The guy on the comments did nothing wrong

Dandyman-GM · 2022-06-06T23:04:16+00:00

Personal responsibility, for men, it is required. It should be the same for women.

wineblood · 2022-06-06T23:56:51+00:00

Don't go in raw. Rubber up or rub her up.

kit-kat315 · 2022-06-07T02:51:55+00:00

Well, the whole "don't have sex if you don't want kids" shtick does get pretty old.

Most people want to have sex and only want a couple of kids, max. No surprise there. Using birth control in no way means you don't have a quality partner, or that you don't want to have kids with them at some point. I've been on the pill for years because I've already had a kid with my partner and don't want another (and neither does he).

Ngl, being on the pill really sucks sometimes, especially the nausea. It seems like we could have come up with something better in the past 70 years.

Jarrett2255434 · 2022-06-07T00:14:08+00:00

The irony of this is that the sub is called "NotHowGirlsWork", even though when you nut inside a chick with no protection, (condoms, birth control, morning after pill etc) her getting pregnant, unless she's infertile or there wasn't enough sperm, is exactly what will happen.

SpongeBrainz · 2022-06-07T02:13:44+00:00

I agree with this guy, I saw something simliar like this months ago on r / niceguys that some woman posted and made a mockery of him. I commented on it saying I agree with the fellow and explained why he is in the right. I immediately got down voted to oblivion and called a "pick me" girl. Ffs, I am sure alot of women outside of reddit or women that don't spend so much time on the internet - would've agreed with that man.

Then again, I could be wrong though. I know alot of women that have slept around, got pregnant by "accident" and thank the universe that they had a miscarriage or able to abort. It's disgusting. Plus, I know women who don't have protected sex and get pregnant, then they expect the poor dad who had no clue that she wasn't protected, to pay child support and be involved with the kid.

Best to just not hookup with anyone, in my honest opinion.

Alien_honey · 2022-06-07T06:12:50+00:00

I would say that taking birth control is reasonable. It may be the case that they aren't ready for kids right now and it's better to not bring kids into a world where the parents are making it up as they go. If you're going to have sex you have to weigh out the pros and cons of however you choose to go about it and I hope it.

YeeyMyMeat · 2022-06-07T17:06:49+00:00

This is a terrible take and I don’t care if I get bent over for saying it. The ‘don’t have sex if you don’t want kids’ thing is dumb as fuck. If you want to have sex, use a rubber or take a pill. That’s that. Everyone saying ‘I’d never have sex unless I wanted a child’ is confusing whether they would with they can

AriaBellaPancake · 2022-06-07T20:19:37+00:00

So, are y'all entirely unaware that Birth Control is also used to prevent menstrual pain and treat some hormonal issues?

Personally I don't agree with the whole "don't have sex if you don't want a kid" thing but there's no point in arguing that considering how issues of morality and such differ from person to person.

But birth control is very much medicine. It's the first thing prescribed for women that have PCOS, Endometriosis, among other issues. I, personally, take a daily BC pill because I've experienced pretty extreme pain my whole life due to such issues. Without BC, I wouldn't be able to work and support myself, and I started taking it when I was not only single but pretty much a shut in! Lol

So yeah, very misinformed stuff. Bad side effects with birth control is a huge problem for women who use it to manage health conditions.

SquishedPears · 2022-06-07T04:27:50+00:00

respectfully disagree.

the message itself isn’t necessarily worthy of negativity (note i did not say criticism, all ideas can and should be criticized) but their tone, at least in the first half of the comment, is fairly condescending, which was completely unnecessary. this just opened the door to causing a fight, which just makes things worse.

as for the message itself, i still disagree. most people want to and will have sex with people without the intent of having a child. i’m a gay guy, and guess what? i have sex most days of the week because it’s an enjoyable activity. it’s unreasonable to ask everyone in society to not have sex with people they wouldn’t want a child with, because a lot of people don’t want a child (at least not yet) even if they are married to someone they would be willing to have a child with. a lot of people have a high sex drive, it’s naturally engraved in us anyways, so it wouldn’t be feasible for most people to only have sex with a select type of person.

besides, this person is criticizing a valid, safe and effective method to prevent pregnancy. granted, we don’t have any proof that the title is an accurate description of the original video, so there may be an unseen context that validates this comment, so i can’t say for sure that i’m correct.

there’s my tedtalk, feel free to respectfully debate me and i’ll probably respond and maybe change my views. if you’re an asshole, you’ll probably regret it.

CreativeMind1999 · 2022-06-07T00:39:17+00:00

I don’t agree. I bet 90% of people on this Earth, both men and women don’t have sex for procreation. I think this is a bit too deep.

pianofucker345 · 2022-06-07T16:30:35+00:00

Some people want sex for pleasure

HumanNumber348 · 2022-06-07T18:33:31+00:00

“Hey, this medication has these side effects, which kinda sucks.”

