“Just get off incel forums broo”

uselessloner123 · 2023-08-19T03:15:29+00:00

The fact of the matter is an incel you’re the bottom of the social hierarchy for males and most treat you as such. Even if you have friends you aren’t as close as the other friends.

It wasn’t until joining loner communities did I feel valued and like I could finally relate to people. I was on r/ForeverAlone (before they perma banned me) and it felt like my first true community where I could relate to people

mewbestpokeman · 2023-08-19T02:56:56+00:00

W*men: "men should express their emotions and support each other"

Men: *start a community to do just that*

W*men: "no not like that"

SmoothForest · 2023-08-19T10:10:09+00:00

I went to a mental health support group one time. I never really truly opened up about my issues to the people there I'd just say, "I feel sad sometimes but I don't know why," even though I knew fully well it was because I'm a lonely incel. I felt kinda bad about lying to them all...

....that was until this new guy joined the group. The guy opened up to one person at this group about he was super lonely, had difficulties with dating, and was therefore an incel. This was a private one on one conversation, yet he guy he opened up to spilled the beans to the rest of the group behind his back when he wasn't around. One of the women in the group said she's not gonna come to the group anymore if he was around. So they instead banned the incel guy from coming.

That was a mental health support group, which is supposed to be a non-judgemental safe space that accepts people of all types of mental illnesses. There were people at this group who were co-dependent, schizophrenic, and there was even a guy who was abusive to his ex-wife. Yet even there, incels weren't allowed.

From then on all hesitation surrounding opening myself up to others vanished. I'll never tell anyone that I'm lonely or that I struggle with dating. I'll keep lying. I'll take it all the to grave. Places like this and r/ForeverAlone and other incel forums will be the only place I will let out my true feelings.

sir_ravencroft666 · 2023-08-19T02:35:10+00:00

That’s brutal bro. He shouldn’t be bringing that up in front of others. That’s social suicide, I found out the hard way.

BoogersAndSugar · 2023-08-19T17:13:21+00:00

Unfortunately, the ONLY fucking people who take ugly/short/disabled guys' problems seriously are these incel dudes! When merely saying the words "I can't get a girlfriend" makes people pile on the false assumptions, gaslighting and abuse, these guys are gonna turn to people who DON'T do that shit to them. It isn't fucking rocket science. And no, people literally do that shit to them, then try to paint him as a bad character if he resists this abuse. I've seen it happen time and time again and again.

Ok-Bell3376 · 2023-08-19T20:10:51+00:00

JFL at the comments. Apparently OP is at fault for being mocked for being virgin

IncelRecovThrowaway · 2023-08-19T04:08:20+00:00

If normies could genocide us they would without a second thought

ProfessionalTwo8698 · 2023-08-19T11:26:43+00:00

How do women even know if you visit those websites?

No-Neighborhood-5851 · 2023-08-19T16:44:16+00:00

I wish therapy was a cheap and accessible as everyone else says that it is. I've been on waitlists for nearly a year, and you'll see people bragging about how they've cycled through half a dozen in a couple months.

smalltree123 · 2023-08-19T07:27:30+00:00

I've friends from highschool that don't care, and also from work - though sex isn't something that is discussed much anyway.

Maybe when you are in new, normie circles, there will be judgement of you as a newcomer if they learn you are a virgin.

I'm sorry your friends treats you this way, if they were a better friend they would want to support you.

Welllarmedhippie · 2023-08-19T03:08:53+00:00

Everyone gets made fun of.

ROBYoutube · 2023-08-19T02:35:14+00:00

Nobody gives a fuck if you're a virgin, and the only way they'll ever find out is if you tell them. People who are friends with you are not normies, so stop conflating your friend's shitty behaviour with the behaviour of the other 8 billion people on earth.

Safinated · 2023-08-19T21:01:32+00:00

In real life people don’t talk about their sex lives unless you’re really, really good friends. It’s gross and tmi. I don’t know anything about what my colleagues, friends, neighbors and family have fucked, and I sure as hell don’t wanna know

Title	“Just get off incel forums broo”
Author	Trick_Log7442
Upvotes	50
Comments	121
Date	August 19, 2023 2:25 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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