I’ve posted on here a few times in recent weeks. After 15 years together (married over 8 and a half years), my wife told me that she no longer loved me and wanted a divorce. It will be 5 weeks tomorrow since she told me and it is still very raw and hard to accept. She said that things have deteriorated over a long period and that she cannot find any feeling emotionally or physically to carry on. She has already filed for divorce and wants it over and done with ASAP. We are remaining amicable for the sake of our 8 year old son. We remain living under the same roof until either I buy her out or house is sold. The trouble is I still love her and have told her this daily. I know it’s best to keep contact to a minimum and don’t go pursuing someone that doesn’t feel the same about you as it makes you look weak and even more unattractive. Today marks the day of new beginnings. I managed to get through the day being civil but without telling her how much I love her and “we can work this out” etc. She is spending more time with her friends, going out etc. The positive for me is it gives me valuable time with my son, before we part company for good. I’m sure there are others out there who feel this immense pain that just won’t go away.