How could anyone be offended by that? Lol.

AChromaticHeavn · 2022-06-07T18:39:24+00:00

This is the first time I can recall ever seeing a man make the statement of thought "if I don't want to take care of her/a child, there's no sex happening". Kudos to the dude for having that sort of forethought, because most men I've met, don't think further than maybe a month into the future.

Abstract_Knight · 2022-06-06T23:01:04+00:00

If you use a condom there's a chance that it breaks, if that happens you're automatically forced to pay for the baby if the girl decides to keep the children.

If a women doesn't want to use these things, then what he said is an option, an option that this guy actually uses.

This guy said nothing wrong, he literally just said his point of view, the option he uses and the responsabilities it takes.

agressive_commenter · 2022-06-07T00:43:11+00:00

How dare he use his brain 😡

Toran_dantai · 2022-06-07T10:17:20+00:00

“Collage kids need free condoms, because common sense ain’t that common”

jackedclown_1 · 2022-06-09T14:21:46+00:00

Bro if you think childern are a gift from God and not the result of unprotected sex, I got a bridge in Brooklyn I wanna sell to you

soapyraen · 2022-06-09T14:33:20+00:00

TheBeardedAntt · 2022-06-10T04:03:55+00:00

This guy isn’t having sex, that’s for sure.

SquishedPears · 2022-06-07T03:47:17+00:00

I hate feminism, it's cancer. Now don't ban me like feminist subs for disagreeing with this initially.

I don't think we should just dismiss the effects of birth control on women, nor should we remove the option of birth control. I think we need to expand the options of birth control so that both sexes can completely determine their reproduction while enjoying sexual relationships.

Is there something I am missing?

WillCuckSmith · 2022-06-06T23:46:47+00:00

That's a stupid thing to say. Sex doesn't have to be for procreation. News flash.

chessto · 2022-06-07T11:11:34+00:00

Wtf that guy's comment is completely uncalled for. What a douche

PlayfulLawyer · 2022-06-07T00:06:09+00:00

But then the dipshit feminists love saying "consent to sex is not consent to pregnancy", I would love to commit a crime and plead to a judge with credibility "just because I committed this crime doesn't mean I consented to being arrested" 🤣🤣

As far as what the guy said here, he's not wrong ,sure procreation is not the only reason for sex but we all understand basic biology here, and if you lay down with a woman, do you know there's a chance she could get pregnant, so this is a very valid question to ask yourself every time

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-06-06T23:40:23+00:00

So have you only had sex with women you wanted to procreate with ? Just curious.

Dude in comments must be a prude. His virtue signaling is nauseating

4543wretng · 2022-06-06T23:33:25+00:00

I wonder if I post this will we get a ban on that's not how girls work?:)))

Chains2002 · 2022-06-07T04:05:03+00:00

This guy is an idiot. Nobody should be expected to abstain from sex just because of the threat of pregnancy.

christia4321 · 2022-06-07T16:35:30+00:00

Well I don't agree with the guy, but there's nothing wrong with having that opinion

Abstract_Knight · 2022-06-08T14:50:40+00:00

That's the women’s decission.

M_Salvatar · 2022-06-07T05:05:43+00:00

So the right to express opinion is non-existent to them? Hmm...fascists they are, dropped the veil of the cunt-side has.

ivanoud · 2022-06-07T10:59:50+00:00

Men learn responsibility from the moment they are born, and most of the time, the hard way.

Women skate by, and some never learn.

SnooJokes1401 · 2022-06-07T05:51:51+00:00

He's violating their right to be a cum dumpster

d_qureshi · 2022-06-07T13:16:55+00:00

The guy is frickin awesome!

TimtheToolManAsshole · 2022-06-07T07:15:54+00:00

He sounds like a decent and great guy

liltigerminx · 2022-06-07T06:25:51+00:00

How is this comment anti feminism and rather equalitarian? doesn't seem like a very equal comment to me :/

MoonShimmer1618 · 2022-06-07T15:21:00+00:00

That type has no self control, like animals. Otherwise they would stop and think just a little

BubblyMud6249 · 2022-06-08T20:35:05+00:00

The guy was being rude and condescending. There was no need for that. Yet, he had to be like; “Don’t have sex then. 😂😂”.

6teeee9 · 2022-06-09T13:29:37+00:00

some women dont want kids at all no matter the man

xXAngelsXx · 2022-06-11T11:05:11+00:00

are you from the 1800's? that person is an idiot, its perfectly normal to have sex without wanting to get pregnant/have a child

the woman was literally taking birth control too? you're just being hateful at this point, nothing to do with feminism

Title	The guy on the comments did nothing wrong
Author	Abstract_Knight
Upvotes	204
Comments	208
Date	June 6, 2022 10:56 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/AntiFeminists
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