Will feminist policies lead to a lack of suitable partners for successful feminist women?

ConfirmedCynic · 2015-08-17T03:30:21+00:00

Yes, it's already happening in China with their so-called "leftover women". The top women can't find mates because, despite the surplus of men there in general, too few are good enough to suit their hypergamy.

http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-21320560

MonkeyCB · 2015-08-17T06:14:57+00:00

I believe some twat president of Jamaica or wherever brought this issue up a few months back, claiming that there's a serious issue with not enough men going to college that will leave a lot of women without future husbands.

As far as I'm concerned, I don't give a shit. But if I had to, well, who cares about these women? The older guys can become successful and get themselves some chick 10-20 years younger straight out of high school. Let these strong and independent women prove to us all that they really don't need a man.

Lethn · 2015-08-17T04:35:16+00:00

I suppose if we're talking purely about the minds' of these women who somehow think that they 'deserve' better men you're right. Feminist policies ( which I suspect professional women advocate a lot ) are going to be driving men out of universities or they like me won't even bother even trying to re-take GSCE's to go for them.

Now the problem is in regards to their choice of partner what you're asking for is pretty generalised. For instance, how would they mean more 'successful'? If they're only regarding people as unversity educated worthwhile then that's definitely going to take a big chunk of men out of the equation.

I'm personally not surprised I'm still single given the state my country in the UK is when it comes to women my age in particular, the genuinely nice ones all immediately get boyfriends or have orbiters around them 24/7 ( you see it everywhere lol it's actually pretty sad ) or they're pregnant/married. The rest and I do mean the rest <dramatic undertone> are genuinely fucking nuts.

I vividly remember hearing on the radio once about this girl who was talking about her dating experiences, she was fucking 18 and had been through 8 boyfriends already. It's one thing if your just flirting around, I don't have a problem with that, but if you're genuinely looking for a stable relationship holy shit.

I try not to sound or be desperate about this sort of thing but I really just want to meet some nice women out their in the fucking world who are single without having to deal with the kind of crazed bullshit that feminism seems to have created lol the problem is though these crazies are pretty much everywhere. >_<

The women for instance though I've chatted to on the internet outside the UK are far nicer to hang out with, which is one of the reasons why I'm going to move out of the country as fast as possible. So yes, femist policies and just feminism in general is making women a lot less appealing. I like an aggressive/independent girl, but feminism isn't about being independent, it's about being extremely entitled, selfish, arrogant and manipulative and somehow being proud of all of that.

aussietoads · 2015-08-17T05:01:36+00:00

There is no such thing as a suitable partner for a successful feminist woman. A suitable slave, perhaps. Partner, hell no, that would require a feminist to acknowledge another person as their equal.

mochacola · 2015-08-17T03:52:57+00:00

Before we even get to the disaster of feminist movement trying to shape masculinity, I think the biggest problem feminist movement had created is, they believe they can re-educate men to want undesirable women, while educating women that each and every woman is perfect special snowflakes, deserving hundreds of men waiting in line just to be with them. And the only villains in this dynamics are desirable women sending out "wrong messages" to men.

If a man dislikes a woman swearing and cursing far worse than the worst of his buddies, it's the man's fault for not accepting her strong character. If a man married a woman who then went on to rape underage boys, it's the husband not paying enough attention to his rapist wife. Men simply can't say no to any personality traits men do not like, and the only women men should say no to, are sexy women.

Under this doctrine, there's no need for women to adhere to any manners which attracts men, but men had to adapt against what makes men happy, just not to be mocked by women they are with. It's bound to fail. Men then prefer women not indoctrinated, or prefer no long term expectations.

rottingchrist · 2015-08-17T12:11:21+00:00

They'll make their peace with some form of soft/informal polygamy.

bertreapot · 2015-08-17T18:57:41+00:00

There was an article written by a women posted here awhile ago that addressed this issue. She spent her 20s stringing along potential suitors who didn't stick around forever. Then she hit her 30s and was complaining about the dearth of suitable male partners for a professional like her.

Like other commenters here said, successful men can marry pretty much whomever they want. They don't want to marry a difficult and demanding successful woman in her 30s, because she is a pain. This writer in particular had plenty of suitable partners available to her in her 20s, but turned them down for whatever reason. Another thing that she doesn't realize is the dating pool dramatically narrows in your 30s and 40s anyway. Men who aren't rich are having the same issues dating that she has, a dearth of potential partners, because hey, you're not in your 20s anymore.

