Why are bigger chicks and mid's so picky?

Lucr3tius · 2023-04-03T21:15:31+00:00

They weren't told that a man's desire for sex is separate from his desire for a relationship. So they accept the pump but then don't expect the dump.

Afterwards they then cope that they'll have more success on the next go around, and continue repeating their own mistakes attempting to obtain relationships with men using sex. I'm sure its pretty traumatic for them, but they are really the only people that can burst their own bubbles enough to become grounded again.

As the mistakes compound they never quite put together that they're fucking guys that are out of their league. They think the evidence of obtaining sex from higher tier men equates to the possibility of a relationship with higher tier men.

As this bubble bursts women become jaded, and never really lower their standards to where they ought to have been in the first place... so it ends up being an expression of frustration projected onto the men that are actually in her league. Hence the resentment etc...

She actually thinks she's punishing "average" men by disqualifying them with being "picky" or "high standards", when in reality she's only hurting herself. She's only disqualifying herself from an actual relationship. The evidence seems to suggest that if women are able to avoid the initial cock carousel of men who are out of her league, psychological damage is minimized and her happiness in life is maximized.

l00ks-p1lled · 2023-04-03T21:19:37+00:00

Most Women are biologically programmed to not feel physical/sexual attraction towards plain looking guys. At best they tolarate a plain man's looks enough to settle with them

Worldly_Piano9526 · 2023-04-03T23:07:51+00:00

They are in denial. Deep down they know that they are a 3/10 but they desperately want to believe the body positivity/girl boss narrative. If they can bag a 9/10 man; that will validate their delusion, inflate their ego, and give them bragging rights. A pump and dump is the closest they can get to that validation.

A hottie knows that she is hot and doesn't need as much validation to convince her of that fact, as a result; they are more likely to date down.

It's the same reason why they get more picky with age. They have to convince themselves and prove to their peers that they've "still got it".

SedTheeMighty · 2023-04-03T22:30:15+00:00

“Even if it’s temporary at least I had it.”

Scooby-Doo14 · 2023-04-03T21:48:24+00:00

Because they can

Gomdgomd · 2023-04-03T22:40:57+00:00

Liberation

_Duriel_1000_ · 2023-04-04T02:45:39+00:00

Out of all the women to pay attention to, why care about obese chicks? They are toxic internally, not worth investing in for more than WAP.

VehementlyDrawn · 2023-04-04T00:06:34+00:00

Because they don't believe they're ugly or mid

anabolicsteroids3 · 2023-04-04T09:22:19+00:00

Bcs they can afford to and men cant

RatDontPanic · 2023-04-04T12:25:12+00:00

Eh, dudes do the same thing. Beauty and the Geek and all that. Mediocre Redpillers always talking about "nailing the hot babes" (lol). Incels won't touch fat women with a 39 1/2 foot pole.

Taipanshimshon · 2023-04-04T03:02:27+00:00

Bro I'm short bald and all of that.

I plain don't care what women I'm not interested in think or do.

Wtf dude.

SwimmingTheme3736 · 2023-04-03T21:38:51+00:00

Because we can be.

I’m chubby and have married a gorgeous man who adores me and I adore him.

Why would I have wanted less?

inkwellion823 · 2023-04-04T02:24:53+00:00

i know right, its pretty crazy how these lardos have the audacity to get with actually quality men, but thats the f-ed world we live in.

fuchsiaeuRIor4683 · 2023-04-04T11:24:20+00:00

All women are hypergamous no matter what they look like.

Flesh_Pillow5 · 2023-04-04T12:54:14+00:00

Women can’t tell the difference between their sexual value Vs their relationship worthiness. Bigger girls get bedded by some good looking men quite often(men don’t discriminate when it comes to sexual variety) and they think that those same men would date them. Part of this is women’s own fault because they generally don’t have sex with men they don’t like or aren’t attracted to and hence can’t understand that a man will have sex with someone he would never consider actually being in a relationship and sometimes not even want to publicly associated with.

AceArguments · 2023-04-04T13:49:47+00:00

Perceptions of "on their level" is incredibly subjective. If you thought she was one your level but the bigger chick has a baby doll face, blue eyes, and pale skin with the only problem is that she's bigger... then she's actually three tiers above you.

You guys don't pay attention to beauty standards the way women do. So obviously you're going to think you're way hotter shit than you are. But in the world of western beauty ideals, if she got those germanic Aryan features, her weight means jack shit.

Pay more attention to a woman than her weight. Her features and skin colour had more to do with her higher standards. Even if you two looked exactly the same but she had a pointed button nose, she would be a tier above you. Even if the only difference between you and her was the lightness of the colour of your eyes, she would be a tier above you. Aryan features are the ideal. Don't be daft.

FortniteAbobus · 2023-04-05T00:40:01+00:00

They want better genes for their offspring.

Title	Why are bigger chicks and mid's so picky?
Author	500mgofShower
Upvotes	13
Comments	89
Date	April 3, 2023 9:09 PM UTC (3 years ago)
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