I don't get why this narrative has been getting pushed out to the female youth lately. Yes, we're young, but that doesn't mean spending our youth sleeping with randoms and using men for money. There's nothing wrong with hypergamy and women going with a lot of men, but is that really the message we want to put out?

How about "You're young, stop trying to be a wife and go start your career" and "graduate sis"? I don't want my little sister thinking going out, getting drunk, using randoms credit cards, and getting passed around is the best way to spend her youth. If you like that, do you, but don't influence young ones into doing that.

PS: yes, men are like this too and we all know that, but as a girl I'm speaking to other girls because this is my issue. What men preach isn't my issue. If your argument is "men do it too" then I really don't care.

Edit: some people are mistaking hypergamy with polygamy. Hypergamy is dating up/richer. Gold digging if you will