Also important to note is that "successful" or "college educated" are code words for "wealthy." Modern feminism has taught women to be hard-driven career women in order to achieve "equality," but the corollary to this is that these professional traits don't make the best mate. No one pointed out to women that being a hardened professional would likely hurt their chances in the dating arena, not help them, so the disconnect has them confused. They are doing what they were told to do to succeed professionally, but it has sabotaged their personal lives. Sometimes you cannot have it all. As a man working 60 hours a week, what would you prefer when you get home: a wife who works 60 hours a week and is just as drained as you, and pissed that your cooking skills are limited to frozen pizza? Or a woman 10 years younger who works 30 hours a week at a job that pays shit, but she loves, and she is chipper and happy to see you when you get home?

Also absent from the feminist conversation is the very real concept of hypergamy. Women want to marry up, men really don't care about his wife's caste, as long as she is attractive and not nuts. So yes, for every woman with a bachelor's degree she expects a husband who has a bachelor's or higher. For every women with an MD, typically only another professional or post-grad degree will do. So options do get slim for them at the top. That's just math.

pnw_diver · 2015-08-17T03:45:13+00:00

"Will feminist policies lead to a lack of suitable partners for successful feminist women?"

You assume that the personal agenda that a feminist has includes actually having a real relationship with a man at some point. I think that for the most part self-identified feminists, regardless of their orientation, have a fundamental hatred of men that would tend to preclude realistically any serious, intimate relationship where the man isn't just a subject.

Of course feminists are creating an environment in which there are fewer suitable partners (ie, men who are at the peer-level with women in society). That's a big part of their entire drive, or purpose, or to use a cloying word, "agency". Feminism in its modern incarnation is a hate movement focused ultimately on de-legitimizing and stigmatizing straight men.

Ultramegasaurus · 2015-08-17T07:15:03+00:00

Will feminist policies lead to a lack of suitable partners for successful feminist women?

Yes it does and it fills me with glee. Either women get over their lizard brain hypergamy bullshit and their unwarranted self-importance or they remain alone, period.

2015-08-17T08:06:23+00:00

That's entirely their own problem though. Because a 'suitable partner' to these women is one who outearns them. They have no right to complain when it's their own shallowness that has placed them in this situation. Time to start thinking with their brains instead of their instincts.

2015-08-17T03:34:05+00:00

My guess is at least some of the women will find a man to make miserable.

Wargame4life · 2015-08-17T11:14:58+00:00

who cares its not my problem

ju87 · 2015-08-17T14:34:29+00:00

I used to care about that kind of thing. But I honestly don't care anymore. I just want my own personal future success. Society doesn't give a shit about me now, why should I give a shit about society?

danpilon · 2015-08-17T16:50:45+00:00

This is already happening, and all I can do is laugh. There has been a big increase in "where have all the good men gone?" articles and the like recently. Men are abandoning the idea of marriage because it is a terrible deal for them, while women are making more and more money but still want a man who makes more than them. If successful women want a better chance at finding a good relationship, they need to abandon the idea of marrying up, which might alleviate some of the issues men have with marriage in the first place. I hope this "problem" gets worse and worse until that happens.

xNOM · 2015-08-17T18:25:29+00:00

MGTOWs who keep asking questions like this make me laugh. It's like a woman who "attempts" suicide to get attention, or a man who asks his partner every 10 seconds if she had an orgasm.

The real MGTOW answer IMO is "who cares?"

georgespelvin1 · 2015-08-17T16:30:07+00:00

Yes, yes, a thousand times, yes.

2015-08-17T17:29:45+00:00

Because there are no rights for men ... men only have those rights which women deem that men should have.

dicklord_airplane · 2015-08-17T19:51:50+00:00

I'd say that everything in your post is true, and there's more that makes it more difficult for women. the feminist narrative is pushing women to wait longer and longer to start looking for a husband, and older age is generally less attractive to men. many women's standards keep getting higher as they get older, but they generally become less attractive to men as they get older. it's a very poor long-term strategy. their dating pool gets smaller while successful men's dating pools get larger as they age through their 30's. it's as if these sorts of women do not understand men and their position in the dating game at all... which seems to be a very, very common trait among metropolitan feminist women.

in another 10 years, we may see some kind of movement from older women about 'ageism' in the dating game and how men need to be reeducated to date old women. unfortunately for them, it turns out that the fundamentals of attraction between the sexes are not a 'social constructs' that can be re-engineered for personal agendas. feminism holds a lot of glaring denials of some facts of human nature.

i don't understand why so many guys seem to take pleasure in the fact that modern women are facing this conundrum. it's bad for everybody in society, and kids pay the biggest price because the feminist agenda results in a lot of broken homes and single parenting. i honestly feel a bit sad about all of this because i can see many of my female friends headed down this path now that we are all in our late 20's. i can see how my female friends are starting to get nervous about being single and are jealous of younger women now that men their age are happily dating younger women.

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