Court next week

No_Pace2396 · 2023-09-27T19:52:22+00:00

Good luck. Don't be afraid of your STBX. Stand tall. Please let me know how it turns out and what state you are from.

captainchippsixx · 2023-09-27T20:36:01+00:00

Use court manners 100% the time. Good morning your honor. Thank you your honor.

Can you prepare a statement so you can read it to the judge? If you can substantiate your ex issues bring the eveidnxe with you.

Mavik52 · 2023-09-27T21:16:43+00:00

If the GAL communicated this to you or your attorney then you can bet on it happening. Judges typically follow the recommendations of the GAL. Like a previous post said, use good manners. Yes or no your honor. Wear a suit. Being nervous is normal, you will quickly see there is no point in being nervous. My trial was 21 court dates over the span of 2 years. The judge spoke to me one time and that was at the reading for the final decree in which he asked if I understood what was read to me. Your lawyer will do all of the talking.

FUMoney · 2023-09-28T04:25:27+00:00

Here's one thing you can do. Anticipate the toughest questions you are going to face. How and where is the other side going to hit you? Think through an outline of their questions. Not the specific wording of a question, just the general topics. And think about how you will answer.

Do this. It will help you on the fly at trial.

Signal-Dot2326 · 2023-09-27T20:34:31+00:00

Good luck to you. Let us know what happens, it sounds like the GAL is on your side which is HUGE

Adventurous_Rain_279 · 2023-09-29T01:06:39+00:00

Be prepared, go through all outstanding questions

Prioritise the most important ones, session goes fast

In your case, financial burden is on you, unfortunately

As well, if kids are small - they might not let you keep the house. To keep house u need her approval, she might not give it As well, she might not allow to sell it as well. Cause she can keep it , if its on both names due to kids under 18

Sometimes, it is easier to give away & sell the house and payback what you owe.

Cause, she might you lock u up in payments : spousal support due to low salary, child support, mortgage payments and others.

As well, dont forget to include all lawyer bills on your side

Title	Court next week
Author	furiousmustache
Upvotes	4
Comments	15
Date	September 27, 2023 7:40 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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