I was feeling pretty down and depressed about everything going on. I found this sub, read the 8 things guys should know, and posted my story last night.

The responses from everyone and finally understanding what is going on helped me big time.

No more splitting the money. No more taking her bullshit. No more negotiations. She's actively trying to screw me over. Its time to go on the offense and not have to make excuses.

She's getting what I'll owe for child support after we're done so I don't have to pay a lump sum at the end and nothing more. If the kids need anything it can come from dad. I'm filing a protective order for the house. I'm done letting her walk all over me.