I think I am going to leave my wife. We have been together 28 years married for 20 later this year. We have had plenty of problems in life, but I always thought we had each other's back. Apparently, I was mistaken I discovered about 5 years ago she was chatting with someone online. We went to therapy and have changed so much in our life and relationship for the good in that time. Well I recently discovered she was doing it again with the same person.
I now am in a constant state of paranoia. Interestingly I am not really that devastated by her actions like I was the first time. I am really struggling though with being willing to leave. I think I ultimately will, but I have two kids. My wife and I actually get along really well. Obviously, excluding her doing some disrespectful bs behind my back. But how do you break up your family, I can deal for the kids. I won't love life, but I can make it work. So much more to say, but just exhausted with it all.