Alimony payors in New Jersey need court permission to retire --> Permission DENIED.

ztsmart · 2015-11-11T18:43:45+00:00

Marriage: Not even once

Niketi · 2015-11-11T17:00:58+00:00

This archaic bullshit needs to be abolished.

manicmonkeys · 2015-11-11T17:48:27+00:00

Women wonder why men don't want to get married.

Men read articles like this and think "That could be me" or "What if I couldn't get the decision overturned on appeal" ...

Men aren't stupid, ladies.

Feminists have rigged the Divorce laws to make divorce a wealth transfer from men to women.

Men are, rightfully, avoiding putting their neck into the guillotine.

2015-11-11T18:43:41+00:00

Slavery.

DillipFayKick · 2015-11-11T17:00:14+00:00

Wage slavery is real ya'll.

brokedown · 2015-11-11T18:08:42+00:00

That is scary as shit. The entire concept of perpetual alimony seems insane, the ideas that I could marry someone who later decides they would rather not be with me for whatever reason, but I'm still on the hook to finance their lifestyle forever, potentially beyond when I would retire... Florida just failed to overturn perpetual alimony, my girlfriend knows we aren't getting married.

brokedown · 2015-11-11T21:50:05+00:00

Pay a woman till you retire, then be denied the ability to retire. Yeah, marriage is not for me, I'll just continue to take myself out to eat and watch movies at the theater by myself, hell, way cheaper.

carchamp1 · 2015-11-11T17:41:28+00:00

Dear Men,

If you didn't already know, the purpose of marriage/divorce is to take money from you and give it to your wife. That's it. There is nothing in marriage for you, unless you're a masochist and don't feel your life to be worth anything.

Do NOT get married. This is the most important advice you will ever receive.

Carchamp1

The_Phasers · 2015-11-11T17:23:03+00:00

Did anyone actually read the article? The decision was overturned on appeal.

That being said, the initial decision was total BS.

Strelock · 2015-11-11T18:35:46+00:00

Fucking move. Become Canadian or Mexican.

Arby01 · 2015-11-11T18:34:37+00:00

well, I am torn.

He had a court ordered obligation that he ignored. The court reduced his alimony to $50/month - but required him to pay back the arrears at $350/month. On a 27k/year income. That's pretty harsh. But age is no excuse for not paying previously - he was well aware that he was racking up the debt along the way.

If he had paid his court ordered amount, this would be a different discussion - we have no idea how much of this was caused by his not paying when he should have/could have been. I am leaning towards 100% cause.

That being said, his alimony awards seem pretty high for someone that at retirement only has a 27k/year pension - to be given an alimony requirement of 4k/mo - that's gotta be a pretty high salary.

PSMF_Canuck · 2015-11-11T19:05:48+00:00

Click bait headline. The court didn't say the person couldn't retire - they said that retiring doesn't make obligations go away.

Title	Alimony payors in New Jersey need court permission to retire --> Permission DENIED.
Author	eaton80
Upvotes	170
Comments	37
Date	November 11, 2015 2:44 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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