Marriage of 5 years, we have a daughter of 3 years old, and I sacrificed my career and advancement to raise our daughter. While I took care of my wife and our daughter, apparently she was pursuing another guy, and after committing adultery, she wants a divorce to pursue him further. She has completely neglected our daughter and myself throughout all of this. And she's telling me that I need to accept the fact that this guy is going to be apart of our daughter's life and that he will treat her right and take care of her. Obviously, she wants custody or shared custody of our daughter. Like, what the... am I dreaming? I cannot believe that this is my reality.