can without hindering anyone else's good time. I personally think that's the key to life.

Cedalito · 2021-07-03T14:36:24+00:00

Well, looking at the damage feminism has done to so many lives, I'd say she, and people like her, who condone feminism, are actually responsible.

jadedlonewolf89 · 2021-07-03T20:18:18+00:00

So what I got from that post is this it’s not their job or responsibility to help in any way and they should be able to just sit there and watch someone be abused and not be punished.

All choices have consequences and inaction is still a choice.

Hit someone expect to get hit, put a gun to someone’s head expect that someday someone will put one to yours, stand by as someone gets abused don’t be surprised when that person decides that you’re no better than the abuser and attacks you if they go off the deep end.

rabel111 · 2021-07-04T01:04:43+00:00

Empathy is an emotional response to the pain or distress of other people. 2xxers are revealing that their misandry expresses itself as reduced human empathy for people based on their sex.

Most MRAs I know have empathy for people regardless of their sex, and find sexist denial of people's pain and distress obnoxious.

The increasing numbers of 2xxers posting their hate speech on r/MensRights suggests that they too are getting tied of the gynocentric bubble babble of modern feminism.

UglySurprise · 2021-07-04T11:29:12+00:00

As a woman, I think feminism has gone way too far. It's no longer about being equals, It's about being the superior gender. It gives women self-confidence, but to most, it's not the good kind of self-confidence, where you are content with yourself, you believe in yourself, respect everyone, men and women, and feel that you deserve equality. But the wrong kind, where you see yourself as a goddess walking on earth, a giant gift for everyone that lays their eyes on you, you want equality, respect, kindness, but you won't give the same in return. This mindset needs to change because our intentions got lost in the way. People are going to hate this comment, but feminism changed a lot over the years, and it's not going to lead to equality and peace.

khaste · 2021-07-04T12:28:03+00:00

ok i guess its not my responsiblity to care about womens issues then?

Fuck it, i dont want to hear about pregnancy, abortion, periods etc issues ever again if we wanna play that game :)

YourFavouriteGuy · 2021-07-03T16:04:22+00:00

What online misogynists need depends what they think misogyny is. If misogyny is merely lack of support of feminism or criticisms of women, then no, "misogynists" don't need any of that.

If they mean actual men who hate women, then those men need to have been born in a society which encourages mutual respect between the genders. Why? Because it's less likely that men will respect women if women don't respect men. Also, it would help if they were born in a decent household.

throwawayincelacc · 2021-07-04T07:55:12+00:00

I’m just incredibly confused by this messaging and always left wondering if they truly believe anything they say.

Men are apparently responsible to protecting women against “bad men”

But now women are not responsible for protecting men against “bad women”

At least that’s what I’m getting from her post. She rationalizes being a bad person towards them because suddenly it’s not her responsibility. Women under feminism truly retain no agency.

Total-Success2207 · 2021-07-03T18:14:38+00:00

If you are a man that wants rights, you have a mental illness. Edit: this only got downvotes because people called me out on it.

Hey_itsmeguys · 2021-07-04T10:55:37+00:00

"Why don't men open up more?"

Half-blind-bear · 2021-07-04T07:07:06+00:00

What a callous world view this woman has. So many men help their partners through severe depression and crippling anxiety without asking for anything but love in return. My wife in turn helped me show my emotions more openly and be less reserved. The world can be a tough place and no one is good at everything. Looking after each other is how we survive. This lady and her supporters seem to be going through some challenges and seem to have dealt with some awful men. I hope they find a friend to pull them out and show them not every man is like that and that kindness is the way forward.

emix16 · 2021-07-03T13:14:16+00:00

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seeyeay · 2021-07-03T18:20:26+00:00

Hey, all im saying is that we all come from a woman.

racheltpotts · 2021-07-03T18:22:42+00:00

The men the OP is posting are misogynists? Not just normal guys. Don’t get why people are saying ‘they don’t care about us’ Are yall misogynists??

reddut_gang · 2021-07-06T15:46:46+00:00

she is right. the vice versa example, would also be right. why should I give a shit about a misandrist? however, if you only say that one is right and the other is wrong, you are a clown.

Title	It’s not our responsibility. Got problems? Go fix them. Without droning on about them.
Author	benderXX
Upvotes	166
Comments	158
Date	July 3, 2021 1:11 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/ocxsys/its_not_our_responsibility_got_problems_go_fix/
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