We have been together 14 years, 7 married. No kids. We have been having the same fights for our entire marriage. Recently I’ve tried to understand more about why she is the way she is and came across this diagnosis as a distinct possibility. Same traits I’ve noticed

  • victim mentality
  • personal, below the belt criticisms
  • selective empathy, shows empathy for others but not me
  • envy and constant financial comparisons of others
  • manipulation
  • gets a rise out of riling me up then watching me act out and then play the victim
  • bad mouth me to everyone

Just thought I’d share.